Episodes
Welcome back! Today we're diving into listener questions.
what we talk about:
is it a red flag if they say they don't like labels?
getting from "exclusive" to DTR
should you double text or consider it ghosting?
is it a red flag if they don't wish you a happy birthday in early dating
how to handle "awkward" silences on dates (& in relationships)
what to do when you can't get past the 3 month mark in dating
exchanging numbers on a dating app before going on a date
&...
Published 04/29/24
Welcome back! Today's episode starts with a step-by-step guide to creating the best possible dating app profile for better matches and better dates that will lead to a relationship. We end with three listener questions (starting at 30:40).
what we talk about:
How to pick the best photos for your app profile
A specific breakdown of what photos to use
Which prompts spark the most conversation
How to write better prompt responses (with examples)
A listener question on saying I love...
Published 04/22/24
Welcome back! It's episode 200 (!!) of Mostly Balanced, and today we're joined by content creator and 2x TEDx speaker, Lucie Fink.
what we talk about:
a brief rundown of Lucie's career and why she recently decided to start her podcast, The Real Stuff
Lucie's relationship with her now husband, dating back to high school, college, and moving to NYC
maintaining independence and a sense of self in a relationship
how we were both impacted by having a twin
friends and family members with...
Published 04/15/24
Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions...
what we talk about:
How to book a live 1:1 dating consultation with me before the prices increase!
Should you try again with someone one year after a first date that never panned out?
Is it weird for a dating app match to mention other dates they have planned?
If you go on a great first date but the person says they aren’t looking for something serious at the moment, should you still try a few more dates to see where it might...
Published 04/08/24
Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions...
what we talk about:
how to enter our 100K giveaway!
what you should know by dates 3 and 5
timelines in dating and relationships
is it a bad sign if they update their app profile after a few good dates?
what to do when you're a few dates in and you haven't talked about what you're looking for
should you stay with someone when you know there's potential for a relationship but they aren't there yet?
& more!
As...
Published 04/01/24
Welcome back! Today we have Ilana Dunn, host of Seeing Other People, back on the podcast.
What we talk about:
Ilana’s dating patterns before meeting her fiancé
Conversations she had before getting engaged
Tips for better communication in relationships
The hardest parts of wedding planning, why she isn’t having bridesmaids, and what she’s looking forward to most about being married
What to do when your family is disappointed about your breakup
Boundaries to set early on in dating
...
Published 03/25/24
Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions...
what we talk about:
how to enter our 100K giveaway!
how to integrate into each other's lives in the early dating stages
what does it mean when someone keeps viewing your social media?
how to get past your bf dating someone else while you were on a break
what to do if you feel like you aren’t in someone’s league but they ask you out
what to do when you're 2 months into a relationship and it feels like you barely know each...
Published 03/18/24
Welcome back! Today we're chatting about questioning whether a relationship is right for you.
what we talk about:
how to enter our 100K giveaway!
early signs someone isn't the one
signs a relationship isn't right
habits of healthy relationships
how to end things with someone you still care about
& more!
Posts I referenced:
10 Signs Your Relationship is Over
9 Qualities That Are Not Healthy In A Relationship
11 Tips For Ending Something With Someone You Still Care...
Published 03/11/24
Welcome back! It's just Carleigh today and she's diving into listener questions.
what we talk about:
should you tell a friend you have feelings for them? + how to do it
what to do when someone blocks you
should you send a letter/text to a friend or ex after a breakup?
what to do when people tell you you're "hard to read"
how to be more vulnerable and open up more in relationships
how long should you want for attraction to build/arise + how to make it build
dates you should be...
Published 03/04/24
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Mackie Swan ,CEO of Woo More Play, a sexual wellness brand on a mission to inspire people to have better sex.
what we talk about:
the origin story of Woo More Play & the products the offer (including my fav coconut love oil 👀)
the benefits of using lubricant during sex
why the *right* lube makes such a big difference
the physical and mental benefits of orgasms & healthy sex life
how to talk more openly about sex in a new relationship
...
Published 02/26/24
Welcome back! Today we're joined by (returning guest) Alessia Scauzillo, @alessiasculpt, founder of A Sculpt Body. We dive deep into how Alessia's life has changed over the past year, her divorce, and her dating experiences since then.
what we talk about:
signs you and your partner are growing in different directions
ending a relationship when nothing is really "wrong"
getting back into dating after a divorce or breakup
recognizing signs of a toxic relationship
how to date more...
Published 02/19/24
Welcome back! It's our first episode since we went on a brief hiatus, and what better way to kick off this new era of Mostly Balanced than with the internet's favorite therapist and dating expert, Jeff Guenther, LPC—or, as you probably know him, @therapyjeff.
what we're talking about:
Jeff's upcoming book, Big Dating Energy (*preorder it here!!)
what's holding you back from meeting your person
how to be more successful on dating apps
how to actually get approached IRL
how to let...
Published 02/12/24
Welcome back! Today we're diving into listener questions all about early stages of dating, plus Mia shares advice on wedding planning and dress shopping.
what we talk about:
How to not get overwhelmed when wedding dress shopping
What to do when you feel like they're waiting for you to say "I love you" first
How soon is too soon to say I love you?
What to do when you plan a date but they don't follow through to confirm
Are dating apps slow right now?
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Published 12/05/23
Welcome back! Today we're chatting all about spending the holidays with a partner's family (or taking them home to yours!) and about meeting the family in general.
what we talk about:
gift ideas for significant other depending on stages of the relationship
when you should start sharing holidays with a partner
how to set your partner up for success when meeting the family
what to do when you're nervous your family won't like your partner
advice for meeting their family for the first...
Published 11/28/23
Welcome back! Today we're opening with listener questions about how to split up costs on early trips with your partner and whether someone giving a heads up about post-date plans is a bad sign. Then we're diving into an entrepreneurship-focused episode with Rachel Glass, founder of Glosslab!
What we talk about with Rachel:
How she came up with the idea for Glosslab
The transition from working in finance to starting her own business
Balancing being a wife, mom, and business owner
How...
Published 11/14/23
Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions and sharing our own experiences on a range of dating/relationship issues.
what we talk about:
How to bring up the topic of gifts with a newer partner
How important is physical attraction in early dating?
Can attraction grow?
What to do when you feel a shift in energy early on in dating
& more!
Find us on Instagram at @mostlybalancedpodcast and email your questions to
[email protected].
Thanks for listening!
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Published 11/08/23
Welcome back! Today we're answering listener questions and sharing our own experiences on a range of dating/relationship issues.
what we talk about:
How to deal with anxiety while SO is traveling
Whether we think you should tell someone you cheated or just break up without giving a reason
Age gaps in relationships
How our past relationships impact our current relationships
How to set communication expectations with a partner
What to do when you have a lot of great first dates but...
Published 10/31/23
Welcome back! Today we're answering questions about how to motivate yourself to date when you love your single life, if you should consider getting back with your long distance ex who is moving to your city, how to bring up marriage with your partner who is divorced, and how to grow intimacy in a long distance relationship. We also talk about the struggle of saying no to plans when the answer is "I just don't want to".
Find us on Instagram at @mostlybalancedpodcast and email your questions...
Published 10/24/23
Welcome back! Today we're diving into a listener question about what to do when you think your friend could do better—but they're about to get engaged. Should you tell your friend you don't like their partner, or should you keep it to yourself? We share our own experiences with friends expressing their concerns over our past relationships and how we'd approach the conversation with one of our friends.
Plus, we answer two brief listener questions about whether watching porn is cheating and...
Published 10/17/23
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid fire listener questions about how to stop feeling resentful of things you put up with in past relationships, what to do when your partner doesn’t understand you need alone time, feeling like you’ll never meet someone, catching your boyfriend talking to other girls online, and whether you should try again with a toxic ex if you’ve both changed.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Thanks for joining us and please leave a...
Published 10/03/23
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Natassia Miller, sexologist and founder of Wanderlust.
what we talk about:
talking to your partner about sex
how to keep the relationship exciting
one key indicator of whether the relationship will be successful
how to make the sex better
how to improve intimacy during sex
& more!
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Published 09/26/23
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Vanessa Marin, licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field, and her husband, Xander, chatting about all things sex and intimacy.
what we talk about:
Why Vanessa decided to be a sex therapist & how Xander decided to start working with her
Each of our experiences getting (or not getting) "the talk"
How to actually talk to a partner about sex (no matter the relationship stage)
What to do if you've been faking it...
Published 09/19/23
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid fire listener questions about what to do when you feel like you're arguing too much early on in a relationship, how long to banter before asking them out yourself, how to deepen the conversation 4 or 5 dates in, and how to get your partner to plan more date nights.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
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Published 09/12/23
Welcome back! It's just us today and we're diving into a longer listener question about a 6 month relationship that ended abruptly. How do you close the door when the other person leaves it slightly open? Can you try again once you've both worked on the issues? We also answer a listener question about how to improve communication in a relationship and share what we've each learned about our own communication style. We wrap up by giving advice to a listener who feels stuck in their career and...
Published 09/05/23