maybe the mentality of “one day i’ll find my soulmate” is what’s stopping you from actually finding them, because you believe everything will click and it will make the most sense without applying too much effort.

a lot of people have a weird relationship with social media and “presenting” who they are, which makes a lot of sense, but sometimes i think the more we develop a better relationship with it versus trying to fit in or run away, the easier it is to live with the fact that social media isn’t going...