This is your wake-up call to stop doing things you don’t want to do.   Right now - think of something that you’ve done recently or have something coming up - that you didn’t want to or don’t want to do.   Now, if you reallllly think about, I bet 99% of the time, you don’t actually have to do it.  You just think you do for so many reasons like…. It will be rude if you don’t go or people might talk about you… or you can’t quit the job you don’t like because you don’t have other options… But here’s the thing…. Most of this we put on ourselves!  It’s our lives- we’re in the drivers seat- there are ways to not do all these things.   I think if we can figure out how to NOT do the things we don’t want to do… while still being a very considerate, kind and good human… we’ve mastered it.    Because guess what- when you’re doing things you don’t want to do- you’re usually not your most awesome self anyway.  Cause you don’t want to be there.   Today we’re getting you out of all the things you think you should do, but don’t want to do… without being an a*****e.