In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) How long should you wait to have sex? I’ve been seeing someone for nearly two months and we still haven't had sex. We've talked about it, but it feels like she’s trying to long kick the conversation. The intimacy is great, but I would have hoped for some oral at least? It does feel like she’s not as interested in sex as I am.   2) I have been very happily married to my best friend for almost 35 years and raised four awesome kids. We have always had a great sex life. My husband has struggled with ED (Erectile Dysfunction) for the last 15 years. He's not able to take Viagra for health reasons. Instead they gave him Tri-Mix, an injection that produces erections that last 3 to 4 hours. So does he! He's very attentive to my needs, but I can’t go that long. What’s worse is because he's found this new game changer, he wants to have sex every other day. The spontaneity has gone, and I am now dreading sex with him. It feels scheduled and mechanical. I miss the days of the ‘slow work up’ to love making, knowing my many talents are working on him. I am finding myself flirting with other men and fantasizing about them. Please help! 3) We have great sex that’s very passionate and fulfilling and have been together 11 years. We’ve also had over 12 breakups and makeups. We’ve never lived together—not my choice. Do you have advice on how to build a solid relationship? We’re a straight couple and both 58. To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelU Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.