Therapist Shadeen Francis joins Dr. Solomon to respond to a listener who is interested in opening up her marriage, but is facing resistance from her partner. They use this question as a springboard to explore the topic of disclosed non-monogamy, unmet needs, mental health and communication in a long-term partnership. Subscribe to Dr. Solomon’s Newsletter: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/ Shadeen’s Website: https://shadeenfrancis.com/ Shadeen’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shadeenfrancis/ Terry Real's book, "I Don't Want to Talk About It": https://terryreal.com/product/i-dont-want-to-talk-about-it/ Learn more about the topics covered in this episode: The Flexibility of Female Sexuality with Wednesday Martin (The Psychology Podcast) Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy (Jessica Fern) Relationship Bill of Rights (Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.