In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Whenever we go to parties, my husband always makes jokes about having a threesome with one of my best friends. It’s starting to be really weird, and I can tell it’s on his mind all the time. Is that normal? Am I not enough for him anymore? 2) I need help figuring out what went wrong with a great relationship I was having. We’d been together for six weeks, everything was perfect, we made out loads but I didn’t want to have full sex until I was sure of him. When we finally did it, it was good sex…but he didn’t finish. The next morning, we did it again and it happened again. He lost his erection. He didn’t seem unduly disturbed by it all but when he left, he was distant. Then he ghosted me. I’ve heard nothing from him since. Was this to do with him not being able to come? Am I a really bad lover or not tight enough? Why else would he suddenly change his mind? 3) My new partner and I are having the hottest sex I’ve ever had but it’s leaving it’s mark—literally. When he gives me oral sex, he bites my thighs to the point where he leaves bruises. I find it really arousing now but know that once the newness wears off, I’ll just find it leaves me feeling tender. Do I say something now or just wait and see. How common is this? I’ve never experienced it before. To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelU Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.