Episodes
0:55 Final episode
1:10 Next step - FBI Dads: The Podcast
1:15 Thank you to each and every one, even if you only listened to one episode
2:30 I hope it saves even one marriage
3:10 Having a father in the home improves to odds of success for the kids
3:45 I hope the FBI Dads podcast helps give parents tools they need
4:00 Thanks to all the people that have helped make this possible
7:30 FBI Dads, at my kid's school, grew from 6 dads to 155 dads (consistently)
8:05 Now it's...
Published 12/11/20
1:25 I've been thinking about this leadership podcast for a while
1:40 If you "lead" your household, you will create leaders
2:03 Let them KNOW they are leaders
3:35 Wait, stop, think... don't just follow, you are a leader
3:10 I've recorded 300 podcasts, I'm a self-motivated leader
3:30 I lead things at school
3:55 I lead my clients to success.
4:10 I bring organizations at school together
4:40 I'm on the board of the Sock-it-to-em sock campaign foundation
5:15 As I'm...
Published 12/04/20
1:00 Glenn Lundy:
3:00 Intentional activities
4:00 Productivity and fulfillment
4:30 Principles of success in parenting: #1 morning routine
5:05 TheMorning5.com Download Glenn's free ebook
5:15 Glenn's BIG 5 things to do every morning
5:40 The typical car business routine... is failing them
7:45 The "67 Day Challenge"
8:15 That's how long it takes to have a physiological change
10:10 Structure and morning routines are the bedrock of parenting
11:07 Preparing for the trip...
Published 11/27/20
0:55 This is MY goal "The respect of my adult children" and no thing or no fling will get in the way
1:15 Examples of HOW that looks along the journey
3:00 We're getting close to the end of this podcast series
3:15 "FBI Dads" podcast is starting 2012
3:45 There is a certain group of people that have a higher level of success
4:00 The Jewish phenomenon
4:45 Education: flexibility, options, knowledge
5:40 The 5 to 6 year jumpstart
6:10 Culturally, Jewish people declare their...
Published 11/20/20
1:03 Children change every day and I have to learn and adjust
1:20 "FBI Dads" podcast is coming in 2021
3:20 Last night me 9 year old had a meltdown about internet service
4:02 Internet "Glitchy" made him a little internet "_itchy" :/
5:05 Voices escalated back and forth, tensions are rising
7:05 After the baseball game, wind down... and it starts up again
8:00 My challenge as a dad... I love my kids but I also must support my wife
9:40 Certain words can be damaging, it's a...
Published 11/13/20
1:00 3-year-old jumping and sticking the landing
1:30 Baseball with the 9-year-old
2:25 Energy is everything, highest energy wins
3:45 One by one they gave him a tap
4:40 Things started going our way and the energy got higher
5:55 I'm NOT a baseball fan, but I am a fan of competition etc.
7:00 Technical advice in the middle of a game?
7:50 Up 9-5 and the closer is brought in
9:05 Momentum going into last night's game
11:05 Then the batting order got switched up
12:10 When...
Published 11/06/20
1:00 I LOVE Halloween
2:05 Halloween was always big in my home growing up
2:50 COVID style... leaving the candy out? Bagged?
3:12 The value in Halloween IMHO is the interactions
4:10 The value is in the questions, gifts, leaving comfort zone
5:15 Ask, get rewarded, learning to face possbile rejection
6:10 Children are being taught to get the reward without effort
8:40 Go, do nothing, get gifts is not the lesson I want for my kids
9:10 Practice is important!
10:30 Virtual...
Published 10/30/20
1:25 My fault, I don't like to ask for help
2:10 We cleaned up part of a road near our home
2:30 "Adopt a Road", elderly and needs help
3:10 We asked the city for help
3:45 We did our part, we helped the city
5:10 Neighbors saw us and thanked us on Nextdoor.com
5:35 But now most everything we need is being taken care of
6:45 People pay attention, a spark can create a fire
9:25 We need leaders to allow followers to do their work
Published 10/23/20
0:55 Kids learn from our examples... Do YOU litter?
1:25 Do we pick up litter when we see it?
2:02 My boys, even at young ages, pick up litter in the park
2:25 "Why do others throw trash on the ground?"
3:20 Follow through, lead by example, whatever it is
4:02 A small area by the train tracks by my house
4:25 Beer and booze bottles and cans and lack of respect
4:50 Respect for our bodies and the planet
5:35 Lack of respect, does it lead to other problems?
6:03 Consequences,...
Published 10/16/20
1:00 Most of us dread this conversation
1:35 We just got back from a cabin retreat
1:55 On a hayride we heard about pumpkins, birds and bees
2:45 One of the parents had just had "the conversation"
3:30 Do I want a 10 year old telling my son or should I?
4:10 I usually research how to do these things
5:00 The boys are busting each other's chops
6:00 Here's my gut, I'll give him what he needs to know
6:25 First, it comes from a place of love and intimacy
7:25 "You did that...
Published 10/09/20
1:10 The Movie: The Social Dilemma
1:30 Devices designed to keep us attached
2:20 He wants toys that he sees online
3:20 Ads pop up, they get data, it holds our attention
3:50 How do they keep me on the screen
4:30 I watched something months ago, but Google is still tracking me
5:55 This is the 'adult brain'... what happens to children?
6:45 They will be enticed to click again and again!
7:35 It was wasting my time so I deleted them
8:35 At what age does my son need a...
Published 10/02/20
1:02 2 games into the baseball season
1:20 As long as he gives 100% effort, the skills will come
1:40 1st goal of every game: have fun, give effort
2:20 Unfortunately, we're results based too often
3:00 It translates into the classroom
3:55 If your 100% effort is "C" work? I applaud you
4:30 Back to baseball practice last night...
5:10 The game ball went to the player who gave 100% effort EVERY game
5:30 Then I gave him the details of how he gave the effort
7:10 Don't talk...
Published 09/25/20
1:00 Because of fear? Not taught?
1:18 Kids mimic our behavior
1:45 What's the right thing?
2:05 I saw a gentleman walking with a cart full of beer
2:50 5 people "stuck like Chuck"
3:50 I don't know, we can't control other people
4:05 I found a wallet though
5:30 With the unrest, and with my looks, I was concerned
7:05 My wallet was lost once, all I ask is to pay if forward
7:55 There is a LOT of good that doesn't make it to the news
9:10 The only thing it took out of my...
Published 09/18/20
1:05 Jeremy Roadruck - Author: Your Best Child Ever
3:00 The one thing that really grabbed me... child trafficking
3:25 #SaveOurChildren
4:04 80-90% of kids are traumatized, are victims of people they know
4:40 People in places of incredible power are abusing kids
5:10 "You can trust me" is spoken by the abusers and the parents
7:20 Parents, listen to your gut
7:55 I took action and it caused a family uproar
9:40 Trust your intuition
9:55 Wearing down the defenses
12:30...
Published 09/11/20
0:55 Some of you may hate me for this
1:15 My wife is consumed with it... it's new to everyone
1:40 I personally refuse to engage and I'm avoiding it
2:35 My update from the first 2 weeks... day by day
3:25 Independent learning day
4:35 By the end of the week, it seemed they had the technology under control
5:10 Kindergartners in front of a computer screen? Really?
6:55 I was expected to go to school, pay attention and do well
8:00 I know a LOT of teachers that feel they...
Published 09/04/20
0:55 Bruce Pulver: Above The Chatter, Our Words Matter
1:45 I listen to how people talk to themselves
2:25 The words we say to ourselves matter
3:05 We were about 30 minutes from the hospital
4:05 She lived another 22 years, the other record was 72 hours
5:00 My father was the "word guy"
6:02 My father's words and my mother's positivity came together
7:30 Be in a place of gratitude, it's incompatible with negativity
9:30 GIFTS: God Installed Features To Share
11:45 My...
Published 08/28/20
0:55 Virtual Learning with Guest Liliana Hererra
1:25 A LOT of parents are finding themselves in new roles now
2:22 First, let's deal with the mindset
2:55 Now, instead of just parents, we're also teachers
3:25 Come from a place of calmness, it will all be okay
3:45 From my coaching practice, I teach that the strongest energy wins
4:10 Your kids are watching, they will imitate you
5:05 I'm a single mom and want to be a part of their world
5:45 Recognize we're...
Published 08/21/20
1:00 No one really seems to know about "virtual school"
1:15 I'm grateful that there is a community trying to figure this out
2:30 There are a lot of questions and doubt
4:35 I guess this entire podcast is about patience
5:00 Show some grace and understand we are all doing the best we can
5:50 You all get 3 questions!
6:45 The first two weeks is just orientation and getting practice
8:05 Special needs, special questions
9:15 I wish you luck and I pray for wisdom and...
Published 08/14/20
1:08 The only 2 fears babies are born with
1:45 But as parents, what are YOU fearful of?
2:00 My wife is afraid of bugs, so my kids are too
3:15 Hurricane, winds, thunder and frightened kids
4:08 Do you know you're safe in daddy's arms?
4:25 It's all about how you share what's happening to the kids
6:10 The fear of the bugs were shared by my wife and her sisters
7:50 Is fear based in the past, present or future?
9:05 Work on overcoming your own fears and don't pass them along
Published 08/07/20
When most guys find out they're going to be a dad, they imagine the kid at five years old already... they don't think about all that goes into getting them to five years old!
Published 08/06/20
0:50 I read an article today with the same title...
1:40 He gives the problem but NOT the solution
2:30 1- Sarcasm is not a good idea + my alternative
5:12 2- If you do that again, I'm going to turn this car around + my example
7:30 3- I love how you think about yourself all the time + my way of looking at it
9:45 4- Don't touch yourself there, it's dirty + I don't agree with that at all
12:27 5- What is wrong with you? + the implication
Published 07/31/20
1:15 "When emotions are high, intelligence is low"
2:00 You've lived a really dull life?
3:30 You can't satisfy 100,000 parents
4:00 There are a lot of things going on now that raise emotions
5:15 Find the most grounded people in your life
5:30 You need to find something to trust
6:45 Push through fear
7:25 Fear is the killer of dreams
9:30 Is he strong enough to say "that's not right for me!"
11:30 Have the guts to listen to your own gut
Published 07/17/20
1:00 When should we send the kids back to school
1:30 Our school gave us a few options
2:18 Then they hit us with a curve ball!
3:00 There are parents out there that have had MAJOR challenges
4:30 Meals for kids... how do they even pick it up?
6:15 A big part of us just wants them to go back to make things easier on us
7:05 Outgoing extroverted kids really need interaction
8:25 None of us are qualified to teach kids
8:50 I want to leave math, Spanish, history etc up to the...
Published 07/10/20
1:00 Last week was about five things to say to your kids every day
1:40 This guess what... TV disruptes everything you're saying
3:15 Our kids have to be confused between what they've been taught and what they see on TV
4:00 The best advice is, don't watch the news
6:20 The mainstream media is destroying what we're trying to teach our kids
8:40 Listen to the words you say, listen to the news in "your" time
9:25 My mom knew she had flaws, but she didn't want to pass them on to her...
Published 07/03/20