Episodes
Darlings…it has been SUCH an amazing seven months touching in with you week after week in the Yoniverse. We promised ourselves when we reimagined The Flaming Yoni that we would stay in touch with our needs for rest and rejuvenation, and true to that promise, the time has come for season break - schoooooooool’s out…. for the summer-er! (If you don’t get that reference…it’s because I’m too old, or you’re too young…you decide.) Without further adieu… In this final episode of Season 2 of The...
Published 06/07/23
Published 06/07/23
This week in the Yoniverse, we are bringing a conversation to light that we have been seeing lately in the Divine Feminine spirituality spaces in social media - a conversation which seems, quite frankly, anti-Trans and Transphobic. To add additional depth, color and relevance to the conversation, we have Lady Veronika Mirage on the show with us. Veronika is a Transgender adult content creator, as well as a top phone sex actress on NiteFlirt. Additionally, Veronika is an accredited...
Published 05/24/23
Loves, we’ve got a little smorgasbord for you in this one. Fun announcements, gratitude for you - our amazing audience and supporters, dreams that make you go hmmmmmm….and revisiting the mamas in our lives with some updates after our Mother Wound episode a few months back. So jump on into the Yoniverse, snuggle in, maybe even grab some tissues, and listen to your favorite girls gab it up!  The Flaming Yoni website Join SlutSisters!  Become a STAR in the Yoniverse! (click on “Unlock Exclusive...
Published 05/17/23
Loves, we have not laughed this hard in the Yoniverse since…ever. Jump on in with us, and Rhianna and Adam of Bottled Up Bitches, a weekly sex podcast hosted by this horny (and funny AF) married couple! Rhianna and Adam discuss the steamy, the taboo, and the empowering with a mission to make uncomfortable conversations fun and easy. With the help of sexually curious guests, nothing is off limits in this bedroom. Stay horny, Bitches! In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: How Bottled Up Bitches...
Published 05/10/23
Hello loves! We are so excited to be back with you again this week, this time recounting some salacious moments from recent weekend fun. We hope you enjoy the shares of our more kinktastic explorations… In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: Áine’s first experience at a dungeon…and how she prepared from what she would wear to what she was open and available for. The initial sense of overload at all the sights and sounds taking in the dungeon, but then settling into what was drawing her in and...
Published 05/03/23
We are back and ready to wrap this amazing conversation on Human Design with HD expert extraordinaire Taylor Khoury! If you haven’t gotten a chance to listen to that yet, do yourself the favor of not only listening, but pulling your own HD chart here, and then jump back into this episode with us!   In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: Is there a specific place in your HD chart where your sexuality and expression of it is addressed?In order to fully experience your design and learn your inner...
Published 04/26/23
Dear ones - we are SO excited to bring a two-part series to you that we have been wanting to discuss with the TFY community since before TFY had a community! Our guest this week (and next!) is the amazing Taylor Khoury - Human Design reader and expert extraordinaire. You may be asking…”what is Human Design?” Well loves, in this first episode on the topic, Taylor goes deep into the origins and explanation of HD, and we hope you will be as fascinated by it as we are… In this episode of The...
Published 04/19/23
It’s time for another little life update! We have been working hard at bringing amazing conversations to you all each week, and we haven’t given you, our dear listeners, an update on us and our lives in a hot minute. Before we hit record on this one, we were in the depths of a conversation about the seasons of life that we find ourselves in, and we decided it was time to capture the goodness for all of you… In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: The seasons of life - how they mimic the seasons...
Published 04/12/23
We met today’s guest through one of Scarlet’s close friends, and we are so incredibly happy to introduce Lex, of Talk Sex with Lex, to the Yoniverse. Lex was motivated to become a certified sexologist after discovering loads of false information and bad advice posted online. This motivation turned into a burning desire and passion to be a safe space for women and their partners to receive guidance with discovering their very own unique codes of pleasure. In this episode of The Flaming...
Published 04/05/23
Ok loves…it’s pussy talk time. We are called The Flaming Yoni, after all, and there is nothing we love paying homage to more than our yonis. So sit back, grab a cup of whatever will enhance your pleasure as you listen, and step into OUR Yoniverses with us… In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: Mindful masturbation, and how we both partook in it prior to recording this episode - our intentions, our methods and implements, and our experiences.Breaking down the parts of the vulva - from labia,...
Published 03/29/23
Friends and lovers, we have a very special treat for you today and we can barely contain ourselves. Scarlet’s sexual health practitioner, Maggie White, FNP, is here in the Yoniverse talking all things sexual health, STIs and testing, and HIV prevention. Maggie brings 12 years of experience in community health and HIV primary care and research, and is certified by the American Academy of HIV Medicine as an HIV Specialist. Her other clinical interests include Hepatitis C, sexual health and...
Published 03/22/23
We’re going deep again, and personal. As an extension of a conversation that we were having casually the other night, we decided to address some changes for each of us in our own Slut-styles, as we are embarking on building the SlutSisterhood. We always share that our definition of SLUT is Sexually Liberated, Unshamed and Transformed, and that all femme-identifying folx are welcome at the never-ending table. But what does that mean…for each of us, and collectively? In this episode of The...
Published 03/08/23
Loves, we could not be more thrilled to bring you a conversation this week with sex and relationship coach Catherine Drysdale. In October 2018, Catherine started an Instagram account focused on mental health + mindset, which turned into becoming certified as a life coach and eventually a certified sex coach. Throughout her journey, Catherine experienced many twists and turns, including a sexual assault she navigated publicly. Catherine has been a friend of TFY and SlutSisters for some time...
Published 03/01/23
Whew…it’s been an intense couple of weeks in the Yoniverse, and we are wrapping it up this week with the final installment in the Triple Wound Series…the Witch Wound. This Wound, like the Mother and Sister Wounds, is an inherited and collective trauma for femmes. This particular wound has its origin in the witch hunt and trials that began in the 15th century - and this “gendercide” reportedly took the lives of an estimated 13 million women throughout Europe and North America alone....
Published 02/22/23
Happy Valentine’s Day loves…and more importantly…Happy SlutSisters™ Pre-Sale!! It launched on Galentine’s Day, which is sure to be the official SlutSisters™ holiday from this day forth!  Next up in the Triple Wound Series is….The Sister Wound. What could be a more perfect conversation as we are set to embark on this new paradigm of Sisterhood?! The Sister Wound shows up in some way for all women, and what better way to help heal it than bring it out of the shadows and talk about it? In this...
Published 02/15/23
As we embark on launching SlutSisters™ this month, we thought it would be most prescient to bring a series of 3 conversations to the Yoniverse that we have been unpacking together for some time. We are calling this series the Triple Wound Series, and this week we are starting off with The Mother Wound.    In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: Introduction to the Triple Wound Series :: The Mother Wound, The Sister Wound and The Witch Wound. What are these, and where do they come...
Published 02/08/23
This month brings the dawning of a day that we have been preparing for for more than a year…we are finally launching SlutSisters™! For those of you who don’t know, SlutSisters™ is an embodied community built for women & femme-identifying individuals who seek to deepen their process of Sexualchemy™. Our mission is to create a safe and supportive space for Sisters to deepen their connection with their authentic sexual expression. We believe that feminine sexual empowerment is the medicine...
Published 02/01/23
Happy second annual #CuckWeek! For those of you to whom this is an unknown, #CuckWeek was born out of a conversation on Twitter in late 2021 about how misunderstood cuckolding is as a dynamic within the non-monogamy community. At that time, a group of sex educators, professionals, bloggers, podcasters, etc…decided to come together and spend a week educating the masses about what cuckolding is…and isn’t. So step inside the Yoniverse with us this week to hear our offering for #CuckWeek...
Published 01/25/23
Loves, if you’d had the opportunity to be in the “studio” with us as we recorded this week’s episode, you would realize how deeply touched and turned on we were by this guest. It is our sincere pleasure to introduce the Yoniverse to Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD (she/they). Ley is an author, board-certified sexologist, and LGBTQIA+ and BDSM educator, coach, and consultant. She is the founder of Transentience Coaching, a podcaster on the MŌN app, and LGBTQIA+ Curriculum Coordinator for the...
Published 01/18/23
This week, the Yoniverse gets its inaugural joint guest, and it is none other than our good friend and SlutSister™, Mistress K! Mistress K (she/her) is a Hotwife/Cuckoldress/Domme/Primal in a Female Led Relationship (FLR). She is non-monogamous, bi-curious, and heteroromantic. She is als a proud SlutSister™, a curious kinkster, a sexual health advocate, and a lifestyle blogger.  In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: How Mistress K became Mistress K…her origin story of sorts! Discovering power...
Published 01/11/23
Happy New Year Loves!!! It is 2023, and we could not be more excited to ring this new year in with all of you. And what better way to kick off a new year than by celebrating and giving gratitude to our AMAZING p*ssies?!  In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: Between societal messaging and sexual and health education in our schools, as young girls we are taught to disconnect and dissociate from our vulvas. Reconnecting with our p*ssies has taken us years…find out how we did it.  The different...
Published 01/04/23
This week in the Yoniverse, Scarlet and Áine sit down on Christmas Day to wish all of you a VERY Happy Holidays, discuss some recent forays into new realms of kink, and 2023 intention setting!   In this episode of The Flaming Yoni: Happy Holidays from Áine and Scarlet; Scarlet’s pre-holiday play session that included Shibari - a beautiful form of Japanese bondage - and how it was part of her fulfillment of a 2022 intention to dive more deeply into other forms of kink; Áine’s similar...
Published 12/28/22
This week in the Yoniverse, we have an amazing treat for you! Dr. Evelin Dacker sat down with Áine six months ago at the beginning of the Sexualchemy hiatus, and the conversation feels just as fresh and potent today as it did then. Dr. Dacker is a Board-Certified Integrative and Holistic Family Physician who specializes in sexual health and consent. Her unique approach to wellness incorporates pleasure as an important aspect for healing trauma and illness - which feels revolutionary in our...
Published 12/21/22
Now that you are all caught up with your girls this season, we thought it would be fun to let you in on a conversation we have been having about labels.  While labels can feel restricting and unnecessary, they can also be useful as a point of reference in certain settings. As we processed what it means to lose our previous “titles” from when we were partnered, we  bounced around ideas of what new identities we might want to play with…until one stuck.  In this episode of The Flaming...
Published 12/14/22