- Our sexologist, Nynke Nijman Msc., is not just specialized in sexual health, but also a certified psychologist and relationship therapist. She wrote a book, ‘De Relatie APK’ (dutch), and often makes an appearance in Dutch media as an expert in sexual wellness and relationships. Specially for Pabo, she will answer all your questions on sex, love, relationships, and sexuality. Do you have a question for Nynke about sex, love, relationships or sexuality? Email your question to [email protected]...

In the podcast episode " Sex, Masculinity and Shame" sexologist and relationship therapist  Nynke Nijman tells about a man with an erection problem. The fact that he doesn't talk about it because of shame, keeps him constantly worried. In this way, an improvement of the situation seems far away. Nynke explains how to break this taboo and what helps. Our sexologist, Nynke Nijman Msc., is not just specialized in sexual health, but also a certified psychologist and relationship therapist. She...

In the podcast episode "Effect of Smartphones in the Bedroom", sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman talks about a bedroom conflict between Amanda and Ben. They spend too much time on their phones and tv, instead of with each other. Our sexologist, Nynke Nijman Msc., is not just specialized in sexual health, but also a certified psychologist and relationship therapist. She wrote a book, ‘De Relatie APK’ (dutch), and often makes an appearance in Dutch media as an expert in...

In the podcast episode "Sex education", sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman talks about a parenting conflict between Antonio and Anne. Antonio was raised sexually free and wants to give his children the same values. Anne, on the other hand, comes from a more conservative family and thinks differently. Our sexologist, Nynke Nijman Msc., is not just specialized in sexual health, but also a certified psychologist and relationship therapist. She wrote a book, ‘De Relatie APK’...

In the podcast episode "Hurting someone because you try not to hurt" sexologist and relationship therapist Nynke Nijman talks about a common relationship problem: one of the two is in doubt, but doesn’t tell it for fear of hurting his or her loved one. In this case, Mandy hurts her boyfriend Tom more, by pretending that nothing is wrong. Our sexologist, Nynke Nijman Msc., is not just specialized in sexual health, but also a certified psychologist and relationship therapist. She wrote a book,...

In the podcast episode "Monogamy as the Holy Grail?" Sexologist and relationship therapist Nynke Nijman talks about Lynn's sudden desire for another man. Her partner proposes to ‘look further then monogamy’ for years, without breaking up. Lynn is in a conflict with herself: on the one hand she fantasizes about other men, but on the other she is afraid to break through monogamy. Our sexologist, Nynke Nijman Msc., is not just specialized in sexual health, but also a certified psychologist and...

In the podcast episode "Sexuality During Different Stages of Your Life" sexologist and relationship therapist Nynke Nijman talks about the fact that sexuality is always in motion. She compares it to the seasons; change is inevitable and each season has its own beauty. Giving yourself love during this change is very important according to Nynke. Our sexologist, drs. Nynke Nijman, is not just specialised in sexual health, but also a certified psychologist and relationship therapist. She wrote a...

In the podcast episode "being pregnant and having sex", sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman talks about the importance of communicating about sex and intimacy before and during pregnancy. Using a example, Nynke sketches a situation in which a couple has not had sex since the beginning of the pregnancy. Lack of mental preparation and communication was the culprit.

In the podcast episode "a dominant sex partner", sexologist and relationship therapist Drs Nynke Nijman talks about the positive effects of a bed partner who takes charge. According to Nynke, it can have a liberating effect, because a dominant sex partner doesn’t give you the time and space to think. "You then surrender to your body sooner and get out of your head," says Nynke. The open-minded atmosphere that this creates is beneficial to sex.

In the podcast episode "Being ashamed in bed", sexologist and relationship therapist Drs. Nynke Nijman talks about a woman who was unable to let herself go during sex for 9 years, because of one wrong experience. She is ashamed of her expressions in bed. Nynke shows with this podcast that insecurity and shame can cause a lot of sexual obstacles.

In the podcast episode "Making time for sexuality", sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman talks about the fact that many people make little time for sexuality. According to Nynke, sexuality is a "luxury product" that requires investment. It provides connection and strengthens your self-confidence.

In the podcast episode "The Orgasm Gap" sexologist and relationship therapist Drs. Nynke Nijman explains her views on the popular term "orgasm gap". According to Nynke, there is such a lot of pressure on the female orgasm that it misses the mark. Sex without an orgasm is no longer considered premature sex. She argues for more focus on endlessly discovering each other.

In the podcast episode "Valentine - Freiheit fur die liebe" sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman talks about modern Valentine; no more traditional love stories, but love and appreciation for everyone you love and for yourself. According to Nynke, it is time to let go of the traditional and commercial form of February 14th and make space for pure love.

In the podcast episode "Being Intimate", sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman talks about a love couple who lack intimacy. They like to be intimate, but one of them can't. Rationally, everything in their relationship is good and future-proof, but "to be intimate, you need to feel it," said Nynke.

In the podcast episode "Sexuality for his ego", sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman tells about a former radio DJ who has had no desire for sex for 4 years. In the twenty years before, he was very sexually active. Nynke explains the cause of this sudden change with striking efficiency. Our sexologist, Nynke Nijman Msc., is not just specialized in sexual health, but also a certified psychologist and relationship therapist. She wrote a book, ‘De Relatie APK’ (dutch), and...

In the podcast episode "From Intimacy to Sexuality" sexologist and relationship therapist Drs Nynke Nijman talks about the step from intimacy to sexuality. By using a practical example, she explains how deep-seated insecurity leads to sex problems and how you solve this as a love couple.

In the podcast episode "New year, new resolutions", sexologist and relationship therapist drs. Nynke Nijman looks back on an eventful 2020, and is discussing opportunities for 2021. According to Nynke, the coming year is about two resolutions: your sexual health and relationships. The objective? Not getting stuck on expectations of others but taking matters into your own hands; dare to think, dare to act!

In the podcast episode 'Christmas hangover', sexologist and relationship therapist Nynke Nijman looks back on the holidays. Some may have felt lonely, while others made new friends and discovered new things in their lives. Especially now, when everything is so unsure and unknown, it’s important to look for the things you are grateful for. Nynke explains how to do this.

In the podcast episode Christmas Magic, sexuologist and relationships therapist Nynke Nijman talks about the magic of Christmas. The romance, the heartbreaks, the dreams that come true, the Christmas lights and everything coming together in the end. Nynke believes that everyone deserves their own fairytale, and she explains how to realize it. Because everyone deserves their moment of glitter and glamour. A moment in which you feel as if you are born to sparkle.

In this podcast episode, Nynke talks about a woman who enters the practice. The woman set a goal for herself: she would devote this holiday season to herself, as an empowered sexual woman. A woman who is allowed to discover her sexual self, even without a partner. How she does it? Find out in the podcast!