In this episode of Our Gay Stories, Michael and I discuss how you’re a mirror of the people you keep around you, that you shouldn’t “fake it until you make it,” how perfection in the queer journey is a symptom and not a trait, and how authenticity is the key to freedom. Who is Michael Reyes? Michael Anthony is an Intuitive Reader, Spiritual Life Coach, and creative from TheDivinerLife.com. In 2012, after many years of synchronistic events, Michael decided to accept his calling...

In this episode of Our Gay Stories, Mitchell and I discuss coming out, meeting a partner who’s culture and experience is vastly different, and how their relationship is an adventure. Who is Mitchell Osborn? Mitchell Osborn is a Psychic Medium, Animal Communicator, Tarot Card Reader & Mindfulness Transformation Coach. He’s been studying all things metaphysical since 1999 and working professionally on a global scale since 2009. Mitchell works remotely via the internet as well...

In this episode of Our Gay Stories, Stephen and I discuss living your truth, honest communication, and finding an awareness of personal worth that prepared him for his current relationship. Who is Stephen Edwards? Stephen is the artistic director and one of the founders of Allegrezza, and SATB chorus in Chicago that gives 20% of its proceeds back to local nonprofits. He is also the director of music and worship at the union church of hinsdale. After coming out while he was in...

In this episode of Our Gay Stories, Keith and I discuss the relationships he’s had with his parents, religion, an ex-wife, children, and exploring gay relationships. Who is Keith Turner? Your Bio: Born in Idaho, Keith grew up in the Mormon faith. After serving a Mormon mission he joined the U.S. Navy got married to a woman from Utah and they had two children. He came out of the closet and was discharged due to breaking the “Don’t ask don’t tell” rule. This lead to a divorce and...

In this episode of Our Gay Stories, George and I discuss his nearly 30 year relationship, how humor breaks through resistance, and the power of friends. Who is George Koury? George is an International Psychic Medium and Angel Messenger. He had a powerful mystical experience at 5 years of age with a visitation from an Angel. From that first moment George had an unfolding of psychic and mediumistic abilities. His first tutor was his maternal Grandmother, a gifted...

In this episode of Our Gay Stories, Chris and I discuss reparative therapy, wearing your heart on your sleeve, and how relationships to our queer community (in particular those of other gay men) are fiercely important. Who is Christopher Butler? Christopher Butler (born 1967) is an author and artist from Liverpool, U.K. He received his first professional commission at the age of seventeen when Space Voyager magazine hired him to illustrate three interviews with cast members...

OGS Part 10 With YuDam In this final episode with YuDam we’ll listen in to advice from 20 years of personal growth and experience. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger through mindfulness, awareness, and dedication. Yusef Garcia’s Bio For more than...

OGS Part 9 With YuDam Yusef & Adam envision their relationship will change post-pandemic and what’s next as they continue to grow individually and together. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger through mindfulness, awareness, and dedication. Yusef...

OGS Part 8 With YuDam In this episode, Yusef will share his point of view on open relationships. And how and WHY new experiences were required beyond heteronormative monogamy. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger through mindfulness, awareness, and...

OGS Part 7 With YuDam In this episode we’ll discuss how, from Adam’s point of view, opening a relationship can free you from heteronormative expectations, support your growth, and enrich your relationship. And that means incremental WERK. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that...

OGS Part 6 With YuDam In our 6th episode, you’re going to hear an example of how to dig a bit deeper into what it’s like to discover how your partner navigates anxiety and working through how you each navigate emotions. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger through...

OGS Part 5 With YuDam Yusef and Adam share what a short circuit moment feels like as a couple. And we begin to hear a bit about why they chose to open their relationship. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger through mindfulness, awareness, and...

OGS Part 4 With YuDam Adam and Yusef share how intentionally working on their relationship took some focused and very patient rewiring. We also demystify the phrase, love language. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger through mindfulness, awareness, and...

OGS Part 3 With YuDam In this episode, we discuss how Yusef and Adam explored cultural differences, personal expectations, and leaning into the awareness and discussion of their emotions as divorce loomed on the horizon. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger...

OGS Part 2 With YuDam In our second episode, Adam and Yusef share more about Adam’s personal growth, how they navigated individual growth as a couple, and we dip our toes into the awareness of privilege. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger through mindfulness,...

OGS Part 1 With YuDam In this episode Yusef, Adam, and I talk about relationship nutrition, hyper connectivity, and the benefits of deliberately maintaining personal relationships. Adam and Yusef are two of my favorite people. They’re change agents who are relationship and mission driven. And that doesn’t just apply to the people around them, but also to themselves. They’re a working example of a gay relationship that grows stronger through mindfulness, awareness, and...

OGS Part 6 With Rick Clemons In this final episode Rick and I discuss what energizes him, and the importance of knowing your WHY. My favorite thing about Rick is his honest desire to help. If you’re not used to someone offering support it’s a welcome feeling to know that someone is in your corner. And to hear a bit of his journey to the relationship he’s in today is a powerful story. References Take the Unapologetic Life Assessment Rick’s Bio Rick...

OGS Part 5 With Rick Clemons In this episode we discuss priorities based on impact and mastering a relationship with self. My favorite thing about Rick is his honest desire to help. If you’re not used to someone offering support it’s a welcome feeling to know that someone is in your corner. And to hear a bit of his journey to the relationship he’s in today is a powerful story. References Take the Unapologetic Life Assessment Rick’s Bio Rick Clemons is...

OGS Part 4 With Rick Clemons In this episode we go deeper on how expected response from a relationship gets in your way, your motivations for why you do what you do in a relationship, and the choice of letting negativity into your life – or not. My favorite thing about Rick is his honest desire to help. If you’re not used to someone offering support it’s a welcome feeling to know that someone is in your corner. And to hear a bit of his journey to the relationship he’s in today...

OGS Part 3 With Rick Clemons In this episode Rick recognizes the right relationship in his physical response and the power of choice. Especially when it comes to relationships with family. My favorite thing about Rick is his honest desire to help. If you’re not used to someone offering support it’s a welcome feeling to know that someone is in your corner. And to hear a bit of his journey to the relationship he’s in today is a powerful story. References Take the...

OGS Part 2 With Rick Clemons In this episode we dig into why connection in queer community is based in a need to be seen and heard, what it feels like to raise your consciousness, and the security of having someone be there for you. My favorite thing about Rick is his honest desire to help. If you’re not used to someone offering support it’s a welcome feeling to know that someone is in your corner. And to hear a bit of his journey to the relationship he’s in today is a powerful...

OGS Part 1 With Rick Clemons In the first episode with Rick we get into what it means to be present with someone, recognizing what it means to show up, and how the pandemic is changing how gay men think about connections. My favorite thing about Rick is his honest desire to help. If you’re not used to someone offering support it’s a welcome feeling to know that someone is in your corner. And to hear a bit of his journey to the relationship he’s in today is a powerful...

Jerome is one of my favorite people in this world. He’s kind, open, and trying to leave the world better than he found it. And through all of it, he hears you, sees you, and always has a kind word. Of course, this totally ups his sexy game. So he’s a man you want to spend more time with. I hope you enjoy this conversation with Jerome. In this final episode of Our Gay Stories with Jerome we chat about taking friendships deeper, traumas in the queer community, and his advice for...

Jerome is one of my favorite people in this world. He’s kind, open, and trying to leave the world better than he found it. And through all of it, he hears you, sees you, and always has a kind word. Of course, this totally ups his sexy game. So he’s a man you want to spend more time with. I hope you enjoy this conversation with Jerome. In this episode of Our Gay Stories, Jerome and I chat about owning your truth and working on saying NO. In the fourth episode Jerome and I...