Summary In this episode, Mike and Alicia Hernon explore the transformative impact of conversations with children. They emphasize the importance of fostering a family culture centered around meaningful dialogue. From toddlers to teens, discover practical strategies for nurturing curiosity, understanding, and mutual respect within the parent-child relationship. Don't miss out on this engaging discussion that highlights the profound influence of conversations in shaping both children and parents alike. For more information on this and other topics visit: https://www.messyfamilyproject.org/   Key Takeaways Conversations form your children, but more importantly, it forms YOU Kids will not always remember what you said, they will remember how they felt.  Conversations should be different depending on the age of the child Conversations should be part of your family culture.  How the conversations happen, when they happen, and what you talk about.    Couple Discussion Questions On a scale of 1-10 how good are we at talking with our kids?  How can we improve?  What is the most difficult part of talking with the kids? How can I get over this?  What assumptions do I make when I am talking to my children?   What are some topics my children would like to talk about?