Episodes
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Sex Coach and Author of "Living Your Erotic Potential," Mark Casey. He also talks about the importance of breathing and how it can affect your sexual performance. As an adult, Mark was a business coach, and when he chose to become a sex coach, he discovered those skills were still applicable. Mark felt he had a lot of erotic energy flowing through him from an early age but had no constructive guidance until much later in his...
Published 03/07/22
Published 03/07/22
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji continue their talk with Ray, Rae, and Lei. Ray talks about how his father's absence made him strive to be a better man to his children. Rae talks about when she came out to her family and why she was hesitant about it. Lei tells us about her pressure, setting an example for her younger siblings. Want more Monogam-ish Podcast: https://linktr.ee/monogamishpodcast 🍍🍍Going to a Play Party? We recommend these items for your BYOS Bag...
Published 02/28/22
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to a beautiful throuple whose names sound like notes in a solfeggio, Ray, Rae, and Lei. Ray and Rae are a married couple who met after Ray got out of a messy relationship; Rae had a child at a young age and only wanted a casual hook-up. Still, they caught feelings for each other and dedicated themselves to building their relationship in the lifestyle. Lei had only been on in a few relationships, up to that point, before she met...
Published 02/21/22
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Duane Allen, Director of Colorado Center of Alternative Lifestyles (COCAL); Duane is a retired, disabled veteran and a self-described "hedonist." He has participated in alternative lifestyle communities for the last two decades.  Duane tells us how he got curious about kink from when he saw Hellraiser the first time and when a friend dared him to go to a stranger's house for a naughty engagement.  He also speaks about how he...
Published 02/15/22
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji speak to the insightful "Pleasure Priestess," Erin Berry.  She is a certified Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach that holds regular online coaching for people all across the globe—helping people discover their deeply held trauma so that they can heal from it.  Erin also talks about her own experience with being monogamous and finding the joy of ethical non-monogamy after a failed marriage. Erin is holding two upcoming events. Tantra...
Published 02/07/22
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome back to Trisha, Producer Drew's Wife. Trisha talks about how she viewed compersion and shaped her relationships with her husband and boyfriend. She also talks about how she discovered the pleasure of using a strap-on to play with other ladies and then other men—that and more on Monogam-ish Podcast. Want more Monogam-ish Podcast: https://linktr.ee/monogamishpodcast 🍍🍍Going to a Play Party? We recommend these items for your...
Published 01/31/22
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Brenden and Danielle about their exploration into the Lifestyle. Brenden came from a traditional Christian family where those rules suffocated him to the point he needed to escape. Danielle was the black sheep of her family and refused to be shaped by her family. They both discovered their paths to the Lifestyle through trial and error. Listen more to find out how. Explore more: https://linktr.ee/monogamishpodcast --- Send...
Published 01/24/22
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome onto the show Yvenne and Genesis. Both girls have gone through tremendous hurdles throughout their childhoods. Yvenne had been dealing with her gender identity since high school and the aggravation that comes from that. Genesis grew up in a broken family that revolved around staunch catholic values and denial. From that, they grew to become better and loving people. Listen to find out more!  Follow the link to view more...
Published 01/17/22
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome onto the show Chanel Bee.  Chanel is a content creator, web designer, and marketeer.  She tells us about her upbringing, early relationships, and how they shaped how she wanted to be treated later in life.  Find out why Chanel is the exception to the rule of never entering the lifestyle as a way to fix your relationship.  And why it is always hard at the beginning of exploring the lifestyle. Be sure to check out Chanel Bee at...
Published 01/11/22
In this Episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome an extraordinary guest, Ken, and Danyell, the owners and operators of Summit House Parties.  They talk about how they first started running a Bead and Breakfast and throwing house parties and how vindictive and envious people in the lifestyle community attempted to shut down Ken and Danyell's parties.  That and more.  Don't forget to visit our website to see their Open Letter to the community.   --- Send in a voice message:...
Published 01/03/22
On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Nathan Travis onto the show. He is a part of a seven-person polycule and will be appearing in the Netflix show "Sacred Spaces," involving him and his polycule. Nathan tells us about his early days in polyamory, while he made every mistake he could. In doing so, he cultivated enough wisdom to teach those curious about polyamory and guide them. Don't forget about his Couch Confessional seen on our Patreon! Listen to his episode...
Published 12/27/21
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Erin and Lucas onto the show. Erin has been a primary care and gynecology/obstetrics practitioner for six years.  Lucas owns his security company.  Before she met Lucas, Erin had been in the lifestyle for many years.  Listen to the episode to learn more.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/monogam-ishpodcast/message
Published 12/22/21
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Kris and Lisa to talk about being demisexual in the lifestyle.  Lisa and Kris met while Lisa while working abroad in Canada; Lisa explored the scene while up north and ran into Kris on more than one occasion.  Early in their relationship, they decided that jealousy was a waste of time and energy, and they did not want that anywhere near their relationship. That and more on this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. -- Support us on...
Published 12/15/21
On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to a hardcore hustler, AJ Fox.  Growing up, her exposure to abstinence-only sex education led her to believe that her sexual desires were shameful. Despite her staunch conservative upbringing and teen pregnancy, as soon as AJ turned eighteen, she began doing sex work.  Her main clientele, at the time, were gawky college kids that had little-to-no confidence but wanted "practice."  After turning out virgins, she harnessed her...
Published 12/06/21
On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Mistress Saskia and Mike Charming to talk about BDSM and running The RACK room here in colorado.  Mistress Saskia graces us with her decade's insights being a professional dominatrix, like how to remove someone who's passed out on a cross safely.  Mike Charming tells us of how he started in DC and brought his experiences to Colorado.  Make sure to check out the RACK Room by visiting their website here. --- Send in a voice...
Published 11/29/21
In this compelling episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Ella Barnett onto the show.  Ella tells us that she didn't like being monogamous when she was younger and believed it was a defect in her character.  After two failed marriages, she gave up on having any hierarchical relationships and concentrated on herself. Being a full-time nanny was how Ella supported herself and her kids; however, the pandemic hit.  Ella being the sexy exhibitionist that she is, turned to...
Published 11/22/21
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji sit down with Sasha to talk about her adventure into the lifestyle as a single, Solo-Poly woman. Sasha started her journey when she realized that she needed to break her cycle of abuse from her former partners. After two disastrous relationships, she discovered the lifestyle and has never been happier.  She tells why she only considers people in the lifestyle and goes for partnered people.  Listen in for more! --- Send in a voice...
Published 11/15/21
In the Season 3 Premiere of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome; Helen and Roy are onto the show.  These two sexy beasts talk about their journeys to the ENM lifestyle.  Helen hails from a small town in Colorado, rife with conservative, abstinence-only sex education, and became the "Virgin Slip Collector" to many boys. Roy, also coming from another small town, was told repeatedly by his mother that he would have multiple girlfriends, which culminates in Roy losing his virginity in...
Published 11/08/21
On our Season Finale Episode of Monogam-ish Podcast.  Justina and Kenji welcome Michael and Bev onto our show. Michael and Bev are both famous for hosting the "Raven's Nest" house parties in Colorado.  Michael had been active in the San Francisco swinger scene for years after discovering his innate need to have sex with multiple people, or as he puts it, "He was Multi-Sexual."  Bev, on the other hand, discovered her newfound sexuality after a butt-dialing incident with her ex-husband.  When...
Published 08/02/21
In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast.  Justina and Kenji sit down with Urvashi and Kama, the owners and operators of Spark Erotic.  An Erotic Film company that specializes in making high-end, cinematic, erotic films.  What started as a fun hobby of shooting erotic photographs soon became a full-fledged career producing sincere and sensual films.  Kama shares his personal philosophy on what makes his films different than porn made today.  Kama and Urvashi tell us about the documentary series...
Published 07/26/21
Justina and Kenji, welcome to the show, internationally-renown sex therapist and clinical psychologist Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb, to talk with us once again.  Dr. Rhoda tells us about her experience as a sex therapist specializing in AB/DL, Adult Baby/Diaper Lover patients. and how she coaches them in accepting themselves and easing their partner's worries.  Also, Dr. Rhoda tells us how the pandemic and the rise in mental health advocacy has made for a busy year.  Visit Dr. Rhoda at her website here.
Published 07/05/21
Justina and Kenji, welcome to the show, Award-Winning Documentary Filmmaker Dillon Birdsall.  Dillon talks about his first documentary, "V-Card: The Film," and his journey to find out what people thought about virginity while he was a virgin at the time.  For Dillon, if he hadn't had the group of friends and family he had, he thinks he might have become an Incel, full of self-loathing, hate, and fear.  His next film, which is in production, "More Than Monogamy," seeks to normalize and educate...
Published 06/28/21