There’s a myth that many guys believe: that looks, status, or wealth are the keys to a lasting relationship. But this isn’t true. And if you fall for that myth, you’ll wind up in a loveless and eventually boring and sexless relationship.  While these attributes might have created that initial spark of attraction for each other, as your relationship matures, other attributes become much more important.  In fact, I call these attributes the “Four P’s.”  Besides keeping the fire alive in your long-term relationship, the “Four P’s” also create a thriving sex life that both you and your partner find deeply fulfilling.  So, what are the “Four P’s?” How do you cultivate each of the “Four P’s”? And why do many guys struggle with building the “Four P’s” in their long-term relationships?  In this episode, I reveal the answer to each of these questions, so you can build a thriving long-term relationship full of passionate sex, emotional connection, and unconditional love.  Listen now! Show Highlights Include: Why it’s a myth that the key to maintaining a relationship is about keeping up your looks, status, or wealth (and the 2 keys to making a long-term relationship thrive) (1:04) How “P&C” prevents your relationship from slipping into monotony, complacency, and even heartbreak (2:14) The “Four P’s” secret that keeps the fire alive in your relationship and grows into a fulfilling 50+ year relationship (3:09) How going through self-development for the sake of your relationship instead of yourself dooms your relationship to die prematurely (4:06) The fatal mistake most guys commit after being in a relationship for about 6 months (and the “small gestures” trick to prevent this with your wife or girlfriend) (7:11) The weird way embracing more feminine energy can enhance you and your partner’s sexual attraction (13:23) How neediness seeps into your body language, your choice of words, and the tone of your voice, silently alarming your partner to jump ship (18:42) Why your repressed sexual shame will lead to a sexless relationship (and how to create a thriving sexual life with your partner) (26:41) How to reignite the sexual spark in your long-term relationship (even if you haven’t had sex in months) (30:28)  Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I’ve helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I’m therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now. For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Emotional Mastery is David Tian’s step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery