Shame has no place for those in Christ. We may have many names- some we know about and others we don't, but we determine what we answer to. Romans 5 tells us that we have received reconciliation,  that where sin increased, grace abounded all the more, and that while we were still sinners Christ died for us. For you, for me. Revelation 2:17 says To the one who conquers I will give some of the hidden manna, and I will give him a white stone, with a new name written on the stone that no one knows except the one who receives it.