Shame has no place for those in Christ. We may have many names- some we know about and others we don't, but we determine what we answer to. Romans 5 tells us that we have received reconciliation,  that where sin increased, grace abounded all the more, and that while we were still sinners Christ...

Love is the greatest commandment because it is the hardest, but He would love first. The church, the christian, and the call.