Episodes
In this mini bonus, D.J. talks with film producer Evie Warner regarding her latest project, "15 Minutes," which highlights male sexual assault. To learn more about the film and Evie, check out her Facebook page.  Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict.  Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual abuse and assault. You may be triggered by what you hear. I advise self-care tools;...
Published 12/12/17
In the Season Two finale, D.J. Burr talks about "Me Too" and how he has been impacted since the nation and the world FINALLY began to take notice of the horrendous behaviors committed against female and male survivors. D.J. expresses a myriad of emotions, and details what he plans to do to take care of himself during this tumultious time. He shares recommendations and offers continued support to those still suffering.    Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle psychotherapist and author of I Just...
Published 12/01/17
In this week's episode, D.J. talks with a friend and colleague, Liz, who reached out to D.J. for help sharing her story of what it was like to be a sexual assault survivor while being in a relationship. Liz talks about an important topic we need to talk more about. Even in a relationship, you have the right to say 'no' or 'not yet' and have your boundaries respected. When that doesn't happen, shame, fear, guilt and anger can destroy you from the inside out. Liz opens up about her self-care...
Published 11/30/17
In this week's episode, D.J. Burr talks with Neil Jaffee, distinguished filmaker and lawyer, about his two documentaries: Off The Record: Justice Denied to Child Sex Abuse Survivors(Best in Show - Rosebud Film Festival) and Pursuit of Truth. Neil and his co-producer, Valerie Gibson, are advocates for survivors and they work tirelessly to educate the public about the injustices survivors endure when coming forward to report their sexual abuse experiences.  Neil talks with D.J. about how to...
Published 11/21/17
In this week's episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with sexual assault survivor turned author and advocate, Eddie Kedge. In 1980, Eddie was kidnapped and sexually assaulted by a serial predator. Eddie says he is a "ten percenter", referring to the statistic that only ten percent of those abused are abused by a stranger. Here his inspiring journey.  To Learn more about Eddie, check out his book Song of Highway 1 South: A Boy's Journey Through Abuse, Neglect and Fantastic Sunsets. Find Eddie on...
Published 10/30/17
    On this week's episode, D.J. talks with author Dan Quennevile, otherwise known as Alter Pain, about his book The Heartest Story Finally Told: Jesus's Glory Divinely Bold. Dan shares what it was like for him growing up; experiencing molestation at a very young age; and living with a man he considered like a father who tormented him emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Grab a copy of Dan's book today! You can email Dan Quenneville at [email protected].  Hosted by D.J. Burr...
Published 10/22/17
In this week's episode, D.J. talks with David Lorenz, child abuse advocate, member of SNAP (Survivors Network of those Abused by Priest) and male sexual abuse survivor who speaks out regularly about child sexual abuse and statute of limitations which prevent some survivors from coming forward with their truths. David was featured on Netflix's The Keepers as he, and other advocates, voiced concerns about the statue of limitations in the state of Maryland. David says we either need to abolish...
Published 10/15/17
In this week's episode of Journey On, D.J. talks with psychotherapist and life coach David Lohman Devore about his experience as a surivor of childhood sexual abuse. David shares on spiritual abuse, shame, and regaining a sense of self after healing from the deep wounds of his past. David offers compelling insight and inspiring action steps you can take to heal each day. David is currently at life coach in Chicago and can be reached at his website. Hosted by D.J. Burr - a Seattle...
Published 10/08/17
In part-two of the premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her personal experience as a survivor. Nanette states early on in the interview that this is her first time publicly sharing about the emotional and physical abuse she endured in her young life. Nanette also shares how her own story helped her write her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed...
Published 10/04/17
In this bonus episode, D.J. talks with Nanette Kirsch, author of Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed, and her husband Craig. Craig provides his perspective as a spouse witnessing the affects of the abuse his wife suffered had on her and their marriage. This intimiate conversation opens up a lot of avenues for further discussion and we hope it gives you, the listener, an opportunity to share how it impacts you.   Each episode of Journey On features real life accounts of sexual...
Published 10/04/17
In part-one of the two-part premiere episode of season two of Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, host D.J. Burr talks with author and survivor, Nanette Kirsch, about her new book, Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed. Nanette had the privledge of writting Denial, which is about a dear friend, David Wagner, and his childhood sexual abuse and subsequent struggles with sexual addiction and mental health problems. David unfortunatley took his on life, but...
Published 10/01/17
Published 09/25/17
This season on Journey On: Survivors Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault, you will hear more inspiring stories of hope, resiliency, and recovery. Men and women are coming together to help one another heal from the abuse and trauma of their past. Our stories are different, but our paths are similar. Join us October 1 for Episode One of Season Two featuring Nanette Kirsch, survivor and author of Denial: Abuse, Addiction, and a Life Derailed.  Journey On is hosted by D.J. Burr, abuse...
Published 09/21/17
In this week's episode, DJ talks his dear friend, Christina about what it was like to lose her father at a young age, and the neglect she suffered within her family of origin. Christina shares what it's like to be a parent while in recovery; dating in recovery as a healthier person; and not trying to control everything in her life. Christina also gives us a glimpse of what it's like to be in recovery from sex/love addiction.    Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and...
Published 09/18/17
In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Seattle therapist Danielle DeBray about emotional intimacy and addiction. In the interview, Danielle references the classic psychological experiment "Rat Park" from 1978, which demonstrated how connectivity beats addiction and she calls for our own "Chimp Park" to beat the various addictions us humans have to other people, places, and things.  Danielle is an expert on emotional attachement, atunement, addiction, eating disorders, and a phenomenal group...
Published 09/11/17
In this week's episode, D.J. talks with Allie Haydon, a licensed chemical dependency counselor, licensed marriage and family therapy associate, who works for Palmer Drug Abuse Program(PDAP) in Houston, Texas. Allie shares her story of alcohol and drug abuse recovery and how her experiences led her to helping youth as young as 12 years old in recovery. Allie says some people considered her a "low bottom/high functioning alcholic," but I think she is a gem for the hard work she does for the...
Published 09/04/17
In this week's episode, D.J. talks with his friend and colleague Christian (Christy) M. Alexander, trauma therapist, about her recovery journey from alcohol and drugs and the impact her addiction has had on her health. Christy opens up about her struggles staying sober while actively working with clients in various mental health settings. With the help of her network, Christy has been able to embrace sobriety and accept the gifts of her own imperfections as gifts to those she treats in her...
Published 08/28/17
In this week's episode, DJ talks with colleague Joe Class about his experience working with addicts in recovery, and his own journey of recovery. Joe's belief is every one has an addiction to something. He explains that he is a soul healer - empowering clients to get in touch with who they really are and strengthening their own sense of self. We have to heal the hurt beneath addictions.  To lean more about Joe Class, visit his website Flowing Water Healing and read his blog post Everyone's An...
Published 08/21/17
In this interview, D.J. interviews his friend in recovery, Christopher DuVall, a recovering substance abuser. Chris tells D.J. about his long history of substance use dating back to the 80s; he once surrounded himself with people who were all about living the fun life and now Chris is back on track and focused on his recovery and education!    Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host...
Published 08/14/17
In this interview, D.J. interviews colleague, Troy L Love, author of Finding Peace: A Workbook on Healing from Loss, Neglect, Rejection, Abandonment, Betryal and Abuse. Troy talks about the attachment theory of addiction and how lack of attachment leaves people vulnerable to addiction. DJ and Troy, both sex addicts in recovery, talk about how sharing their secrets has helped them heal and provided them the strength to help others.    Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist,...
Published 08/07/17
In today's episode of Making An Addict, D.J. talks with Robert Cox - therapist and host of Mindful Recovery podcast - about filling our broken places with addictive substances to numb the painful experiences we encounter in life. Robert's heart stopped due to his previous drug use and abuse and he says "It scared me straight." Robert talks about the benefit of being mindful and practicing mindfulness. Robert's podcast, Mindful Recovery provides mindfulness resources to trauma survivors and...
Published 07/31/17
In this week's episode, D.J. talks with successful entrepenuer Mitch Russo about his polysubstance use and abuse, growing up in New York City in the 1970s. Hard drugs led to intensive inpatient drug rehabilitation which saved Mitch's life. Mitch is the author of "This Invisible Organization" which is the CEO's guide to transitioning a traditional brick and mortar company into a fully virtual organization; and, he is a landscape and travel photographer, recognized for his work by the Sierra...
Published 07/24/17
In this week's episode, D.J. has an intimate conversation with his partner, Alan. DJ and Alan talk openly about their individual family addiction history; Alan's older brother's addiction to drugs and subsequent death; and how D.J.'s addiction and recovery affects their relationship.    Hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse &...
Published 07/24/17
In this week's episode, D.J. talks with fellow podcaster and friend in recovery, Arlina of the ODAAT(One Day at a Time) Chat podcast. Arlina Allen speaks openly about her 23 years of sobriety, as well as her years of active addiction to drugs, alcohol, and men. Arlina goes on to share about early childhood abuse; using drugs and alcohol to numb painful emotions; and what it was like living in insanity.  For Arlina, it all came down to a spiritual solution, regardless of the various addictions...
Published 07/24/17