Lukasz and Tanja discuss sexual empowerment and the poly world. Do you need to be sexually open to lots of sex and people to be liberated and sexually healthy? You might be surprised at what two very sex-positive people have to say about it. IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Lukasz and Tanja tackle the real reason you are flagging in the sex department. How you are inadvertently tanking your testosterone and sex life and what to do about it. Phylates are a big culprit, along with soy and deodorant. IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Lukasz and Tanja take a trip to fairyland. Fairyland is the new age blissed-out scene where spiritual seekers go to live in ungrounded unconditional love and high vibration. Is it a great place to hang out? Or should you avoid it at all costs? IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Lukasz Darmosz is Tanja's new guest, and the conversation about tattoos, energy, hidden messages in water, and the intention you carry surprises them both. Lukasz can be found IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

Shibari is the ancient Japanese art of tying knots. Strider is a fan, and this episode has some twists and turns as Tanja weaves the episode into some other considerations when entering the kink world. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Energetic Ethics? What the heck is that when it comes to objectification? Strider has a 5-second rule of looking at someone, and Tanja gets into the nitty gritty of checking someone else out at the gym. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Erotic Authenticity - Strider and Tanja break down what this means. Tanja believes that just because it feels good doesn't mean you should do it—what does it mean to be erotically authentic? There is a lot of juice in this episode. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

Join me and my new guest, Strider John Peterson, as we explore masculine containment. How to show up as a protective man and not be confused about what that means. Create safety when protecting. Reach Strider here https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

It seems straightforward that your family relationships impacted your intimacy abilities, but maybe you have never seen how. James D lets us in on how the relationship with his brother impacted his dating and sex life. A very candid and vulnerable share and interesting look into the complexity of relating.

Life doesn't always give you a break or even provide you with what you want. Dealing with challenges can leave you feeling angry and frustrated, blaming others for those feelings. The inability to deal with these negative feelings will impact your relationships and career. Rejection can be crippling, and we talk about strategies to make sure it doesn't stop you.

James D and Tanja dive into the idea of the Irish proverb, “You don't give a man a weapon until you've taught him how to dance.” There are so many instances where this is applicable, and of course, sex is one of them. Do you use your penis as a weapon.?.. Learning to balance empty and full is the name of the game.

Tanja's new guest is James Deirmendjian https://www.facebook.com/fightfitt Philosopher, and founder of Fit Fight Training, James is a sports-performance coach for BJJ fighters and first responders. I invited him to the show because he had some exciting things to say about men, desire, and aggression... and some pretty fancy vocabulary to boot.

Tanja and Darshan wrap up Sacred masculinity with why you want to access your feelings with a nice little incentive; it's called Feeling MORE sexual and other pleasure. Yes, the 15-30 seconds of pleasure you feel now called ejaculation is such a paltry amount of pleasure you have access to!! Get in the know, increase her desire, your desire, and find out why we get excited about the outcomes... no pun intended. Find Darshan at [email protected] or FB...

Tanja and Darshan believe men can be clueless, but this is a societal and programming problem, not a lack of caring on men's part. Between childhood programming, societal pressures, and ignorance, as a man, you will have to WANT to change things if they aren't working for you. Here are some practical tools to get you started to a better life and sex. Find Darshan at heartspace33healing.com and on FB at https://www.facebook.com/darshan.gregory.333

I have a new guest with me Darshan Gregory, and we tackle the topic of Sacred Masculinity. You know how I tend to get picky when it comes to spiritual words just thrown around like we all know what they mean? So check out what happens with the topic of Sacred Masculinity because most of the time, people can't explain what they mean by these terms, which seem unattainable. You can contact Darshan at [email protected] or find him on FB https://www.facebook.com/darshan.gregory.333

Tanja and Michiel talk about women and what they want. Call this the Euro version because here we get into the fact being friends is NOT a bad thing and the real meanings behind trust, connection, and intimacy. I've seen men and women struggle with the definitions of these seemingly simple words, so we get into it. MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/

Tanja and Michiel tackle polarity because, face it, there can never be enough times we talk about it! So much confusion surrounds the topic, and I think things are getting more extreme and not helping anyone. MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/

Tanja and Michiel get real about how European men and American men differ regarding dating, women, and life. Although you might find this hard to listen to at times, I believe it's critical to understand the dynamics as a man you might be missing. I'd love to know what you think. Are American men Man Babies?

Tanja Talks with a new guest, Michiel Doorn, from 2nd Life Strategies. Tanja and Michiel get together, have some laughs, and talk about a piece of Michiel's Nobel Peace prize, his mission, and some ego banter. Michiel Doorn has authored numerous publications and two books, one in Dutch and one in English: The Mantis and the Mirror. A gifted speaker and teacher who has lectured at two universities, Michiel writes and speaks in understandable and inclusive ways, making complex topics simple...

We talked about Tantra last time; let's talk about Tantric sex and get that clear. Is it all medications, eye gazing, and long orgasms, or??

Tantra, Tantra, Tantra, so misunderstood and misused. Let's get clarity, shall we?

What if sex were just an activity, like going to the zoo. Imagine a world where you could say, Hey, want to go to the zoo, and your partner was like... naw it's kinda cold and rainy, I'll stay home> You were totally ok with that and went to the zoo on your own, and everyone was ok. Let's check it out... we need to have a more light-hearted approach to sex, just sayin'

Yep, they say every man does it, and it's no big deal, but internet porn is causing so many problems in the bedroom. It's being cited as a big reason for divorces as well. Come hang out and find out the true cost of internet porn.

What is a nice guy? Why do we think nice guys should finish last? Because they are actually dangerous. Lean in and find out the difference between nice and kind and why one is what women are looking for and the other is what we all hope to avoid.