In this candid conversation, Louise, Jacquelyn and Ruth discuss why the AAP and NICE have differing recommendations regarding co-sleeping; the varied definitions of co-sleeping, bed sharing, and surface sharing; and how to minimize risks wherever and however you choose for your baby to sleep. Trigger Warning: As necessary for this discussion, we frequently talk about infant cot death and how to lower a baby’s risk of SUIDS. If at any point you find yourself triggered or bothered by the information, please stop and seek further support. We are available to answer your questions and concerns privately, you can find our contact by following the links below. NICE Guidelines Baby sleeping with knife campaign information Further Resources:  https://www.lullabytrust.org.uk/ https://www.basisonline.org.uk/ https://llli.org/the-safe-sleep-seven/ https://llli.org/resources/sweet-sleep/ *** Visit the Having a Baby in China Website: https://www.havingababyinchina.com/ Follow @HavingABabyInChina on Instagram  Check out Having a Baby in China: The Course - A Video Course to learn about it all! ***Enjoying the Having A Baby In China Podcast? Leave us a rating or write a review in your favorite podcast app, share us with your friends, or contact us on Instagram!***