In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend and we have great sex, but I have sex dreams about other men weekly. What could this mean? 2) I am in my early 50's and became perimenopausal in my late 40's. My husband and I have been together for 25 years. Sex was always okay, but because of my lack of desire and sex being painful, we have not had intercourse for almost 4 years. I will give him an occasional hand job, but that's about it. I feel bad because I know how badly he wants sex, but it's just not there for me. So here’s my question: Would it be wrong for me to suggest he get a massage at one of those happy-ending places? I'm not sure how I feel about it, but if it's just a release he needs and there are no strings attached, the risk seems very low to me, assuming it doesn't lead to anything more. I know that he masturbates often, but it's different and I'd like to offer him some type of alternative that doesn't include me. I'm sure this sounds so horrible but I am honestly conflicted and could use your expert advice. 3) I’ve never had more than one orgasm in a session and would like to try. Can you tell me how to have multiple orgasms and explain what they are? Is it one long orgasm, or are they quite separate? To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelU Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.