Subscribe to Mamamia Sean 'Diddy' Combs has apologised after a horrifying video from 2016 surfaced, that shows the rapper assaulting his girlfriend at the time. We discuss the disturbing shift in conversation since the video was released.  Plus, are we ready for another Bennifer split? Ben and JLO are on divorce watch.   And, a commencement speech from the Chief's player Harrison Butker has gone viral, after he suggested women ditch prioritising their careers and instead focus on being wives and mothers. And well... we have a few thoughts. The End Bits:  Listen to our latest episode: I Have Some Feedback About Your Fit Check Listen: The Efficiency Hacks That Changed Our Lives Listen to The Spill: The Viral Diddy Video And What Happens Next Listen to The Quicky: What Did Diddy Do? Listen to the first episode of Holly's new podcast MID  If you or someone you know needs support help is available:1800 RESPECTLifeline 13 11 14 Donate to RizeUp Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts  Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place.  Want to try our new exercise app? Click here to start a seven-day free trial of MOVE by Mamamia  GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at [email protected] Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Mia Freedman & Jessie Stephens  Producer: Emeline Gazilas Assistant Producer: Tahli Blackman  Audio Producer: Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.