As we gather to honor a significant landmark, our 300th episode, I'm filled with gratitude for you, our loyal listeners, whose footsteps have journeyed alongside mine in this quest of faith and healing.  Today's episode centers on the inspiring account of Jairus from Luke 8, a narrative that resonates deeply for those entwined in the arduous struggle for sexual integrity.  Through his story, we find the strength to envision a life untethered from the chains of our battles, and we celebrate...

Have you ever felt like your past is a maze that complicates your journey toward love? We understand that sharing the deepest corners of your heart, marked by trauma and past missteps, can be a treacherous path to tread in the world of dating.  Today, we address a question from a listener about when and how to unveil your history to someone you’re dating.  It's a fine line between guarding your heart and being transparent with a potential partner and pacing this disclosure is key to...

In this episode of Becoming Whole Audio, host Josh Glaser discusses the importance of holding onto hope in the journey toward sexual integrity. He explores the questions of whether our hopes will be realized and if the journey will be worth it. By anchoring our hope in Christ and his kingdom, we can navigate the challenges with sobriety and trust in God's faithfulness. Join us in placing our hope in the secure promise of the kingdom to come, as we are cheered on by a great cloud of witnesses....

Embark on a profound journey with us to understand how our deepest physical desires mirror an intrinsic longing for spiritual union. Our latest conversation unravels the mystery behind our sexuality, guiding you to discover how the yearning for intimacy transcends mere human connection and points toward communion with God. Throughout this episode, we discuss the sacredness of our bodies and the divine intention in our design. This isn't just about understanding our physical impulses—it's...

Embark with us on an intimate expedition into the dynamics of healing after the storm of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. As we unravel the threads of recovery dialogue between partners, we'll equip you with the strategies for conducting meaningful check-ins charting a course through the rough waters of rebuilding trust. In a space set apart from the every day, you’ll discover how to foster transparency without oversharing, balance reassurance with accountability, and navigate the...

 In the previous episode, we delved into the delicate topic of how to address disclosing sexual sins to your spouse when fear and relational brokenness come into play. We discussed the importance of working through your own fears and the impact of relational brokenness on your perception.  Today, we'll explore the trauma experienced by the spouse on the receiving end of such revelations. We'll address the concept of betrayal trauma and its profound impact on a spouse's sense of reality and...

Welcome to Becoming Whole Audio, where we provide insight and guidance on sexual integrity and wholeness. In this episode,  host Josh Glaser delves into the delicate topic of disclosing unwanted sexual behavior to a spouse.  He responds to a listener's question about how much should be shared with a spouse, particularly when they have already disclosed some details and encountered negative reactions. Josh explores the importance of trust, the impact of secrets on recovery, and the role of...

Growing up in the shadow of my parents' divorce, I found myself seeking validation in all the wrong places. As we unravel the threads of childhood wounds and their influence on adult behaviors, particularly sexual integrity, this episode is a candid reflection on the often unconscious quest for self-worth.  We discuss the intricate process of healing memories and the profound impact this journey can have on our lives, looking closely at how negative experiences and familial relationships can...

Could the path to true sexual integrity be less about prohibition and more about understanding our design as beings created to give?  Join us as we unravel a fresh perspective on sexual purity—one that aligns with our innermost nature and calls us to live as selfless gifts to others. This episode is a  journey into the essence of sexual integrity, challenging the common notion that it's just about rule adherence. Instead, it's about mirroring the selfless love of Jesus and transforming our...

In this episode Josh delves into the concept of apocalypse, not as the end of the world, but as a revelation and unveiling of deeper truths. Relating the concept to ancient literary genres and pop culture references, Josh explores the idea that our current world is concealing important realities, particularly in the realm of sexuality.  Drawing parallels between spiritual apocalypses and societal patterns, he emphasizes the need for a revelation to break free from distorted views on sex,...

Do you ever feel that parts of your life are too dirty or shameful to reveal? If we are honest there are challenging aspects of our sexual stories that we often prefer to keep in the shadows.  We all carry struggles and pains, but what if we could turn them towards Jesus for healing and restoration?  As we reflect upon the story of the leper, a man considered unclean and cast out, we are reminded of Jesus's willingness to touch and cleanse him. This calls us to bring all parts of our stories...

Does becoming a Christian mean you've unlocked the key to full satisfaction in life?  Let's explore that myth together.  Our longing for God is infinite, and we won't find full satisfaction in this fallen world until we meet Jesus face to face.  In this episode, we uncover a common error that may be holding you back from becoming whole. Recognizing your hunger for God can lead to true freedom and sexual integrity.  We discuss how accepting our infinite thirst can keep us on course towards...

Are you tired of the chains of sexual sin and yearning for wholeness?  It’s time to step off the beaten path and confront the pain and suffering that often accompany the pursuit of sexual integrity. Drawing inspiration from the teachings of Bishop Robert Barron, we engage in a poignant conversation about the realities of life in a fallen world. It's not easy, but as followers of Christ, we are reminded that enduring suffering is part of our journey. This is not about dwelling in pain, but...

How often do we truly examine the 'bad fruit' in our lives?  In an honest and revealing conversation, we venture deep into this concept, drawing inspiration from Brother Lawrence's book "The Practice of the Presence of God". We discuss the temptation to quickly discard these imperfections, instead of tracing them back to their roots. We encourage you to invite Jesus into your life to not only confront these sins but to help bear good fruit.  We then transition to the transformative power of...

What does it mean to feel stuck in unwanted sexual behavior, and how does our personal anger factor into the equation?  This very question is what we are unpacking in this episode with our guest Aaron Tagert. We walk with you through the profound insights of Jay Stringer, aiming to shed light on the six core experiences that characterize these struggles: deprivation, dissociation, unconscious arousal, futility, lust, and anger.  In the midst of these conversations, Aaron urges us to gently...

What if we told you that exploring your past could be the key to unlocking your sexual wholeness and integrity?  This episode is a powerful exploration of understanding sexual brokenness and the path toward healing. Join our riveting conversation with Aaron Tagert, a seasoned coach at Regeneration, as we dissect the insights from Jay Stringer's thought-provoking book, Unwanted. We'll confront our family dynamics, the effects of abandonment and enmeshment, and the pivotal role curiosity plays...

Are you ready to step up and take control of your sexual integrity?  This episode will equip you with a blueprint to do just that.  We journey into the first leg of this process - managing patterns and creating boundaries to shield ourselves from behaviors that lead us astray. From identifying your triggers to setting up filters, blocks, and time limits, we’ll guide you through creating yellow line and guardrail boundaries - a potent double barrier to ward off temptation. Then  we take a...

Imagine a cunning enemy, a cloaked figure weaving a grand illusion, promising sweet pleasures and enticing favors. But beneath the guise, he's a true enslaver, pulling you into a web spun from deceptions and false promises.  That's Satan for you – not the fun uncle he pretends to be but a true master of disguise. Through an exciting exploration of biblical stories and fairy tales, we unmask his cunning strategies, drawing parallels from Jesus's temptation in the desert and the Little...

Picture you're a 14-year-old growing up in the digital age, with a universe of information at your fingertips - thrilling, isn't it?  That's the world my son and I explore in this honest chat, scrutinizing the marvels and the perils of the internet era. We dive into the advantages, like the ease of satisfying curiosity or troubleshooting issues, and the pitfalls, like the danger of sliding into a rabbit hole of misinformation. We even share personal anecdotes about treading the thin line...

Have you ever wondered why we keep producing 'bad fruit' in our lives?  What if the key to addressing these issues is not just to pluck them away, but to trace them back to their roots? Let's journey together through an exploration of life's root issues, inspired by Jesus' saying that a healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit.  We'll discuss how to acknowledge our condition without shame or isolation, and how to seek guidance from Jesus.  In our deep dive, we'll also reflect on how Jesus...

What if there's more to our bodies than what meets the eye in the world of pornography? Engage with us in this eye-opening conversation as we expose the profound distortions in the portrayal of human bodies and sexuality in pornography. We dig into the theological implications, examining the chasm between the demeaning images presented in adult content and the divine design of our bodies. We've discovered a troubling narrative, where male strength and genitalia are associated with power,...

Prepare to be enlightened about the intriguing interplay between theology, our bodies, and sexuality. Ever wondered how our bodies reflect the divine image? Strap in and get set to unlock the enigmas behind theology of the body. We journey together, investigating the divine design of male and female, the sacredness in our roles as parents, and our destiny as human beings. We delve into the profound symbolism embedded in marital union, pregnancy, and even a woman's labor pain as a mirror...

Language wields more power than we often consider, particularly when it comes to sexuality. As we've noticed, the words we use to discuss topics like abortion - 'pro-life' and 'pro-choice' - carry substantial weight and can reveal underlying worldviews.  We've also seen a fascinating evolution in how society talks about gender transitioning, shifting from 'sex change operation' to 'gender reassignment surgery', and now, 'gender confirmation surgery'. So, we're going to delve into these...

Ever wondered how the words we whisper, speak, or shout can shape our reality, particularly in our pursuit of sexual integrity? Prepare to expand your understanding as we delve into the astounding power of language - both God's and our own. Drawing from scripture, we explore how words can either propel us towards or pull us away from our quest. Ready to use this powerful tool to move forward on your journey to sexual integrity? Join us as we unravel this intriguing concept. Ever stopped to...