#040: Choosing The Right Spouse Your spouse is not only your best friend but your companion on the journey of life. If you want to lead more effectively having a spouse that supports and encourages you is necessary. In this episode, Paul and Ken discuss how your key to success is your spouse.   Insights: Leveraging each others strength Elements and traits of spouses Success and support   Challenges: How can you be the best spouse? A spouse is intended to always be your best friend Forget what one gives and remembering what one receives   Attention Getters: Suppose there are times at the end of the day where there’s not much to say.  Are you okay if we sometimes we just sit in silence? Let’s suppose we have a family at some point, What activities do you see us involved in with our kids.   Where do you see our kids going to school?   Do you think we’ll both stay working?   Do you think your job will cause you to travel a lot? Can you see us having a family dog or cat at some point? Do you see us living in town or out in the country? When we’re married, whose family do we visit for Christmas? How many years do you want to wait before we have kids? What are some of the places you want travel to Before we have kids? After we have kids? When do you think we should tell them the truth about Santa Clause? What do you think about always having a date night?   Show Links: LTM Survey Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud Radical Candor by Kim Scott   Be sure to check back every other Tuesday for a new episode and head over to Apple Podcasts to subscribe!   Got a question you’d like us to answer? Email us at [email protected]