We clear the complex waters of setting healthy boundaries in relationships, a masterclass designed to empower you with the tools for understanding and creating boundaries that foster freedom and respect. Join us as we navigate the nuances of recognizing and avoiding porous or rigid boundaries and understand the impact of weak boundaries on personal well-being. We explore strategies for balancing personal needs with those of others, ensuring your relationships are built on a foundation of mutual respect and understanding. Discover practical steps for identifying personal, social and value-based boundaries and learn how to communicate boundaries without feeling selfish. As a bonus we tackle the challenges of navigating work-life balance through effective boundary setting, offering insights on developing assertiveness in boundary communication. Sponsor - Magic Mind The world's first mental performance shot magicmind.com/growthMS 56% off Magic Mind discount code: GrowthMS20 10 signs of Boundary issues Difficulty making decisions Feeling selfish for saying no Frequent apologizing Uncertainty about what to share Passive aggressiveness Losing sense of self Need for external validation Resentment A constant sense of fatigue Dramatic relationships Growth Mindset podSam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) Mail - GrowthMindsetPodcast(at)gmail.com Insta - SamJam.zen Chapters: 00:00 What are boundaries 02:24 Pre-roll 02:55 Boundaries in life 05:06 Why boundaries need balance 07:15 10 signs of poor boundaries 11:30 Abusive situations 14:53 AD - MagicMind 16:41 Weak boundaries 18:48 Rigid boundaries 20:36 Why we struggle with boundaries 24:36 Creating healthy boundaries 25:05 Personal Boundaries 25:34 Social Boundaries 26:55 Mid-roll 26:58 Value-based boundaries 28:17 Communicating boundaries 29:59 Traffic light framework 33:32 The importance of independence 36:15 Book suggestions Topics: how to set healthy boundaries in relationships understanding the impact of weak boundaries on personal well-being examples of setting boundaries with family and friends communicating boundaries without feeling selfish navigating work-life balance through effective boundary setting recognizing and avoiding porous or rigid boundaries the role of cultural background in boundary setting practical steps for identifying personal vs social boundaries developing assertiveness in boundary communication dealing with boundary violations in close relationships creating stronger relationships through clear boundaries boundary setting for self-care and mental health strategies for balancing personal needs with those of others overcoming fear of conflict when setting boundaries transforming family patterns with healthy boundary practices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices