Carlyle Jansen is a sex therapist (RP) and the founder of Good For Her, a sexuality shop and workshop centre in Toronto.  She is the author of Sex Yourself, a book on self-pleasure for cis-women, and Anal Sex Basics, a guide to anal pleasure for folks of all genders.  And so much more... In this episode, Carlyle shares how she went from being terrified of a penis to becoming both an anchor and beacon of sex positivity in Toronto and North America. If you're curious about having "sex worth wanting" and the steps to create it, what a Feminist Porn Award is and how to start an International Porn Festival, to a sex toy shop hires employees, to wondering if sex is a skill or a natural gift this is the episode for you. You can find her and her store at goodforher.com or carlylejansen.com. Improving your sex life starts with understanding your sexual self.  Take the first step and download your personal Sex Menu here.