There is so much jampacked into this episode.  You might want to take notes.  Heather is a sex educator, therapist, and coach.  In her work, she aims to start practical conversations while honouring the complexity of the world around them.  Heather's also the person that I turn to when I need support.  She is a brilliant mind, a beautiful human, and as straightforward, honest, and funny as they come. In this episode, we discuss what Heather deals with in her private practice and how to go from a vanilla sex life to a kinky sex life. We cover: - Making a safe space for pleasure - Discomfort does not equal a lack of safety - Solo sexuality are you putting all the pressure on your partner? - The value of emotional safety when exploring sex - How to create a container of surrender where  your partner can just relax And so much more.  If you want to get more Heather in your life... and who doesn't you can follow her on Twitter @misshc and on Instagram @heymisshc. And If you want to Unlock your Sexual Blueprint and join me live on June 1st click here.