Episodes
Navigating the festive season while dealing with the emotional turmoil of marital separation can seem like a mountainous feat. But here's a promise: by the end of this episode, you'll have a roadmap on how to not only survive this challenging season but also keep your sanity intact. Join us as we unpack the emotional roller-coaster that this season can thrust upon you and guide you on how to process these emotions healthily. Let's talk about that elephant in the room— the surge in divorce...
Published 11/22/23
Ever wonder why certain behaviors can predict divorce with over 80% accuracy? Today, we unpack the mystery of one such behavior known as 'stonewalling', alongside the other three horsemen of the relationship apocalypse: defensiveness, criticism, and contempt. Our deep-dive into Dr. John Gottman's groundbreaking research at the Love Lab, reveals how these destructive behaviors can send a relationship spiraling downward. But it's not all doom and gloom! We also explore the antidote to...
Published 11/15/23
Ever felt like your marriage is on the brink and you're helpless? Today, we bring you a powerful conversation with Melody Oseguera, Director of Coaching at Marriage Helper, who stood for her marriage when the odds were stacked against her. Listen as she shares her journey of resilience, patience, and personal growth, which eventually led to the reconciliation with her husband, David. Hear about the emotional and practical challenges that she faced, from work-life balance and parenting...
Published 11/08/23
Have you ever asked yourself if a broken marriage is beyond repair? Have you ever felt trapped in a negative mindset with no way out? Our guest today, Jared Pratt, Marriage Helper certified coach, takes us through his personal journey from a brink of a divorce to healing his marriage. His story is both raw and powerful, as he navigates through years of frustration, secrecy, and a turning point on a fateful Valentine's Day. Jared's experience is not just a testament of resilience; it's a clear...
Published 11/01/23
Ever grappled with the pain of infidelity, manipulation, or the aftermath of separation in your marriage? Are you seeking clarity and perspective to illuminate your path towards self-love and a healthier marriage? We have conversation with Cody Wambolt, a client representative at Marriage Helper, who shares the stories of those confronting these struggles and the transformations they've experienced. Stories of personal growth and transformation are at the center of our discussion. We...
Published 10/25/23
What if the secret to a healthy and fulfilling marriage lies not in grand gestures or constant compromise, but in the very core of how we perceive ourselves? Join us as our CEO and resident psychology expert, Kimberly Beam Holmes, unravels the connection between self-esteem and marriage. Kimberly helps us understand the difference between self-esteem and self-worth, taking us through the seven areas of self-worth identified by researcher Jennifer Crocker. She emphasizes that only three of...
Published 10/18/23
Ready for the transformation of a lifetime? Strap in as we unveil the secrets of salvaging a marriage, even when it feels like you're the only one fighting. We'll guide you through a proven seven-step process, crafted from the lessons we've learned supporting thousands of couples through their marital ups and downs. Learn how to navigate the initial stages of this journey solo, arming yourself with clarity and calmness because you are the captain of your fate, the master of your marriage. As...
Published 10/11/23
Ever felt the agonizing sting of infidelity in your marriage? Been crushed under the weight of betrayal and wondered if you could ever find solace or if your relationship could be salvaged? We've got you. In this enlightening conversation, we delve into the painful reality of adultery and guide you through pathways of personal healing and marriage restoration. We reveal how infidelity is, unfortunately, a common predicament in marriages, not just among individuals who approach us at Marriage...
Published 10/04/23
What's happened to the sanctity of marriage? It seems today's world has shifted from commitment-based marriages to an era of 'expressive individualism' - but at what cost? Join us as we scrutinize this startling decline and the seismic societal shifts that have led us here. We're diving deep into the statistics, the causes, and the far-reaching implications of this change. Is it the independence of the 'me generation?' What about women's escalating roles in the workforce? We're questioning it...
Published 09/27/23
What if the one thing standing in the way of a healthier, happier marriage is our belief that people can't change? Join us as we flip this myth on its head. We take a deep dive into the reasons behind why people change and how to create an environment that encourages your spouse to evolve in your marriage. We highlight an intriguing case study that shows how our beliefs about someone, and the way we treat them, can significantly influence their behavior and potential for change. In the...
Published 09/20/23
Ever wondered how the intimate ties of marriage can weave into the complex tapestry of business? Ready for an adventure that transforms love in your personal life into fuel for professional success? Today, we unpack the profound connections between commitment in marriage and business. We take you through the labyrinth of falling in love – a four-stage journey that resonates deeply in both personal and professional relationships. We dissect the often misunderstood struggles in marriages and...
Published 09/13/23
Are you prepared to venture into the labyrinth of emotional complexities that lead some women to cheat? This episode promises an honest exploration into a topic that's often swept under the rug. Join us as we unravel the reasons why some women may stray from their marital vows. From emotional dissatisfaction to raw physical desire, we discuss real-life stories to illustrate how women may justify their actions and the devastating consequences that may follow. While we assert that cheating is...
Published 09/06/23
Why do people cheat? Are men and women motivated by different reasons to step out of their committed relationships? This episode delves into the fascinating world of infidelity, examining the psychology and motivation behind affairs. Surprising yet true, research suggests that a staggering 30-50% of couples will experience infidelity at some point. We navigate through the complexity of such actions, exploring why some individuals do not view their actions as adulterous, regardless of societal...
Published 08/30/23
Ever found yourself quickly labeling someone as a narcissist without truly grasping the concept? Today, we debunk myths and misconceptions around narcissism and selfishness. Kimberly discusses the evolution of narcissism from a personality trait to a diagnosable disorder, currently affecting only 1% of the population. In an era where internet has birthed a surge in self-proclaimed 'narcissists', we emphasize the need to fully understand the term and the dangers it holds when misused. We...
Published 08/23/23
People talk a lot about intimacy. But usually when they do, they refer to sex. When we talk about intimacy, we talk about openness, transparency, vulnerability... really getting to know the other person and the other person knowing you seeing deep inside. Are there tips to be able to accomplish that kind of intimacy? Yes. We'll be talking about those on this episode of Relationship Radio. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage...
Published 08/16/23
In today's episode of Relationship Radio, we're diving into a topic that many couples face at some point in their marriage: What to do when your spouse loses their job. 💔💼 Marriage is a beautiful adventure, but it can also bring its fair share of challenges. When the unexpected happens and one of you loses their job, it can put a strain on both your emotional and financial well-being. That's why we're here to offer guidance and support during these tough times. Remember, you're not alone in...
Published 08/09/23
Nobody wants to hear it. And if you've heard it, it hurts... It's when your spouse looks at you and says, "I don't love you anymore." Or maybe they say it like this, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you anymore." Is it over? Is there anything you can do? Actually, there's a lot you can do. That's what we talk about on today's episode of Relationship Radio. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe...
Published 08/02/23
You would think in a marriage that there would be a great degree of intimacy, maybe passion. But sometimes people just feel like they're living with a roommate. If that's you, is there something you can do about it? Let's talk about it on today's episode of Relationship Radio. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam. Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better,...
Published 07/26/23
Your spouse cheated on you, and you've decided that you want to forgive your spouse. And now you find it's a lot more difficult to do than you thought it was going to be. Is there a way to do it? Yes, we'll explain that to you on this episode of Relationship Radio. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam. Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also...
Published 07/19/23
What do you do if your spouse is checked out emotionally? Do you accept it or tolerate it? Or do you do something about it? That's what we talk about in today's episode of Relationship Radio. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam. Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the...
Published 07/12/23
If your spouse has cheated on you, or is cheating on you, the people in your life are probably telling you to divorce, get rid of them, make them pay for what they've done... But you know what? That might be the biggest mistake you ever make in your life. Why? Let's talk about that. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam. Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships...
Published 07/05/23
How do people fall in love? And maybe just as importantly, how do people fall out of love? Well, it's not magic. But there is a secret to it. And we want to tell you about that secret in this episode of Relationship Radio. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam. Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of...
Published 06/28/23
We hear this question a lot... When is it time to let go? Should I let go? It's a simple question that requires a complex answer. Every situation is different, but in this episode we dive into this question and give helpful insight backed by research. If you or someone you know are a victim of domestic abuse, visit https://www.thehotline.org/ or call 800-799-7233. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe...
Published 06/21/23
Over the last few episodes we've been covering the 7 Steps To Rescue Your Marriage (And Yourself) and today we finish that series with steps 6 and 7. Is it possible to bring intimacy back into your marriage? Absolutely. And we'll walk you through exactly how to do that to begin building your dream life together. Learn more about our Save My Marriage Membership Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe...
Published 06/14/23
Can you rebuild trust after an affair? Absolutely. And that is Step 5 of the 7 Steps To Rescue Your Marriage (And Yourself) Today we talk about how calculative trust can lead you further down the path of rescuing your marriage and eventually lead to reigniting intimacy and passion. Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam. Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships...
Published 06/07/23