In today's segment, I share 2 stories where the Sugar Daddy becomes very toxic and basically tries to blackmail the Sugar Baby into a relationship. Is there anything the police can do when a Sugar Baby feels threatened? What is your advice to these Sugar Babies?   Become a VIP Supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast   Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy ...

Desiree, a black Sugar Baby, has found some success and inherent struggles in the Sugar Dating world. Her niche is older, white Sugar Daddies and sometimes they get out of line. As a whole, black Sugar Babies are treated with a little less respect and the messages to them can be a bit too direct. She finds, along with many studies, that black Sugar Babies are offered less allowance and ppm than others, and that they seem to be taken to lower quality restaurants. They also experience more...

In this segment, we hear from a Sugar Baby who is concerned that her "girl next door" look isn't enough as she compares herself to the other "more beautiful" Sugar Babies. You'll hear directly from a few Sugar Daddies (and Sugar Babies) on what traits they are actually looking for in a Sugar Baby. So what do the polls say when asking men if they prefer Mary Ann (girl next door) or Ginger (beautiful, sexy movie star) from Gilligan's Island? It's 3 to 1 Mary Ann!   Become a VIP Supporter of...

This started out as a Birthday Show, and quickly evolved into the Kimmy show! Her life has certainly taken a positive turn when she met Marcus and a crypto billionaire while Sugar Dating. She enrolled in a self-improvement program which gave her a new perspective on life. Her mother and father recently took the same course and you'll want to hear what happened! Do you believe in psychics? Kimmy had some interesting revelations while visiting one recently. Finally stay to the end to hear some...

In this Extra Sugar, we discuss a situation where a Sugar Baby agreed to a monthly allowance, but then after 2 weeks went back to her Sugar Daddy to restructure it. How do you handle this as a Sugar Daddy? There are a lot of great comments, and I also give my advice on how to respond when this happens.   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram...

We are joined by a self described Pick Up Artist (PUA) or Splenda Daddy. Our guest actually went through many trainings to become a PUA. He always wanted to date better looking and hotter women, but was not having any luck until he began implementing techniques that were taught to him. Unlike many, he was quite happy to see that Seeking had shifted their focus to evolve into a more traditional dating website. Although he's not afraid to spend money on a nice date, he refuses to "pay for sex"...

The initial meeting of a potential Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy can be quite interesting! There's always the fear of the unknown and the excitement of possibilities. Who should be asking all the questions though? Where should we meet? And how do you discuss allowances and/or PPM numbers? Navigating these issues is the first step to a successful Sugar Relationship.   Become a VIP Supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast   Share your stories, questions and comments...

Jane the Virginian, joins us to share her secrets to finding and marrying her Sugar Daddy soulmate! Although Jane did not start Sugar Dating until later in life, she found that her age was actually an advantage. She was raised Mormon, even serving a mission for her church. But she felt as if she never fit in to the expectations, and went searching for her comfort zone. She tried regular dating and was appalled by some of the interactions. Finally she jumped on Seeking and was shocked how...

In this segment, we hear from Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies about things that make them run from the relationship. Most people who Sugar Date are eventually guilty of a few of these. If you notice that your Sugar Relationships are ending way too soon, take a look at how you interact and see if you're guilty of some of these huge turn-offs.   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast   Share your stories, questions, and comments at...

Jack, a Sugar Daddy from Chicago, joins us to share some Sugar Dating experiences after his divorce. He was fortunate enough to sell his company right before covid, and he is now having more fun than ever. Before Sugar Dating though, he married someone with a large age gap after meeting her at work. But when that ended, he was introduced to Sugar Dating after he hit on a waitress in Las Vegas. Jack has also experienced a 3-way Sugar Relationship which was quite interesting. He is not out...

In this segment, we have an updated list of strong indicators of a Sugar Baby scam. Not every profile on seeking is a scam obviously, but there are way too many for comfort. We go over a list that should give you caution when conversing with a Sugar Baby. Many times a Sugar Daddy can be a prime target as they are looking to date and supposedly they have some wealth. So be careful in your Sugar Dating adventures. Let us know if you've been scammed and how it worked.   Become a VIP supporter...

We are joined by the one and only Short King and also his acquaintance, Sugar Baby Mel. Short King tells us about his spiritual journey to India where he was off the grid for 30 days. But he certainly made the rounds with the women before his journey. He then revealed that he likes to incorporate electric play into sex. Sugar Baby Mel is new to the scene, and as an older participant, she's finding success quickly. She came from South America originally, but has adapted to the North American...

In this segment, we explore a common issue that happens in the Sugar Dating world. Most Sugar Relationships have sizeable age gaps. What happens if a Sugar Relationship is going very well, but it's time to move into a traditional relationship which might include marriage, kids, etc? How does one break off the Sugar Relationship, can the partner still be involved despite not being together anymore, how will the family react? These are all great questions that are addressed in this segment.   ...

Katie joins me as we read several listener letters and weigh in on a few Sugar Dating situations. Katie gives her thoughts of our most recent party, and reveals that she might have gotten a little naughty on the first day! Then we read a few listener letters. Later we explore various Sugar Baby situations which deal with everything from being a bit overweight to providing private photos. We get into a lot of real life Sugar Dating issues in this episode.   Become a VIP support of the show...

This segment is a lot of fun as I found a few photos from 6 years ago that reminded me of a crazy sugar dating story I had when I first started on Seeking. If you are a VIP member (only $10 per month) of our Patreon, you will get to see actual photos of this topless Sugar Baby and her “driver” in my garage!   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on...

One of our most popular guests, Sugar Daddy Dwayne, joins us again to give us a Sugar Dating update. Currently, he has found a great Sugar Baby so he’s no longer online. She even offered to cook and clean for him, but they’ve been busy enjoying getting to know each other instead, if you know what I mean! He’s not a wealthy man but has some discretionary funds and found that a small amount can make a big difference sometimes. But it hasn’t all been sunshine and roses. Dwayne tried having a...

Bruce Almighty joins us a year after his first appearance to tell us about a Sugar Baby that he fell in love with. He met a flight attendant on Seeking, but unfortunately she had a severe drinking problem. Interestingly, Bruce Almighty met her mother on the very first date. Not long after they met, she moved in with Bruce along with her pet snake! Then it got really toxic and she trashed the house when she thought Bruce had broken her trust. Unfortunately, things continued to spiral and she...

In this segment of Extra Sugar, we chat about a new 32 year old Sugar Baby who is trying to figure out a weird situation. You'll hear my views on what happened, along with input from a few other Sugar Daddies. Also, there are some great tips in this segment on how you can find success in the Sugar Dating world.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP member of the show...

Kevin and Vivian join us to give updates on their Sugar Relationship. Vivian gets hit on all the time in her government job, and Kevin thinks he's found a solution to scare off the men. Vivian thinks it's quite hilarious that Kevin gets high praise for being a great boss, but she knows a completely different side of him. Then we get into an enlightening discussion of a self improvement seminar that Alejandra and I attended together in Los Angeles. Find out why I was so skeptical about the...

Amanda, from The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast, joins us to discuss the complex issues of her marriage. She actually had a Sugar Daddy when she was 21. He took great care of her for many years and even bought her a Mercedes! But the age difference finally played out and the relationship ended amicably. Amanda then met a younger gentleman who she fell in love with and eventually married. He was an attractive Mormon who was living a secret life. She found out he was a gay escort, had a severe...

In this segment, we get caught up on a few listener letters. We love the feedback and stories from Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies. You’ll hear a great letter from a Sugar Baby who married her Sugar Daddy! So many of you want to come on the show, and we would love to have you as a guest soon.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show...

Alaina, a Sugar Baby from Chicago, joins us for a second time. First, she gives a recap of the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy party she attended a few months ago. Then she tells us about a Sugar Daddy who’s taking her to Hawaii. He wanted a more mature and age-appropriate travel partner. Having experience in the BDSM world, Alaina gives us her thoughts about the situation Alejandra found herself in when a BDSM date went horribly wrong. She also found a Sugar Daddy in the wild while visiting Arizona...

A Sugar Daddy recently got scammed, and unfortunately, it’s a common one. Find out how she set him up, and all the sad details in this Sugar Dating extra…   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast    

The very popular Sugar Daddy guest Jay joins us again to discuss his latest Sugar Dating adventures. First Lilly gets us caught up with her 2-week Caribbean vacation trip with her Sugar Daddy / Boyfriend. Jay gives his thoughts of our big Thanksgiving weekend podcast party. He finds out that often when you’re Sugar Dating a foreigner, you date and support the entire family. It’s easy for them to become dependent on the financial support, but what happens when the well dries up? Later, Jay...