In Episode 5 of the SheRecovery Podcast, Crystal chats with Jay Stringer. Jay is a licensed mental health counselor, ordained minister, and author of the award-winning book Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. In this episode, Jay discusses the process of getting to the why behind our behavior in order to find lasting healing — including outlining five key childhood drivers of unwanted sexual behavior. While not an easy one, for many, this conversation will the beginning of transformative healing in your heart, mind, and soul.  Unwanted is based on a multiyear research project of over 3,800 men and women to address the key drivers of unwanted sexual behavior, be that the use of pornography, infidelity, or buying sex. Jay holds an MDiv and master in counseling psychology from the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology and received post-graduate training under Dr. Dan Allender while serving as a Senior Fellow at the Allender Center. Jay lives in New York City with his wife Heather and their two children. Learn more about Jay and his work at http://jay-stringer.com. Resources Referenced:  Jay's book, Unwanted  Jay's website Sexual Behavior Self AssessmentThank you for listening to the SheRecovery Podcast, a resource of SheRecovery.com. If you enjoyed this episode, share it with those who think will enjoy it too. You can also visit SheRecovery.com/Podcast to find our listener notes for this episode, to submit listener comments or questions, and more. Thank you again for listening and hope you will join us again next week. LEARN MORE ABOUT THE OTHER RESOURCES OFFERED AT SHERECOVERY AT SHERECOVERY.COM. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/sherecovery)