Episodes
This episode tackles the often overlooked issue of rivalry within relationships and guides you towards fostering true partnership. Are you inadvertently creating competition with your partner rather than building a unified front? Don't let competition undermine your connection. Subscribe for more episodes loaded with relationship advice aimed at helping you achieve the harmony and love you desire. Follow us on social media for daily tips and visit our website for comprehensive resources from...
Published 03/20/24
Published 03/20/24
Transform your conflicts into deeper connections with your spouse today! In this empowering episode of the Real Relationship Podcast, Asha and Devon dive into the heart of conflict in marriage, debunking myths and shedding light on the truth that, yes, all couples argue, but it's how you navigate those disputes that can turn disagreements into opportunities for growth. Join us as we explore not just the challenges of marital conflicts but also the transformative power of facing them head-on,...
Published 03/07/24
In this thought-provoking episode, we dive deep into the age-old question: Are matches for relationships made in heaven, or do they require hard work and dedication? Join us as we explore the contrasting perspectives, unraveling the myths surrounding romantic connections. Drawing from personal experiences and psychological research, we challenge the notion of predestined soulmates and examine the significance of effort in nurturing a fulfilling relationship. Is there truly a cosmic force...
Published 02/09/24
Join us as we delve into the importance of building emotional connections in relationships through the power of recognizing and responding to bids for connection. Relationships thrive on the small moments, the seemingly mundane interactions that carry the potential to deepen intimacy and understanding. Discover how these subtle gestures, expressions, and even casual remarks are the building blocks of emotional intimacy. Learn to decode the language of connection and understand how responding...
Published 02/01/24
Unlock the secrets to a thriving marriage through the power of friendship. Dive deep into the conversation with Asha and Devon Still as they share their journey and insights on building a relationship foundation based on genuine understanding and respect. Discover how taking the time to truly know your partner beyond surface-level interactions can fortify your bond and help you navigate life's challenges together. The Stills candidly discuss the importance of annual relationship check-ins,...
Published 01/24/24
Recognizing that breakthroughs are not just about overcoming obstacles but also about rediscovering the love and partnership that initially brought them together. This episode aims to reassure and empower couples, reminding them that it's never too late to embark on a journey of rediscovery and renewal.
Published 12/15/23
This episode isn't just another discussion; it's a transformative journey featuring insights from Ron Deal, author of "The Smart Stepfamily Marriage," who brings decades of expertise to the table. Whether you're a stepparent, a biological parent, or a co-parent, this episode addresses the hard-hitting challenges blended families face—from managing expectations and parenting styles to fostering trust and harmony among all members. From real-life anecdotes to professional advice, you'll learn...
Published 11/27/23
  The fear of marriage, often referred to as gamophobia, is a complex phenomenon with various contributing factors. People may experience anxiety or hesitation about marriage for a multitude of reasons, and individual experiences vary. In this episode, we discuss some common factors that can contribute to the fear of marriage and how to overcome them. 
Published 11/20/23
In this episode. we dive deep into the world of dating and the surprising ways in which our unrealistic dating lists can become obstacles on the path to finding true love. We'll explore how society's expectations, pop culture, and personal desires shape the checklists we bring to the dating game. Discover your marriage score here ----- www.marriagehealthassessment.com
Published 10/26/23
In this podcast episode, we delve into the profound importance of cultivating a deep and lasting friendship within your marriage. Love is undoubtedly a crucial foundation, but the sustaining power of friendship often goes underestimated. Discover practical tips on how to nurture a deeper friendship that stands the test of time. Whether you're already in a long-term relationship or just starting your journey together, this episode will inspire you to prioritize and cherish the deep friendship...
Published 10/13/23
Today, we're delving into a topic that many of us might be familiar with but often overlook or underestimate – the concept of a "work spouse." It sounds harmless, even endearing, but beneath the surface, there are hidden dangers that can have far-reaching consequences for your marriage.
Published 09/16/23
In this episode, we delve into the often underestimated yet critical impact that the division of household duties has on the satisfaction and longevity of marriages. Join us as we explore real-life stories, and research findings that shed light on how the equitable distribution of chores can be a powerful catalyst for marital harmony or discord. Discover practical strategies, communication tips, and compelling anecdotes that will not only strengthen your relationship but also inspire a more...
Published 09/09/23
Published 09/01/23
In this episode, we dive deep into the emotionally charged debate surrounding the question: Should divorce be a legitimate option within the institution of marriage? Join us as we navigate the complex web of perspectives, values, and societal norms that shape our understanding of this topic.   CHECKOUT OUR REAL LOVE COLLECTION MERCH www.reallovecollection.com SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCAST  Apple: https://shorturl.at/bfJKX   Spotify: https://shorturl.at/fmvxT   SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 08/18/23
What's up Real Ones! We've been gone for a couple of weeks, but we are back discussing some of the topics, or should we say lies, about relationships being discussed online. This should be interesting!   CHECKOUT OUR REAL LOVE COLLECTION MERCH www.reallovecollection.com SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCAST  Apple: https://shorturl.at/bfJKX   Spotify: https://shorturl.at/fmvxT   SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL      https://shorturl.at/ioM46  CONNECT WITH THE STILLS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram:...
Published 08/04/23
In this episode, we discuss the importance of feeling valued and adding value to relationships. Through real-life examples and research, you will uncover the secrets to fostering a deep sense of significance and belonging in your relationship. Don't miss this transformative episode that will inspire you to prioritize 'mattering' as a cornerstone of lasting love and fulfillment!   CHECKOUT OUR REAL LOVE COLLECTION MERCH www.reallovecollection.com SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCAST  ...
Published 07/08/23
In this episode, we discuss the complexities of dating in today's digital age. Join us as we explore the many factors contributing to the challenges and frustrations a lot of individuals face when searching for love and companionship. From the influence of technology and changing social dynamics to the pressures of self-presentation and unrealistic expectations, we unravel the intricate web of reasons behind the difficulty of modern dating. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply...
Published 06/29/23
In today's episode, we review and answer the top 3 most Googled relationship questions. ★☆SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCAST NOW Apple: https://shorturl.at/bfJKX  Spotify: https://shorturl.at/fmvxT  ★☆ SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW    https://shorturl.at/ioM46 ★☆ CONNECT WITH THE STILLS ON SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realationshipspodcast | https://www.instagram.com/ashastill | https://www.instagram.com/devonstill...
Published 06/25/23
In today's episode, we tackle a common challenge many couples face: finding couple friends. We explore the reasons why it can be difficult, share personal experiences, and provide practical tips for overcoming this hurdle. Join us as we discuss the complexities of building and maintaining friendships as a couple.   ★☆SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCAST NOW  Apple: https://shorturl.at/bfJKX  Spotify: https://shorturl.at/fmvxT    ★☆ SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW    https://shorturl.at/ioM46 ...
Published 06/16/23
In this enlightening episode, we talk to "America's Intimacy Expert" Dr. Viviana Coles about the often challenging and sensitive topic of overcoming a sexless marriage. We explore the underlying causes, potential solutions, and empowering strategies to rebuild intimacy and restore the spark in your relationship. Dr. Coles brings over 20 years of knowledge and experience, offering valuable insights into the emotional, psychological, and physical aspects of a sexless marriage. Drawing from her...
Published 06/08/23
Discover the damaging effects of keeping score in your marriage in this episode. We discuss the negative impact of tallying up wins and losses, and how it can erode trust, communication, and intimacy between partners. Gain a fresh perspective on why it's crucial to let go of the scoreboard mentality and embrace a more collaborative approach to resolving conflicts and sharing responsibilities. Don't let keeping score sabotage your relationship - watch this video to learn how to create a...
Published 06/01/23
What's up Real Ones! In this episode we delve into the profound impact that trauma can have on one's perspective toward love and discuss the connection between past wounds and present-day experiences. We also discuss our thoughts on the Derrick Jackson scandal. Tune in now!
Published 05/26/23
We are celebrating our 7 year anniversary! Tune in to discover the ultimate guide to overcoming the infamous "7-year itch" in marriage. From effective communication techniques to reigniting intimacy, we explore proven strategies and expert insights that pave the way for a strong and healthy lifelong partnership. Join us on this transformative journey towards a love that stands the test of time.
Published 05/12/23
What's Up Real Ones?!  In this week's episode, we decided to get "Real" and share our experiences on how facing and overcoming trials in our relationship ultimately shifted our perspectives on what it means to make sacrifices in your marriage. This conversation leads us to "Is there an I in We?" Visit: www.realationshipspodcast.com Watch the full episode: https://youtu.be/ebE6_i_CiLs Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook: Realationshipspodcast If you enjoyed this episode, please...
Published 05/02/23