Episode 49 - My guest, Joey Chandler, is a purpose coach and host of the "What's Your Purpose?" Podcast He is out to normalize people talking about purpose and works with entrepreneurs, executives, coaches, and consultants to make their purpose part of their everyday life. His purpose is about people being free and for that he helps people clarify who they are and how to be more of that on a day-to-day basis. You can take his free survey to clarify your purpose at:...

Episode 48 - In today's episode, Joe and his guest Crystal, talk about their experience with divorce, the stigma of divorce in our society, the tags they felt like they were forced to wear because of their divorce, and if divorce has changed their opinion about marriage.   Drink of the Day- Joe is drinking a Shambo Juicy IPA from RoHa Brewing in Salt Lake City, Utah. This is a big hop forward IPA, with a punch of juicy citrus notes in the aroma. The pineapple, stone fruit, and citrussy hop...

Episode 47 - On today's episode of Pillow Talk With Bros, Joe and his guests, Patrick & Nick, talk about their experiences with failure, how they treat others in response to failure, whether or not they associate achievement with their self-worth, and how they are able to accept failure without it leading to resentment. Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a Wilson Mountain Style IPA from Roadhouse brewing in Jackson Hole, WY. It has an 7.5% ABV and intense hops & citrusy notes. Check...

Episode 46 - In today's episode, Joe and his guest Matthew P Brown, talk about our experiences with anxiety, how we overcome it, whether or not we confuse anxiety with stress, and living with OCD. Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a Ferda Imperial Double India Pale Ale from T.F. Brewing in Salt Lake City, UT, and Matthew is drinking a Whirlpool Pale Ale from Nightshift Brewing Company. Check 'em out! BIPOC BUSINESS OF THE WEEK -  Cajun Fire Brewing Company is a family-owned business and the...

Episode 45 - In today's episode, Joe and his guest Jonathan talk about how they handled and coped with grief. They also talk about siblings being the forgotten mourners & how grief affected their behavior. Drink of the Day - Zion Pale Ale from Zion Brewery. Orange lemon and grapefruit hop aroma and flavor meld perfectly with a rich malty American Style Pale Ale. Check em out at www.zionbrewery.com BIPOC BUSINESS OF THE WEEK - Mack Brewing Company  - Mack Brewing Co. is an up and coming...

Episode 44 - Today’s episode is all about Accountability. Joe and his guest Christian talk about what accountability looks like today, whether or not men handle being held accountable well, and how it makes them feel when someone holds them accountable.  Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a Hopspital IPA from Proper Brewing Co. Hopspital is brewed with three kinds of hops in the boil and dry hopping stages. Chinook and Glacier hops add a piney, fruity body with hints of citrus while Nelson...

Episode 43- Happy St. Patrick's Day Bros and Broettes! Today is our One Year Anniversary!! Alex & I reflect on the last year of the podcast, the growth we have seen in ourselves, and Joe takes the hot for some burning questions from Alex. Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a Happy Camper IPA from Santa Fe Brewing in Santa Fe, NM. Happy Camper is a hoppy, malty, perfectly balanced, world-class IPA made just for you. A beer that says, “I’m from New Mexico, I like good beer, and Don’t touch...

Episode 42- On today's bonus episode of Pillow Talk With Bros, Rob & I talk about how we have seen misogyny take place on the new app Clubhouse, why men feel the need to talk over women, the subtle difference between sexism and misogyny, and reflect on whether or not we have participated in mansplaining behaviors. Drink of the Day- Joe is drinking a Hop Nosh IPA from Uinta Brewing in Salt Lake City, UT. This flagship IPA boasts an assertive bitterness and vibrant hop aromatics. Expect...

Episode 41 - In today's episode of Pillow Talk With Bros, Joe and his guest Chris talk about what skills they know, why men have a need to fix things, and if they feel any shame for not knowing how to fix things around the house. Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a Fresh Sesh IPA, a true American IPA by Bewilder Brewing located in Salt Lake City, Utah. Hopped with Warrior, Citra and Mosaic, and then is dry hopped with Mosaic and Citra. This beer isn't super bitter, but it is hop forward with...

Episode 40 - On today's episode of Pillow Talk with Bros, Joe and his guest Ana talk about what kind of sex education they received, whether we feel we have the space to initiate conversation in our sexual interactions, and whether or not we are responsible for our own pleasure. If you want to check out Ana's sex coach check her out on instagram @Iamjocelynsilva Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a White Rainbow White India Pale Ale from Red Rock Brewery located in Salt Lake City,...

Episode 39 - Today's guest is Drew Drake. He is an Actor, Poet and Educator from Huntsville Alabama; focused on creating art that facilitates healthy dialogue for people of color. His biggest inspirations are Zora Neale Hurston and Fannie Lou Hamer. Drew is currently teaching with Urban Word NYC ( Poetry and Literary Arts Empowerment) , Illuminart (Arts and Theatre Organization working with middle schools and High Schools in Staten Island) and Rehabilitation through the Arts ( Arts...

Episode 38 - Today we are bringing back Ariella Serur, the @queerdatingcoach, and she is on a mission to transform the dating pool into one we enthusiastically want to jump into. Heavily influenced by non-monogamy, she rallies against *finding your person* and instead wants you to *find your person-al worth* regardless of your relationship status. Ariella helps LGBTQIA+ folks in all stages of their dating journeys understand themselves and communicate better, so that we all become the studs...

Episode 37 - Today's episode of Pillow Talk with Bros features Ariella Serur (she/her), and she is on a mission to transform the dating pool into one we enthusiastically want to jump into. Heavily influenced by non-monogamy, she rallies against *finding your person* and instead wants you to *find your person-al worth* regardless of your relationship status. Ariella helps LGBTQIA+ folks in all stages of their dating journeys understand themselves and communicate better, so that we all become...

Episode 36 - In this episode of Pillow Talk With Bros, Joe and his guest Alex, continue their Beer Advent Calendar for the holiday season, as they make their way through a different beer everyday leading up to Xmas! They tell you their thoughts about each beer by going through the different qualities of beer according to a brewer taste testing guide, and they also ruminate on something they'd like to focus on for 2021 that will help them be better men. Advent Beer Day 2 - Today, Alex and Joe...

Episode 35 - In this episode of Pillow Talk With Bros, Joe and his guest Alex, will be starting a Beer Advent Calendar for the holiday season, and will be drinking a different beer everyday leading up to Xmas! They tell you their thoughts about each beer by going through the different qualities of beer according to a brewer taste testing guide, and they also ruminate on something they'd like to focus on for 2021 that will help them be better men. Advent Beer Day 1 - Vanilla Cherry Stout from...

Episode 34 - Thank you for tuning in to Part 2 of our live-streamed episode, “They’re Just Not That Into You." Last week, Brandon and I talked about being attracted to people who are unavailable, emotionally or otherwise. People who treated us poorly, and who were simply not interested in us, and why we think we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people. During our livestream episode we had a guest caller call in whose screen name was JLo, and we have a great...

Episode 33 - On today's episode of Pillow Talk With Bros LIVE, Joe brings on his friend Brandon to talk about the frustrating topic of falling for the wrong people. They grapple with questions like, why are we attracted to people who are unavailable, emotionally or otherwise? How do you handle people who treat you poorly? Or, are the people you're falling for simply aren’t interested in you? Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?...

Episode 32 - Joe invites his friend, Alyssa, onto the podcast and they talk about building healthy habits, and how our own tendencies can help or hurt our journey to building healthy habits. They examine their own tendencies by using Gretchen Rubin's program "The Four Tendencies," and talk about how to build accountability for ourselves so our tendencies don't get in the way of building the life we want.  Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a "Put the IPA in the Coconut" from Epic Brewery....

Episode 31 - In case you missed it, we did a special Live Stream Election Night Episode! Join Joe and the Bros as they field calls from people in key battleground states of Florida, Pennsylvania, Wisconsin, Ohio, and Colorado. We are going to look at early election results, talk about polling numbers, why 2020 is so much different than 2016, and where we were when we found out Trump won in 2016. We also get a call from someone in the UK who only goes by Kaps, and he talks about how the media...

Episode 30 - On this week's episode of Pillow Talk with Bros, Joe and his guest Dylan talk about the stigmas surrounding men in female dominated occupations, and the psychological impact that can have on our search for identity.We wrestle with questions surrounding whether we have to worry about being taken seriously, if we feel forced to assert a traditional view of masculinity, and if we feel more pressure to succeed. We also chat about perceptions of men who do yoga, what it was like being...

Episode 29 - In this week's episode of Pillow Talk With Bros, Joe invites his friend, and licensed therapist, Danell Will, on the podcast to talk about how our insecurities reveal our core beliefs about ourselves. They wrestle with ideas like how do these core beliefs develop, how they impact our interaction with others, and what kind of work we can do to change these core beliefs. Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking Harpoon Craft Cider from Harpoon Brewery out of Boston, Massachusetts and...

Episode 28 - In this week's spooky episode of Pillow Talk with Bros, Joe brings on his friend, Aaron, to talk about the scariest transition for all men, the transition into fatherhood! We are going to talk about how you know when you’re ready to be a dad, what makes us want to become parents the most, what changes in your life once you become a dad, the idea of nature versus nurture, the unique challenges that fatherhood presents, and what Aaron means when he says that bringing home his first...

Episode 27 - In this episode of Pillow Talk with Bros, Joe and his guest Kassie talk all about the texting game. How do you text your crush? What do you say? How long do you wait? What creates attraction? Is Joe way too goofy with his texts for his own good? All these questions and more are answered as we enter into....The Twilight Phone. Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a Stinger Hard Apple Cider, Utah’s First Hard Cider, from the Hive Winery in Layton, UT.BIPOC BUSINESS OF THE WEEK - This...

Episode 26 - On this week's All-Star episode of Pillow Talk with Bros, Joe brings his brother Jeremy on to talk about all of their favorite “first times” that they've had in their lives. They discuss the first time they drank, their first kiss, their first heartbreak, the first time they lied to their parents, and the last time they did something for the first time. Drink of the Day - Joe is drinking a Slick City Citrus IPA from Shades Brewing in Salt Lake City, UT, and Jeremy is drinking...