Episodes
This month at Honeydew Me, we're learning how to put ourselves out there or, as we like to say, how to PUSS ourselves out there. We're starting off with the juiciest lesson on foreplay and initiation with none other than Haylin Belay. Haylin is a sexual health educator, bodyworker, and pleasure witch who is ready to CHANGE YOUR DAMN LIFE. We cover:
Expanding your definition of foreplay
How to turn yourself ON
Understanding the phases of sexual arousal and USING that to your...
Published 11/01/23
Ever been curious about role-play? Wanted to explore your wild side? Lucky you, because we're closing out kink month by exploring pet play. Tyomi Morgan, a sexpert and intimacy coach, is BACK on Honeydew Me to break down one of her favorite kinky activities. We cover:
What pet play (aka a type of animal role play) is and why it's a kink
How Tyomi engages in pet play and her pet persona
The dom/sub dynamic and what pet/handler relationships can look like
Props and...
Published 10/25/23
This episode has us all tied up and we couldn't be more excited. Midori, a sex educator and coach, is here to share all her tips for bringing bondage and restraints into the bedroom. We cover:
Midori's definition of BDSM (IT'S SO GOOD)
Why being bound is so erotic
How to get started in bondage
Types of restraints (including household items, luxury restraints & more)
Body parts to restrain and body parts to avoid
Dominance and rope games
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Published 10/18/23
You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover:
Sexual communication basics
How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires
Navigating shame around sexual...
Published 10/11/23
It's officially kink month at Honeydew Me and we're kicking things off with a SPICY lesson on how to be more dominant. We're joined by Eva Oh, a Professional Dominatrix with ALL the tips we've been waiting for. We cover:
What makes a good domme both privately and professionally
What gets in the way of us embracing our dominant sides
Setting containers and boundaries
How to build confidence
How to work through shame and embarrassment when being dominant
How to recover when you make a...
Published 10/04/23
We're closing out non-monogamy month with a BANG... or lots of banging. We went to a sex club as total newbies and now we're reporting back to tell you everything you need to know. We cover:
Getting in, getting a tour, and first impressions
All the rules and why we LOVED them
The set up of the club
What we saw and what we DID
Major takeaways and tips for other first timers
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Published 09/27/23
WTF is cuckolding? Why are people into it? Is it something I might be into? These are the questions we set out to answer when talking with Jen Meyer, a licensed therapist and sex educator who specializes in kink and consensual non-monogamy. In this episode, we cover:
What cuckolding is and how it all works
Why it's a turn-on
The different roles in a cuckolding scene
How shame and jealousy play into cuckolding
Figuring out if cuckolding is for you
How to navigate opening your...
Published 09/20/23
Susan Bratton, THE intimacy expert to millions, is back and this time she's breaking down two of her favorite nonmonogamous activities... THREESOMES AND SEX PARTIES. Here's what you can expect:
Susan sells us on threesomes and explains WHY she loves them
Positions for threesomes
What to do when you're feeling left out
IT WILL BE CLUNKY... we cover how to work through that
What it feels like to be double-penetrated
Finding a third
Why you NEED to be making "offers" and examples of how...
Published 09/13/23
First up in our non-monogamy series we’re covering POLYAMORY… because WTF is it and would you ever be into it? That’s what we’re exploring in this episode with sex educator and therapist, Dr. Liz Powell. We cover:
What polyamory is and what it isn’t (aka all the things we get wrong when we think about polyamory)
Why we need to be examining the “relationship scripts” we’re given to figure out what we actually want
What the BENEFITS of polyamory are
What polyamorous relationships can look...
Published 09/06/23
One last catch up and we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. We cover what’s next for Honeydew Me, what we’ve been up to this summer, and reflect a little on the past (but like, in a fun way) 😘
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Published 08/16/23
For our last rewind of the summer, we’re revisiting turn ons with sex educator, Cassandra Corrado. We cover:
How to figure out what turns you on
How to ask for what you want
Giving ✨constructive✨ criticism to a partner
What to do when someone kills the mood
When you accidentally say the wrong name
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Published 08/09/23
It’s the last month of our Summer Rewind and we’re starting off by revisiting an audience favorite: SQUIRTING. Sex educator, Shea Alexander joins us to share the ins and outs of the elusive juices (lol sorry). We cover:
What squirting ACTUALLY is
How to do it
G-Spot basics
Clean up
Talking with a partner about squirting
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Published 08/02/23
Another check in with Cass & Em cummin right atcha. We’re chatting through some of our most TRANSFORMATIVE sexual experiences and our major takeaways. If you’re looking for a little encouragement to take up space and get what you want in the bedroom, we’ve got you covered 😘
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Published 07/19/23
This week, we’re heading ✨down south✨ and revisiting cunnilingus with sex educator Luna Matatas. Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, this episode is overflowing with all the juicy tips you need to have a great time when eating out. We cover:
Working through shame (aka how to stop worrying about how you look, taste, and smell)
How to move your tongue
How to incorporate fingers
Positions
How to engage as the receiver
AND SO MUCH MORE
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Published 07/12/23
Summer can bring up ALL SORTS of insecurities when it comes to our bodies, so we're revisiting one of our favorite episodes with Brenna O'Malley. Brenna, a non-diet dietician, takes us on a deep dive of body neutrality and teaches us how to navigate the crunchy feelings that tend to arise when we start unpacking our relationships with our bodies. We cover:
How to navigate vulnerable body image moments
Whether or not affirmations work
Brenna's top tip for fueling an amazing sex life
Food...
Published 07/05/23
Craving a cozy convo with your besties? Us too. So press play and join us for a quickie 😘 We're talking sex, we're talking marriage, we're talking LIFE CHANGES, honey.
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Published 06/21/23
Fingering is an art, that when done right, is *chef’s kiss*. That’s why we’re revisiting fingering with Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101 and a true va-genius. We cover:
What fingering is and how to make it a MAIN COURSE
Pleasure anatomy and technical basics
How to touch the outside (aka the vulva)
How to ✨enter✨ and what to do once you’re in
Positions
How to add in oral
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Published 06/14/23
We’re gettin on all fours and revisiting a fan favorite… DOGGY STYLE. August McLaughlin of Girl Boner Radio joins us to share all the dirty deets. We cover:
What doggy style is and its many variations
Making the position work for YOU and YOUR BODY
How to make doggy feel more intimate
Finding the G spot during doggy
Stroke tips and tricks
What you can do as the receiver
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Published 06/07/23
We’re diving HEAD first into fantasies with Gina Gutierrez, the Chief Creative Officer and Co-Founder of Dipsea (aka our fav audio erotica app)! We chat about:
How to start incorporating fantasy into your sex life
Navigating fantasies wile you’re in a relationship
What to do if fantasizing doesn’t come easily to you
What to do when something you DON’T like pops into your fantasy (and why this happens)
What people typically fantasize about (according to the data)
Where our fantasies...
Published 05/31/23
Hey you dirty little slut… Dr. Liz Powell is BACK and this time they’re helping us break down degradation and humiliation play. We chat about:
What degradation play is
WHY degradation and humiliation can be turn ons
How sex and shame are connected in our brains
Indicators that this type of play might be for YOU
Boundaries and safe words
Examples of how to engage in this type of play
Aftercare and dealing with feelings of guilt/shame
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Published 05/24/23
Our QUEEN, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, has returned, and this time she's breaking down the concept of "negative" or "bad" emotions. We chat about:
Victoria's thoughts on "negative" emotions
Allowing all emotions to be FELT
Being labeled as the emotions we allow ourselves to feel (sad, angry etc.)
Wanting to more ✨elegantly✨ express your emotions
Being taken seriously when you're upset
Is there such a thing as "too emotional"?
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Published 05/17/23
We’re chatting with sex educator Danielle Bezalel and closing some BIG OL’ knowledge gaps (courtesy of the s****y sex ed we got growing up). We cover:
If using vibrators makes it harder to orgasm without one
How much masturbation is TOO MUCH
How early people typically start masturbating and when to start talking about masturbation with kids
Emergency contraceptive 101
Can you take TOO MANY Plan B’s?
Navigating porn use in a relationship
Feeling in competition with porn
If sex should...
Published 05/10/23
We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about:
What libido is and isn't
The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire
What a "normal" libido looks like
Why low libido isn't inherently bad
How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship
Common libido myths
What can negatively impact your libido
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Published 05/03/23
We’re breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of “Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto”. We chat about:
What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests
How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame
How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us
Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi
Labels in life and social media
What queerbaiting actually means
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Published 04/26/23
We’re headed BACK to your backdoor and talking all things anal masturbation with Dr. Heather Bartos. We cover:
WHY your butt is such an epicenter of pleasure (even when you don’t have a prostate)
Prep and precautions
Techniques for playing with your butt
Internal and external methods
Positions
Toys and other props to try
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Published 04/19/23