Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2127: Evan Marc Katz delves into the pitfalls of prioritizing physical attractiveness and intellect over emotional compatibility in relationships. Sharing personal anecdotes and professional insights, Katz illuminates the often overlooked aspects of partnership that contribute to lasting happiness. He advocates for a balanced approach to choosing a partner, emphasizing the importance of shared values and life goals over superficial traits. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/chemistry/why-chasing-attraction-is-a-losing-strategy-in-love Quotes to ponder: "Attraction is not a choice, but choosing a partner based on attraction alone is a choice destined for disappointment." "Compatibility, often overshadowed by chemistry, should stand equally tall in the realm of relationship foundations." "The happiest relationships are those where love whispers louder than attraction." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices