Hey my loves.  I'm back and I'm diving back into that conversation we had last week about 'bare minimum' behaviours.  >>> Giving you more clarity on behaviour that SHOULD and SHOULDN'T be celebrated. Behaviours that are a sign that you're onto something good vs letting said good behaviour convince you you should lock him in.. like now! I then share a big fat list of red flags + one of green flags.. (bring a note pad and pen) ..and carried on to explain why relationships, love, dating, sex, human psychology isn't black and white and how finding a dreamy man and landing a dreamy relationship is so much more than avoiding red flags and ticking boxes. It helps as a guideline YES, but we've got to leave room for him to be human, baby! What this means is leave room for him to grow and to learn how to be a better lover for you.  Nobody is perfect! (but in the same breath, be mindful of what you choose to settle on).  Compromise is important, but make sure you're not turning a blind eye to things you know are going to get on your nerves later down the track.  This isn't going to be fun for you or for him.  Ohhh juicy, juicy stuff! If you're loving the podcast PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW. I will be forever grateful! Follow Asti on Instagram HERE Get a free 'Activate Me' egg with any Pleasure Treasure purchase HERE Read more about The Spark HERE Doors close Friday 11/3  Questions, comments, feedback, WANT TO SHARE YOUR STORY??? - Email [email protected]