Over time some relationships find themselves in a rough place. Sometimes things are simply going in the wrong direction. Although unhealthy marriages seldom turn around overnight, some behaviors can flip the switch. Today, we will explore five action steps that you can take immediately as a couple to turn things around and move towards an ongoing journey of health and vibrancy. - Make sure to hit that follow button so that you can be notified when our next episode goes live! If you enjoyed...

It is so easy to get into conversation ruts in marriage. Today we will offer, and answer, several questions that will spur on conversation between you and your spouse! These conversation starters will help build intimacy in your relationship and move you onward in strength and vibrancy. - Make sure to hit that follow button so that you can be notified when our next episode goes live! If you enjoyed today's podcast, we would really appreciate it if you took 30 seconds to leave a review on...

In this episode, Theresa and David Mabry discuss what it was like to sit in on a panel of marriage coaches at a Barclay College in Kansas. Groups of college students, who are studying family and marriage ministries, put together questions for the panel all about marriage. Listen to this episode to learn more about how college students view marriage, and what was on their minds while asking the panel their questions! - Make sure to hit that follow button so that you can be notified when our...

Want to learn more about how One Another Marriage can impact your relationship? Attend a One Another Marriage Workshop! Sign up for our next workshop here: thenaz.church/oneanothermarriage Unfortunately, conflict is inevitable in marriage. But it does not have to be something you try to avoid at any cost, or engage in like a pro wrestling cage match! There is a way to handle conflict in a much more productive and positive way. In this episode we explore the five skills that you need to...

In this episode we explore the work of Dr. Willard Harley in his book “Love Busters”. We cover the six habits that can kill your marriage. Last episode we covered the first three:  Selfish Demands, Disrespectful Judgments, and Angry Outbursts. This week we will discuss the “Love Busters” of Dishonesty,  Annoying Habits, and Independent Behavior. As well as what you can do about each one! Want to read Dr. Willard Harley's "Love Busters"? Check it out here: https://amzn.to/3zx7lM8 - Make sure...

In this two part series we explore the work of Dr. Willard Harley and his book "Love Busters". We cover the six habits that can kill your marriage. In this episode, we look into the first three "Love Busters"; Selfish Demands, Disrespectful Judgement, and Angry Outbursts. We also discuss the antidotes to these bad habits, so that you can set yourself up for a more successful relationship with your spouse! Want to read Dr. Willard Harley's "Love Busters"? Check it out here:...

All couples eventually experience times of conflict, hurt, and letting each other down. Sometimes the offense is as minor as forgetting a date or failing to run an errand. For some couples, the offense might involve a major betrayal such as infidelity, addiction, or abuse. Either way, taking time to seek and grant forgiveness can play a powerful role in healing and restoring the relationship. Today, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry discuss the power behind forgiving one another and how it plays...

Ever wonder why some couples receive marriage coaching? Have you thought about how marriage coaching could impact your relationship? Well, today, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry share the benefits of marriage coaching. Throughout their years of helping couples reach their full potential, they have recognized five main reasons a couple should have marriage coaches. Whether you want to set your future with your spouse up for success or need help in a time of crisis, marriage coaching is a wonderful...

All of us are different in personality. When we build relationships, these personality traits can be strengths. At times, our personality preferences cause challenges. In this three-part series, Dr. David and Theresa explore the MBTI (Myers- Briggs Temperament Inventory) components and the impact that personality has on marriage. Sit back and enjoy part three as the Mabry's discuss what ocean animal they are, what ocean animal you are, and the impact this has on a couple relationship. If you...

All of us are different in personality. When we build relationships, these personality traits can be strengths. At times, our personality preferences cause challenges. In this three-part series, Dr. David and Theresa explore the MBTI (Myers- Briggs Temperament Inventory) components and the impact that personality has on marriage. Sit back and enjoy part two as the Mabry's discuss the impact of Thinking/Feeling and Judging/Perceiving on a couple relationship. If you wish to take a free...

All of us are different in personality. When we build relationships, these personality traits can be strengths. At times, our personality preferences cause challenges. In this three-part series, Dr. David and Theresa explore the MBTI (Myers- Briggs Temperament Inventory) components and the impact that personality has on marriage. Sit back and enjoy part one as the Mabry's discuss the impact of Extroversion/Introversion and Sensing/Intuition on a couple relationship. If you wish to take a...

In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry share 7 phrases that every healthy couple uses to build their marriage. Use these, and you will notice a difference in the vitality and growth of your marriage! Be sure to give us your questions and comments at [email protected] OR in the comments section on Facebook or Youtube. Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on your favorite podcast platform. You can find out more about One Another Marriage on our website...

In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry offer several Conversation Starters for you and your partner. Use these to build intimacy in your relationship. Set aside a good time and place to walk through a few or all of these questions. Here are the questions for this week. Do you feel you can count on each other to follow through on things? Why or why not? If lack of follow-through is an issue, have you discussed it? Can you share some specific examples? Why do you think follow-through is...

In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry discuss the importance of a broad definition of intimacy and how to build it. Be sure to give us your questions and comments at [email protected] OR in the comments section on Facebook or Youtube. Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on your favorite podcast platform. You can find out more about One Another Marriage on our website https://www.oneanothermarriage.com/ or YouTube or Facebook

Memories are made in the spontaneous everyday moments and the irregular well-planned out moments. In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry share tips on relational health through quality time by reflecting on some of their favorite dates, weekend retreats, and vacations together. Be sure to give us your questions and comments at [email protected] OR in the comments section on Facebook or Youtube. Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on your favorite podcast platform. You...

Intentionality with your time as a couple makes all the difference. In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa walk through the Gottman Institutes "6 Hours to a Better Relationship". This roadmap for quality time during your week will strengthen your intimacy and give you the tools for relational success.   Download free "6 Hours to a Better Relationship" content here Be sure to give us your questions and comments at [email protected] Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on your...

Trust is a cornerstone attribute for all healthy marriages. Trust can be built in small things and big ways. It can also be damaged and broken, leaving the challenge of restoring what was lost. In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa walk through the basic attributes of trust. They explore ten questions offered by marriage and family therapist Kathleen Mates-Youngman. Be sure to give us your questions and comments at [email protected] Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on...

Misaligned expectations are a key sticking point for struggling couples. In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry discuss what misaligned expectations look like and how to adjust them in your relationship so that you can be more aligned. Be sure to give us your questions and comments at [email protected] Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on your favorite podcast platform. You can find out more about One Another Marriage on our website...

Healthy couples do healthy things. Unhealthy couples do Unhealthy things. Certain behaviors and habits can predict divorce to a 90% accuracy! In this podcast, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry discuss the relational Four Horsemen of the Apocolypse discovered by Dr. John Gottman. Dr. Gottman has worked with and researched couples in crisis for several years. From his expansive experience, he has concluded that these four behaviors predict marital failure. Not only do they cover the Four Horsemen,...

Having couple friends is pretty important for married couples, but finding and keeping them can be challenging. In this podcast, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry discuss why having couple friends is so important and how to make new friends. OAM Podcast is introducing a new segment in the near future and we need your help! What questions do you have for Dr. David and Theresa? What topics would you like us to cover? What comments do you have about anything we have discussed? Submit your thoughts...

Every couple needs a regular communication tool. A tool that helps them to communicate about so much more than just "business items". In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry offer the "Love STEP Goals" tool to give couples a framework to touch base on important topics on a regular basis. Thi stool is based upon the Love S.T.E.P. ! LOVE- "I love you." SERVE- "You can be most helpful to me today by..." TOUCH- "The touch I would like today is..." EDIFY- "I appreciate this about...

Conflict is inevitable in a couple relationship. The issue is having the ability to resolve conflict in a positive way. In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry discuss the final "One Another". Peace with One Another is a look at handling conflict in your relationship so that satisfaction and strength remain high. They offer practical advice and a couple of strong tools for resolving conflict. Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on your favorite podcast platform. You can find out...

Dr. David & Theresa Mabry continue their series on the "One Anothers" with Edify/Encourage One Another. Edifying your partner not only includes using your words but also checking your attitude and heart towards your partner. This week Consider how you can pull the best out of your partner! Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on your favorite podcast platform. You can find out more about One Another Marriage on our website https://www.oneanothermarriage.com/ or YouTube or Facebook

Touch is essential for a married relationship. Touch one another is the next core practice for One Another Couples. In this episode, Dr. David and Theresa Mabry talk about the three spheres of touch: presence, comfort, and sexual intimacy. Growing in health and vibrancy within each sphere is essential for couples. They also share what happens when the spheres experience neglect and/or negativity.  Please, subscribe, follow, rate, review on your favorite podcast platform. You can find out...