Episodes
Knock on Parenthood is all about understanding and dealing with the unique and unexpected challenges of parenthood. It delves into parenthood from the perspective two parents who experienced birth trauma from preeclampsia and premature birth, not unlike Jess and Pierce's story when Penny was born. You can find Knock On Parenthood Podcast anywhere you get your podcasts and you can follow their Instagram here. Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the...
Published 06/24/22
Some listeners ask whether it's ok to be one and done by choice, simply because they want to be? The answer, of course, is yes. Other folks talk about what happens when your birth control fails and considering terminating a pregnancy.  Someone schools Jess about Sex and the City, and then Jess talks about Gilmore Girls for 5-10 minutes. It is what it is. Enjoy! Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a...
Published 06/10/22
Jess is doing another solo episode!! I had so much fun last time I think we're going to make it a regular thing. I am going to read your emails, talk about them, and ponder all of life's questions. Join me! Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the conversation. You can now support us on Patreon! We recently shifted that space to create a community of parents who can meet up and participate...
Published 05/13/22
Infertility and Me Podcast focuses on creating a community for those struggling to conceive with infertility. Monique has created such a great space for folks who have been on that journey, and she herself has one child. In this episode, she shares about feelings on family size after an arduous journey with infertility. You can find Infertility and Me Podcast anywhere you get your podcasts and you can follow their Instagram here. Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask...
Published 05/06/22
Hello and welcome to Jess's first ever SOLO EPISODE! I am going to read your emails, talk about them, and ponder all of life's questions. Join me! Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the conversation. You can now support us on Patreon! We recently shifted that space to create a community of parents who can meet up and participate in events. All patrons at the $5 level or above can join us...
Published 04/29/22
Kaila is a friend of the show in every way. A supporter, a listener, and even our beloved editor! We started our podcasts around the same time and Only You Podcast would not be the same without her friendship and guidance. We are incredibly honored to have her back on the show for the second time, and if you haven't already, go give her a listen at Parent Tell Podcast! You can also find her on Instagram. Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community,...
Published 04/22/22
We are so excited to introduce you all to Kyla Saphir, a children's book author who has created a book just for parents of only children. Her book "On Brighter Days" focuses on only children and their feelings about wanting a sibling but ultimately realizing how lucky they are to be in a small loving family. Pre-order now on her website and follow her on Instagram for updates. Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or...
Published 04/15/22
Mikaela is and educator and the parent of an only child. She runs the Instagram page @raisinglittlegoose which helps educate parents on how to educate their kids! Her page has so many resources, and we are so excited to talk to her all about setting our kiddos up for success in school! Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the conversation. You can now support us on Patreon! We recently...
Published 04/08/22
We're back for another in studio episode! We talk about having an only child with a disability or neurodivergence, infertility, and what it means to have a "godparent" for your child even if you are not religious.  In our pop culture segment we talk about Disney's latest portrayal of an only child, Turning Red! Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the conversation. You can now support us...
Published 04/01/22
Karla described herself as a gentle parent, cycle breaker, & proudly Bipolar. She joins us on this episode to talk about her journey to becoming a parent, having one child, and dealing with her own mental health journey. You can follow her on Instagram here. Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the conversation. You can now support us on Patreon! We recently shifted that space to...
Published 03/18/22
Simone Davies is an AMI Montessori teacher with 15+ years’ experience, owner of Jacaranda Tree Montessori in Amsterdam where she’s been running her own parent-child classes since 2008, mother of two teenagers, and author of the book “The Montessori Toddler.” She joins us to discuss implementing Montessori at home in a practical way!  Find out more about Simone's work on her website and be sure to listen to her podcast. Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions...
Published 03/11/22
We are so honored to be able to bring you this interview with Karissa Raya of Latinx Parenting, a bilingual organization rooted in children's rights, social and racial justice and antiracism, the individual and collective practice of nonviolence and reparenting, intergenerational and ancestral healing, cultural sustenance, and the active decolonization of oppressive practices in our families.  Follow Latinx Parenting on Instagram or find out more information about their organization on...
Published 02/25/22
We're back for another in-studio episode! We talk about gender disappointment, when you really "know" you are one and done, and read listener responses to the question about being on a different page as your spouse. In our pop culture segment we discuss the ultimate only child in mainstream media of yesteryear, Dennis the Menace! Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the...
Published 02/18/22
We are so excited to bring you this interview with Renee Reina! She is vocal about being one and done on her large platform -- while also being totally relatable and hilarious. Find Renee on Instagram, TikTok, or on the Mom Room Podcast. Email us at [email protected] to tell your story or ask questions of the community, and find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the conversation. You can now support us on Patreon! All patrons at the $5 level or above can join us for a...
Published 02/11/22
No spoilers, you'll have to listen to find out!   Find Laura's work here.   Want to tell your story? Email us at [email protected] if you have thoughts on these questions or find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the conversation. You can now support us on Patreon! All patrons at the $5 level or above can join us for our monthly mental health support groups on Zoom, hosted by Jess and available for you to join on the second Sunday and the last Wednesday of each...
Published 01/18/22
It's our first episode of 2022, and even though we have the sniffles, we're here to welcome a positive perspective for one and done parents this new year! We hear responses to the last episode from folks who are one and done by choice as well as a couple who have opposing views about the number of children they want to have. We read an email from someone who has chosen to be one and done due to childhood trauma, and another person who feels jealous of others' large families without actually...
Published 01/11/22
It's episode #50 (which feels like a big milestone) AND it's our last in-studio episode before the holidays! We chat about what gatherings are like with relatives who don't respect boundaries and deciding when to speak up when someone is offending you. We also hear some creative solutions to the problem of too many gifts for their onlies' birthdays and holidays! We read emails about working with pregnancy or babies after deciding you are one and done and triggers for those who have...
Published 12/07/21
We're both a little sick (with just a cold thankfully), but we're powering through it! This week, we read emails and chat about how the Covid-19 pandemic affected our family size plans and the way we experienced parenthood. We also read emails from a family whose age factored into being one and done. A listener writes in to ask for advice about gift-giving for their only, and how many presents is too many for one child. We also hear from a parent who wishes her child's behavioral issues...
Published 11/30/21
We are so happy to share an interview with one of our favorite moms on social media!! Linda Fruits joined Jess for a great conversation on parenting expectations, managing your relationship after having a child, and work/life balance. Email us at [email protected] if you have thoughts on these questions or find us on Instagram or Facebook to be a part of the conversation. You can now support us on Patreon! All patrons at the $5 level or above can join us for a monthly mental health...
Published 11/23/21
We are so excited to be BACK! This is our first episode after a three month break. In our first ever yearly tradition, we would like to share with you our annual Thankfulness Episode! There can be so much negativity and stigma surrounding only children, we always like to dedicate a whole episode during the holiday season to everything we feel gratitude about. We read stories from listeners about why they are thankful for their one and only and the road they took to get there. Email us at...
Published 11/16/21
We are so honored to have had the opportunity to chat with Kayleigh Summers, aka The Birth Trauma Mama. Her Instagram account, which advocates for parents who have experienced birth trauma, has been a huge source of healing and understanding for us, especially after our battle with preeclampsia. Kayleigh shares her birth story as well as some of her thoughts on family planning after a traumatic birth and being one and done. You can follow @thebirthtrauma_mama on Instagram as well as on...
Published 08/24/21
Hello everyone out there! We wanted to bring you a very special episode like we've never done before. Listen in on a raw, honest conversation we have about how our relationship has evolved since becoming parents, our expectations of one another, and navigating the change from stay at home mom to stay at home dad. We apologize for the sound quality, we literally recorded this from the car! Feel free to write in to our show about anything you want, each week we will be taking questions or...
Published 08/17/21
We chat a bit about what it might be like to have an only child while living a military or traveling lifestyle, and read an email about a family who has moved many times. We also read several emails about adoption and step-siblings in response to last week's question about an adoptive child and their biological siblings. In an Only You Podcast first, we have a listener asking for ADVICE! We read their quandary, comment with our thoughts, then turn to all of you for advice on the matter....
Published 08/10/21
This week we are celebrating Penny's second birthday and processing all kinds of emotions as we reflect the two year anniversary of our birth trauma and NICU stay. On behalf of NICU parents everywhere, we are honored to bring to you an interview with Kelli Kelley, the founder and CEO of Hand to Hold. Hand to Hold is a non-profit organization that provides personalized support before, during and after a NICU stay to help ensure all NICU families thrive. You can learn more about this...
Published 08/04/21