In this episode, we respond to Simi's question. She asked: "I need help. My siblings and I are always at loggerhead. In fact, my immediate brother has left the house to stay with someone else currently. The issue is they believe that I'm too 'Spiri koko' and wouldn't let them have their way in doing certain things they feel is normal. Just this evening,  there was a quarrel because I asked my second brother not to listen to a particular song because of the dirty lyrics, but he insisted. These acts leave me feeling bad -- like I'm a mean and troublesome person. Sometimes I find it very difficult to pray. What can I do? 😥" MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses by Amber Lia and Wendy Speake