In this episode, we explore a listener's question about how to manage their 7-year-old son’s disrespectful behavior. We explore themes of defiance and control and I offer suggested scripts and techniques to meet their child’s developmental needs. When we as parents are experiencing a lot of defiance and push back from our children this is a clear sign we are running low on connection. I give several examples of how to get your children in the driver’s seat of choices to give them some control to flex their growing sense of self and also ways you can build connections so collaboration becomes more frequent.  If you relate to this listener and would like to share your stories, please send me a message on social or send me an email. And if you’d like a pressing question answered, don’t hesitate to reach out!