"People have to understand there is such a thing as right person, wrong time. People don't want to believe that, there are a lot of people who reject that idea, they say, oh, if it's the wrong time, it's not the right person, that's not true. You can meet that individual that you have an amazing connection with, but both parties still need growth before they can come together." - Stephan Speaks In this insightful episode, relationship expert Stephan Speaks delves into the complexities of timing and personal growth in romantic relationships. He challenges the popular notion that the "right person" will automatically lead to a successful relationship, emphasizing the crucial role of individual healing and readiness. Speaks explores the concept of "right person, wrong time," offering a nuanced perspective on why some potentially great connections fail to thrive. Speaks provides practical advice for those navigating the challenging terrain of love and personal development. He discusses the risks of entering relationships before healing from past traumas, highlighting how unresolved issues can lead to sabotage or retreating to familiar but unhealthy patterns. Throughout the conversation, Speaks emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and intentional healing, offering concrete steps like the "who hurt me" list as a starting point for personal growth. His insights provide valuable guidance for listeners seeking to build healthy, lasting relationships while prioritizing their own emotional well-being.