Life is short isn’t just a saying. It really is. Your salary is not only for bills. Use some to enjoy life before you go 6ft below. Lots of love 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Enemies of progress; Let people be happy. Listen and share to all the haters so they know they’re on this table. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Sometimes it’s easier to sweep things under the carpet and mentally and emotionally exhausting to deal with things sometimes, trust me, I would know. But it is in dealing with these things that we can grow. Please listen and share. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

This is not a letter of regret but rather a little notebook of experiences for young women to know what to avoid, while they still have the time. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

No one really tells you adulting is this much headache. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Even as this tumultuous year comes to an end, many of us still struggle to find things to be grateful for amidst the COVID-19 pandemic and all the other crazy things that happened during the year. This is just a little note, a prayer for hope and hoy and purpose for as long as we walk the surface of this earth. Wishing you all love and light as we enter the new year 🎉 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

It is unrealistic, unmerited, inappropriate for you to impose you idea of how another person should act when they are in no way accountable to you. If you need help, ask politely. Plead in sincerity. No one owes you anything. Not even a reply. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

When you feel good about yourself, you do not belittle others. It is people who have trouble and are surrounded by misery, people who resent themselves and their lives, people who feel the need to fit into certain societal narratives and fail that bring others down. We all know that all fingers aren’t equal but please all fingers are useful. Get rid of your superiority complex. Thanks and God bless 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

We are all alone, struggling, figuring it out. Why not be helpful, nice,kind. Genuinely... not because you want anything in return because there’s a possibility that there’s nothing. Just incase it’s actually all pointless, let’s try to live this part that we can see with happiness. Thanks and God bless 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Do not try to control or fast forward anyone’s process. It is only he who wears the shoes that knows where it pinches. Thanks and God bless 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

*Story Time* With so much buzz around the #womenempoweringwomen movement, Affiong and I take a little trip down memory lane looking at the many ways women prove to be better enemies than allies. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

The feelings caused by love can be so strong, they can convince people to stay in relationships and situations that are unhealthy, unfulfilling and ultimately unhappy — whether they realize it or not. This is merely a reminder to run; Life is too short. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Discussing the ridiculous standards the society sets for us when the society itself has no standards, terrible effects from falling prey to such pressure and a friendly reminder that you can ignore it all! Please listen and share 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

It’s so easy to offend a person, to take another persons love and emotion for granted and yet when the tables are turned it becomes a heavenly task to forgive. In my opinion, Forgiveness is a personal promise, for your own peace—does revenge bring peace or is it just a situation of rolling in dirt with the pigs. This is my opinion, I’d like to hear yours. Please listen and share. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Everyone has opinions but I believe it is the prerogative of every parent to train their child in the way they’d like them to grow. Some are blessed with amazing parents that are intentional about them and some are entirely neglected. Some are lucky and some are not but then that’s life. This is just another ramble. Listen and let me know what you think 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

A surface discussion on dating a partner you’re not in the same city with. Not social distance kind of distance... we’re talking over the seas, another city distance. I’d like to hear opinions on this one so please send them in 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Sometimes we sisters need to learn to use “our” instead of “my” orrrr just stay single and appreciate ourselves as human beings instead of condoning outrightly terrible behaviour... Listen, learn and share with guilty parties. All Love 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

As much as “I can’t kill myself and I want to flex” Nigeria is clearly not allowing us. I felt it was better to discuss it this crazy Monday morning when most of us are out struggling and trekking in this hot sun without okada and keke in Lagos or home because of joblessness or on the streets hustling because we can’t die in poverty even if it’s so desperate to kill us. Seeing as I’m not a government official, the least I can do is speak up, because the need for change in this country is...

Who would have thought there were so many dimensions to cheating on your spouse and sleeping with someone else’s spouse. Thank God it’s an anonymous rant. Listen and send in your thoughts 💋 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Is it rocket science or jazz? Magic or madness? Who is to blame? The husband, the side piece or the wife??? Find out in this argumentative, story filled episode!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Just another ramble: In the name of #dettydecember. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

This podcast is rated X. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

I had to break it into bits, 10 songs at a time. Because music really is one of my happy spaces. Still getting used to recording these podcasts, but I hope you enjoy listening just as much as I loved talking and singing along....x --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message

Join me in this journey of rants and love. Stories and all you’d want to hear. This is only the beginning... Stay with me..x --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rumpledramblings/message