This week we are getting into position to have the best sex ever, even when we're not feeling our best. It's hard to remember that we deserve pleasure when we're feeling hot, but especially when we're feeling VERY NOT. In this episode, we chat with Sarah Watson a certified sex therapist and sex educator about how to have great and pleasurable sex even when our insecurities are making an unwanted debut. We cover: How to approach sex when you're feeling insecure How to communicate your insecurities to a partner Asking for validation KNOWING that you deserve pleasurable sex Positions that'll help keep you focused on the present The importance of solo pleasure Connect with Sarah Watson: Simplesexeducation.com @Swsxtherapy on Instagram Flow Extreme podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices