Episodes
The OQJ team discusses our Ramadhan preparation and reflect on overcoming our struggles as we settle into a new routine in this beautiful month of Ramadhan.
Published 04/20/22
Published 04/20/22
Remarkable women have done remarkable things in every part of the world in every time in history. One such woman, revered by billions, is Khadijah bint Khuwaylid (Khadijah, daughter of Khuwaylid), born in Mekka in 555 CE. In this episode, we share how she inspires us.
Published 04/02/22
The OQJ team discusses ways to take care of ourselves and seeking help for mental health - our experience in being overwhelmed, tired and confused, and turning to Allah to find hope and peace.
Published 03/06/22
The OQJ team reflects on our hijrah journey - our unique individual experiences and lessons we learnt along the way.
Published 02/17/22
Whenever we think of rizq (provision) in having children, we often think of monetary provision. We all know that rizq in having children can come in many forms. In this episode, we share our thoughts on having and raising children.
Published 12/19/21
The Quran tells us that the only true way to happiness in our lives is to follow the Deen, and it is much better than the wealth and luxuries of this world. How do we balance our pursuit of happiness on Earth and the hereafter? In this episode, we discuss our experiences and struggles with trying to find contentment.
Published 11/26/21
Throughout his life, Prophet Muhammad SAW treated his wives the way they should be treated. They were gratified by his presence, tenderness, affection, and the love he provided to them was second to none. In this episode, we discuss how we can emulate Rasulullah SAW's approach to his marriage and spouses.
Published 11/04/21
Stressful or physically demanding work on top of juggling family life can lead to fatigue. However, getting tired by searching for sustenance for your family or for the sake of the hereafter is one of the types of fatigue that Allah SWT loves. In this episode, we discuss our work habits and how to overcome the feeling of weariness over our jobs.
Published 10/29/21
When we are done with our worldly tasks, we often feel tired. We feel exhausted. And sometimes we feel our worship as a burden. Even the bare minimum feels heavy. And we try to finish it as quick as possible. How can we change that? In this episode, we discuss our struggles in worship and its rewards.
Published 10/04/21
If a calamity befalls the Muslim such as in his health or wealth, what is the correct way of dealing with it according to Islam? In this episode, we discuss Tawakkul, or the reliance on God or "trusting in God's plan" in this episode.
Published 10/04/21
Allah says in the Qur'an, “O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones”. In this episode, we discuss how to raise righteous children and the challenges that come with being a Muslim parent.
Published 08/22/21
Allah SWT has commanded us to read and seek knowledge throughout our lives. For some of us, we endure the weight of travelling long distances, separated from families and hometowns in order to do this. Sometimes we may feel tired and unmotivated. But Allah SWT promises us of a great reward while enduring these difficulties. In this episode, we discuss our challenges in seeking knowledge and how to overcome them.
Published 08/08/21
Islam commands kindness, respect and obedience to parents and specifically emphasizes and gives preference to mothers. In this episode, we share our struggles during motherhood and what motivates us to keep going.
Published 07/30/21
There is a clear distinction between the teachings of Islam and the diverse cultural practices among Muslims, which may or may not be consistent with each other. In this episode, we discuss gender equity in Islam, and why women should be given the same respect as men.
Published 06/12/21
Everyone has their own quality that makes them unique, a quality that Allah has felt was the best fit for them. In this episode, we discuss how we can spend less time worrying about what others have and what we do not, but rather spend time worrying about ourselves and how we can make ourselves better Muslims and people.
Published 03/23/21
There are several verses about the importance of forgiving others in our lives. But how easy is it to bring it into practice? To be really honest with yourself, have you always forgiven others for the wrongs they’ve done to you? Or have you just said, “I forgive you,” while ill feelings lingered in your heart? In this episode, we discuss the greatest motivation to push ourselves to forgive others – Allah’s forgiveness.
Published 03/07/21
The company we keep says a lot about us. Friends have a tremendous influence on how we behave, think and even feel.  This verse comes to us as a warning to be careful of the type of people we choose to be our friends. In this podcast, we discuss how we can bring up our children surrounded by good influence.
Published 02/25/21
There are many verses in the Quran that refer specifically to the way a woman should dress or walk in public. The clearest verse on the requirement of modest dress is Surah 24:31, telling women to guard their private parts and draw their khimār over their bosoms. The most visible form of modesty is to wear the hijab –  the head covering that many Muslim women wear. Hijab, however, goes beyond the headscarf. In this episode, we discuss what modesty means in Islam.
Published 02/02/21
Imagine being greeted with a warm smile, a kiss and soothing words to ease your frazzled nerves after a hard day's work. Even the most ordinary meal shared with your spouse becomes the highlight of the day if it is served with care and enjoyed in peaceful companionship. Subsequently, having peace within the family will enable us to find Peace with our Creator. Find out how knowing your spouse's love language can help.
Published 01/18/21
One of the most dangerous and common habit today is a loose tongue. We often find ourselves running our mouths forgetting that we will be held accountable for what we say. This is what will lead to the destruction of many on the day of resurrection. In this episode, we discuss some ways we can control and watch our tongues.
Published 10/22/20
Everyone has different starting points and learning styles when picking up the Quran. What makes it easy or difficult? In this episode, we explore our various experiences upon starting our Quran journey.
Published 10/16/20
In this episode, we touch upon the 99 Names of Allah and the particular special verse: “Call upon Allah or call upon the Most Merciful. Whichever [name] you call - to Him belong the best names.”, with special guest Filzah of Homies in Jannah.
Published 10/11/20
Addiction to Busyness: Is It Good For Us? It's good to be productive, but how does it affect our deen when people seem to glorify busyness and the hustle culture. What does Islam really teach about chasing the rat race, balancing busyness and rest?
Published 10/03/20
In the hustle and bustle of life, hope often gives way to despair. Not because we no longer have reason to hope, but because we are so preoccupied and busy with affairs of this world that we do not give hope the chance to blossom. Actually, Allah SWT has supplied us with an unending supply of hope. In this episode, we learn about the dangers of giving up.
Published 09/27/20