In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner’s favorite position is doggy-style in front of a mirror. I hate sex from behind—I like face-to-face positions so we can kiss. I also hate watching myself naked because I focus on all that’s wrong with my body and can’t enjoy myself. My partner knows this, but I also know it’s his favorite thing and don’t want to deny him. Any tips on how to keep both of us happy? 2) I am in my 50s and have completely lost my libido. I thought when I started HRT this would resolve, but it hasn’t. I’ve tried several different types, but to no avail.  I have a stressful life working shifts and I’m also doing a demanding academic course part-time. My husband of seven years equates sex with love and is really fed up as I never initiate sex and we don’t kiss much. I have contacted my doctor, but they have done nothing to help. Please help, as I’m scared my husband will walk away. 3) My new boyfriend is uncircumcised and this is totally new for me. Any tips on how to give a hand-job and oral sex to a man who has a foreskin? Because it’s early days, we’re using condoms and practicing safe sex. I’m also struggling to get the condom on—and for it to stay on.  To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelU Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.