Reviews
I just can not believe that a podcast could put my feelings into words so well!!!! I’m only about 6 episodes in and I can not tell you how many times tears have sprang to my eyes because somebody completely seems to understand how I feel.
3 years into this journey via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/22/24
This podcast is so helpful in affirming and naming the experience I have had and the feelings I have encountered through betrayal trauma. Knowing what I have felt is universal and normal has given me the confidence to trust myself again ❤️
AJFCNM via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/15/24
My husband and I have listened to many podcasts during our recovery process. This episode is, by far, the best, most concise, spot on discussion of betrayal grief. I’ve already listened to it twice and we are going to listen to it together next. Thank you!!
jciahnsjcikwmsh via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/07/24
Its interesting to not the number of times that the betraying partner is described as He and the victim described as She. There is an obvious bias here, and mathematically, it cannot be that only females are victims and only males chose to be unfaithful. It is a huge weakness of the podcast, and...Read full review »
Abraham The Listner via Apple Podcasts · Canada · 03/03/24
I happened upon this podcast and started with the most recent, as we are trying to find our way through betrayal. We are in the divorce process, but it's not what I want, though he does not want to be married; he wants to be free and not committed to anyone. I really appreciated the episode...Read full review »
Amybeth1126 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/01/24
I’m only on episode 13 which I only started this morning but I just can’t stop listening because this has been so insanely helpful and validating for my situation. We can’t afford to get into therapy right now, so I was looking for podcasts to at least help with healing and/or understanding and...Read full review »
AllyB12321 via Apple Podcasts · Canada · 02/29/24
As the betrayer, this podcast has opened my eyes and broken my heart to my actions and the impact on my spouse. It has been challenging, painful, and brutally honest, but does so with grace and hope. I hope that those hurt by betrayal and those who are the betrayers/abusers BOTH listen to this...Read full review »
JJ122487 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 01/08/24
This podcast has been so enlightening in myself individually, understanding my partner, and all of my close/intimate relationships. It’s really helped put a lot of my own feelings into words that I haven’t had the vocabulary for, which has been transformative for me. I have shared this podcast...Read full review »
Fern1220 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 11/20/23
This is a very positive show, and really helps me in my understanding the trauma I caused my wife.
Doc Bony Bone via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 10/26/23
This is an extremely helpful podcast for couples that have to deal with sexual addiction and recovery. Very practical information and tools that can help couples become successful in their relationship.
Mom’s subscriptions via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/18/23
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Bona and Team Capsho via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/06/23
My aunt’s podcast❤️❤️
Breeckjake via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/24/23
Duane and Marnie are experts about betrayal trauma and how to support the healing of the betrayed partner as well as the healing of the betrayer and the relationship. Their podcast has been a huge resource since my first exposure to my husband’s infidelity two months ago. I can’t thank you enough...Read full review »
PlasticHead via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/16/23
I’m listening to a handful of betrayal healing podcasts and this is one of the very best. The person who betrayed me is also listening and it’s helping him understand the pain of what he has done to me and why it takes more time than he expects for me to get over it. The time involved in finding...Read full review »
Reviewer JH via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/01/23
I have found the HCH podcast to be my greatest level of support. Often better than my own therapy sessions. I feel heard and understood, and I come away with greater clarity about my own experience and needs for healing. I have recommended this podcast to my husband (who also finds it helpful...Read full review »
Candicetg2 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/15/23
There are so many bad resources out there for betrayal trauma & recovery….not👏🏻this👏🏻one👏🏻!! So much helpful information. Infidelity is abuse!
jennplenty1031 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/17/23
This podcast has helped me and my husband more than anything else. The DCSR model was a huge epiphany for my husband and the key to understanding why the addiction model failed him and us. This message is so important. Thank you
Indra Weyland via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/16/23
Through a journey sometimes we have to be silent, we don’t always have words to explain. This is a voice that will speak to your heart and help you form words. Very wise and balanced information to support you on your healing journey. I am so thankful for their wisdom and willingness to share...Read full review »
Nourished house via Apple Podcasts · Australia · 03/12/23
This podcast was the first thing I found that actually helped me and a couple years later it remains one of the best resources out there! 10/10!
Shana4443 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 02/28/23
Recovering from betrayal creates a tornado of emotions and feelings sometimes all swirled together at once. These responses and uncertainty experienced can create fear of the unknown as we search for safety again. This podcast helps explain the emotions and responses we (as betrayed partners)...Read full review »
ArtisticMom2005 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 11/18/22
This has been helping me and my wife to listen independently and then talk about together but I really want to say when you say she, her etc is making hard for me to really connect to the information. I was the one cheated on and I’m the husband so please maybe use more general terms. Love the...Read full review »
siddwraith via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 11/05/22
I came across this podcast because I felt like I needed advice I’m in a 1yr relationship with a 8mo old baby with my partner . I never understood why I felt certain ways and I don’t just want to easily quit this relationship since we started a family . I can say as the person who got trauma is...Read full review »
Crxll via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/12/22
As a betrayer, I’m finally getting a better idea of how to reconnect with my partner. Episodes 5&6 are a great starting point
yet another betrayer via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/10/22
I’m only a few episodes in and I have already found validation and resources to help me through this trauma. If you have been betrayed in your relationship. Start here.
andrea146 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/03/22
Thank you for the great content. I have one request. Marnie, can you please stop speaking as if it is assumed that the husband is the betrayer. It is this type of rhetoric that keeps betrayed men in the dark, unable to have their voice heard or feel safe. A quick internet search will show you...Read full review »
jeffgomez via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/30/22
I recently been betrayed by my partner. This podcast has brought me so much support as we have gone through discovery and started out healing process. Although we have a long way to go, I am hopeful, empowered, and am constantly learning the more I listen. Thank you so much for this, it’s really...Read full review »
jenpet02 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/25/22
Finally a resource that speaks to what the partner experiences! This is so affirming and healing.
Queen P454194 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/10/22
Long overdue review…..My husband and I have taken the workshop, listened to the podcasts and are now a part of the couples community as well as groups. This is the only program are have found that works for both of us. We both feel we are heard and helped with HCH. Every topic seems to ring true...Read full review »
char alexa or ma via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/05/22
I have listened to many podcasts and videos on sex addiction and betrayal trauma. This is by far the best. It is informative and compassionate and empathetic to the betrayed so that offenders can understand how to repair a relationship. Some podcasts are too religious (as a Christian I...Read full review »
LisaKnoxLife via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/12/22
Thank you so much for explaining that my trauma response as a betrayed spouse is normal, I’m not crazy.
TonyandBeth321 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 07/06/22
Pretty amazing stuff. Really helpful.
RaoulTittel via Apple Podcasts · Australia · 06/02/22
I had a friend in recovery send me episode 16 to listen to. I have been in recovery for four years, an addict for 18 years. This information is so validating it really puts into perspective the damage I’ve done to my wife. Hard truths. I need to hear hard truths. Dr. Minwalla is spot on when he...Read full review »
Carl in recovery via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/06/22
This podcast needs to discuss betrayal as intentional by a person - meaning that they have already “justified” their deviant pursuit of sexuality through un-ethical and non--monogamous relationships; the shame or guilt of being “found out,” is what they are responding to! In most cases, sexual...Read full review »
CactusFinder via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 05/01/22
I love your podcast and I am in recovery my self. It has truely been helpful and helped facilitate so many healthy discussions between me and my partner around ways for us to look for/grow in our healing together as a couple from my betrayal of her trust. I have loved listening to you guys with...Read full review »
Wikedskaterdude via Apple Podcasts · Australia · 03/12/22
Wouldn’t it have been a good idea, when addressing this particular audience, to offer full disclosure that Neil Strauss is not still married? Instead, the conversation just flowed along, without the disclosure that he was not in fact still married to Ingrid? I found that to be very misguided. And...Read full review »
fruitfuljoy via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/04/22
I just wrote this but prefer it to be anonymous! Thank you! Thank you so so much for your podcast. I wanted to hear from an author and your podcast pulled up—I am so glad it did! I don’t want to stay married (28 years) - it’s 3 years after “D” - but of course I want our relationship to thrive...Read full review »
MAXELLE5 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/02/22
Episode 27..should be listened to by all therapist dealing with couples in betrayal trauma. It is a MUST listen to for couples who are affected by betrayal. It’s a solid guide for healthy and attainable recovery. This an awesome podcast. Every episode is beneficial to me. I 💗 all of them. I...Read full review »
Simplysue2 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 02/01/22
Thank you Marnie and Duane for being so open about this most heartbreaking trauma, for validating and acknowledging what spouses experience
Jane21U via Apple Podcasts · Great Britain · 10/28/21
There are so many issues that are brought up and addressed. I have learned so much. I struggle with having hope that we CAN heal from numerous issues and they cover it all in a way that brings hope.
Mamacanread via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/19/21
I love love love this podcast series. It is so helpful, healing and supportive. I am a partner, 2 years after discovery and I am still learning things from the podcast. It is very helpful to understand how the treatment model has evolved because in my current partner 12 step group there are still...Read full review »
Bible 11:28 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 09/14/21
It’s 17 months since the day and we are both trying to work towards some type of healing in this relationship. This first podcast was very encouraging and we are looking forward to listening to more of Dwayne and Marnie.
winetalker via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 08/14/21
This podcast is a MUST for anyone who’s dealt with cheating or even abuse via gaslighting, this is for YOU!!!
Cared4nloved via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 06/02/21
I can’t tell you how life-changing and eye-opening this podcast has been for me and my partner! Marnie and Duane, you are incredible therapists and I’m so glad I found you guys! I want to help spread your teachings as far and wide as possible. Everybody needs to listen to this podcast!!
Betrayedpartner87 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/19/21
Binge listening since finding this podcast. So much good and helpful info. I wish these people had been my therapist since the beginning. I must now grieve decades of not helpful therapy. Thank you for making this podcast!
skfhudj via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/08/21
I have been in the Addict/Betrayed Partner universe since 2006, with each of us doing the most healing from 2017-present. I’ve listened to a lot of podcasts, and this one is tops. I recommend it often to people who come to our partners’ support meeting not knowing where to start.
CbrookHorn via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/23/21
I’ve been listening to this podcast for over a year now and I simply cannot say enough about the amount of knowledge I’ve gained from each and every episode! Omar Minwalla, Stan Tatkin, and countless others have managed to answer the very questions that have kept me up through so many sleepless...Read full review »
SinkingSwimmer3 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/09/21
After many years of searching for help and being re-traumatized in therapy, I am so happy and encouraged to find information that aligned with my own experiences. Even after years of therapy I have not been able to heal. Thank you for getting this out there!
Anjel F via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/03/21
I started listening to the Dr. Minwalla interviews and felt so comforted by learning of the trauma model and how validating it is. After those episodes I started at the beginning. In every single episode I learn something new about my experience and also learn a better understanding of my...Read full review »
Need to walk more! via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/01/21
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