Only YOU can end a covenant with a narcissist, and it is not in a narcissist's interests to end this unspoken agreement with you. The illusion created by a narcissist upon discard is that it is they that hold the power to control the relationship's trajectory and that it is you that need them. The facts of the situation are that narcissists cannot exist without narcissistic supply and others believing in their false mask, thus they nearly always hoover. The dynamics of a relationship with...

There comes a time in your life when the truth is revealed to you very clearly in a relationship with a narcissist or as a result of a lifetime encountering them. At this point we all have a choice to make to either draw a spiritual sword and chose our own selves and values over those of the darker aspects of the narcissistic way of life. This is a life transformative crossroads where choosing other than your own values and prioritising those precious beliefs in truth and goodness would most...

Your silence post discard is the best possible healing tool for you and the worst possible outcome for a narcissist who is reliant on your negative emotional output for narcissistic supply. Disrupting this particular stage of the NPD behaviour cycle does not go down well with a narcissist. Your silence makes a very loud noise in a narcissist’s head particularly when supply runs low from other sources. For the narcissist’s former partner no contact or going silent expedites healing and is...

Our personal spiritual energetic emotional intelligence can alert us to the presence of a covert narcissist's demonic energetic field. This Educational podcast discusses how our emotional energetic radar can become specially developed to alert us to who is good for us to enter into relationships with and who has not got our best interests at heart and ultimately wants to use us until we are scoped out shells of our former selves. Going back to our instincts for survival and tapping into that...

Covert narcissists are often found partaking in parental alienation as a form of manipulation and control over their former partner and joint children. Parental alienation is now recognised by legal systems in many parts of the world and taken into account in custody battles. This podcast was requested on a voluntary non profit basis by a channel member and fellow content creator whose channel is linked below. Parental Alienation Awareness Day - 27th April 2024 Venue: The Grange Hotel,...

Narcissistic Collapse will occur throughout a narcissist’s lifetime on various occasions when their narcissism fails to achieve its agendas on multiple fronts and supply levels are very low. Narcissists can suffer mini collapses and major and final collapses in the majority as a result of their past and present behaviours coming back to haunt them. Too often narcissists act in the moment without looking at the long term consequences of poor decisions. It is important to be aware of how...

Outsmarting a narcissist is all about understanding their predictable behaviour pattern and not reacting in a predictable manner. Saving a loved one from a covert narcissist requires a well thought out and executed strategy. Using the royal family as an example of the above informations use, king Charles, Queen Camilla, Price William and Princess Katherine, with reference to the recent (kategate) episode and the possible Sussex squad involvement we can assess this theory in a possible...

Signs you may be with a narcissist can present in the manner in which a person conducts themselves in a physically intimate relationship. There are 20 common features or signs that you may be having sex with a person who is a covert narcissist in this educational resource. While this list is indicative of narcissism it is not exclusive to narcissists and must be considered only in light of other indicators as outlined in the DSM. These 20 signs of how a narcissist operates in an intimate...

A relationship with a covert narcissist will bring a narcissist’s primary supply target as close to a living hell psychologically, spiritually, emotionally and physically as it is possible to go in terms of human relationships. So many people are either distracted or taken completely away from their life’s purpose and lose self belief as a direct result of a relationship with a narcissist. Understanding and educating ourselves thoroughly as to what npd actually means will greatly facilitate...

‘Kategate’ as the onslaught of (Princess Catherine) has been called is a persistent harassment of an individual who is the target of a narcissist. The agenda here has become very twisted as each machination fails to succeed in its destructive intent. This public campaign is analysed with this podcast and is my take on what’s really going down here and looks at all the possible agendas with their twists and turns, that may resonate in some way with your own ‘troubles with a narcissist’....

Covert Narcissists often established strongholds where they recruit other like minded dark entity styled individuals to work in a group setting. There is normally a lead narcissist conducting the coven or mini empire as the drama plays out. This group works in tandem to suck in talented and unsuspecting supply sources/person to use for purpose as a cover for what’s really going down behind closed doors. Once this person learns the true nature of what’s really happening and uncovers the...

The significance of sharing our experiences of healing and recovery post a relationship with a covert narcissist cannot be underestimated. Narcissists try to gaslight their targets into believing that they are the problem and uniquely crazy as an individual. Understanding what happens to each of us (after the narcissist) as a shared experience can alleviate that crushing deception that the experience is unique and we alone are the problem. Basically, you are not alone and there is a lot of...

How does getting older affect a narcissist? A question that is often asked, Does a narcissist mellow with age and improve, or become worse? Let’s delve in here as to, firstly how the aging process affects a narcissist and, what way do they react to the effects of age in relation to their abilities to obtain narcissistic supply. It’s interesting here to note that some of a narcissist’s priorities change with age and, to observe which manipulations are chosen to ensure they continue to control...

When a person shows you who they are, believe them..this famous quote is so true. We oftentimes don’t want to accept the fact that a narcissist’s behaviour deviates so much from normal human expectations and experiences. Unfortunately a true narcissist is devoid of empathy, and introspection/accountability and the false mask presented to the world often leads to cognitive dissonance in the narcissist’s target. This coupled with a normal human beings desire to forgive and empathise can lead...

It’s often useful to analyse a public figure whose actions display characteristics of a narcissist in real life terms. This podcast is an up to date analysis of Prince Harry and Megan Markle’s, or (The Duke and Duchess of Sussex as they prefer to be known), recent behaviour in the public arena. Examples of an opportunity to hoover, the hoover failure and the predicted potential of a smear campaign that I believe will follow, once all avenues to the target/Royal Family have dried up. This is...

Traditionally covert narcissists are thought to lack the ability to be intimate due to the effective blocking of their narcissism to any perceived vulnerability a quality necessary for intimacy to occur. However, this podcast challenges the traditional theory of loving intimacy with a dark version of an entrapment style shared dark intimacy, between narcissist and their target. Understanding this dynamic can be very helpful in healing once the relationship with a narcissist has entered the...

Narcissists are the total opportunists and will manipulate special occasions like there is no tomorrow! Valentine’s Day, your wedding day and too often Honeymoons are ruined and utilised by covert narcissists to extract narcissistic supply and exert control over their intimate partner and families. Dependent on the difference stages of a narcissists cycle and their current agendas, the manipulation of romantic occasions is seen as a perfect opportunity to exert emotional control over their...

It’s so important to be fully aware of the spiritual energy drivers of narcissism and the added clarity provided from a spiritual angle. The combative and destructive energy of a covert narcissist needs to be exposed in simple terms for the target of a narcissist to plant their feet firmly on the ground in their recovery journey. While psychology is an excellent tool to explain human behaviour patterns it veers away from assigning accountability in terms of right and wrong. A lot of...

Discovering how the Covert Narcissist entered your head, heart, spirit and soul will greatly assist you in showing them the Exit. The process of #rumination #post a narcissist’s discard and subsequent recovery can be arduous and confusing. Understanding fully the cause of the problem can really help to effectively solve it. Going the correct way about your healing journey can be so very rewarding and can actually lead to greater success and awakening than you ever may have...

Based on some wonderful subscriber/community comments, we delve into practical examples of the behaviours of NPD individuals, otherwise known as (Covert Narcissists). Sometimes it’s harder to identify behaviours in a generalised way when educating ourselves on who and what a narcissist is, these practical examples and situations may assist in that process. When we pull together as a community we can help another to experience those ‘light bulb’ moments by sharing typical experiences with...

The spiritual energy of a covert narcissist is often described as demonic for valid reasons, as the outcomes of narcissistic behaviour are destructive and malignant in nature. Looking at all the main drivers that motivate a narcissist, 7 spirits of a demonic energy are a constant theme in the narcissist’s makeup. A relationship with a covert narcissist is often difficult to describe in terms of the unseen malevolence towards the target. Here we describe in detail those 7 demonic spirits as...

Post the narcissist’s cruel discard of their target, the narcissist fully expects a slow and painful recovery process to ensue for their former partner. The narcissist does NOT expect a faster than normal recovery, thanks to access to this type of education. The narcissist does not at all expect to hear of their target achieving great success and good fortune for their ex. The Narcissistic personality disorder is nothing if not predictable and it’s possible to expect any or most of the...

The theory of #shared fantasy by #sam vaknin has been used in the narcissistic awareness community to describe the interaction between covert narcissists and their targets in the intimate relationship setting. It appears to purport an equal measure of pathology to both the narcissist and their victim/target with a measure of #victim blaming. This podcast seeks to correct the thinking behind this bias and correct the balance of truth in favour of an empathetic persons reality and good...

Signs you friend maybe a narcissist are listed in this podcast to assist in identifying how a narcissist behaves in a friendship situation. Your bestie, your homie, childhood friend or new friend are all covered here in relation to behaviour pattern recognition of a covert narcissist. Expectations in friendships and how a narcissist will perform and whether they have your best interests at heart are scrutinized by personal examples provided throughout the discussion. #What to expect from...