Are you struggling to find your Enneagram type, or know someone who is? Today's conversation will help normalize the process of finding your type while also sharing how coaching can benefit you even if you do not know your dominant type yet. Joining me on the show is my friend and Wholehearted coaching client, Shannon Renee, to talk about: – what prompted her to look for an Enneagram coach – what Type she thought she’d be and what Types she “tried on” – the benefits of getting coached...

Even after all you’ve learned about the Enneagram in this 101 series, there are still dangers to your spiritual growth and relationships if you use it in a certain way. In this series finale, we’re covering these five dangers: -- Allowing the Enneagram to bring division when discussing whether or not believers should use it -- The Enneagram replaces the priority of the gospel in your life -- You use your personality type as an excuse to behave badly -- You become obsessed with self...

In this fourth episode of our new five-part Enneagram 101 series, let’s focus on five benefits of using the Enneagram for spiritual direction and to experience transformation in your spiritual life: -- The Enneagram helps you appreciate God -- The Enneagram defines the three core emotional struggles -- The Enneagram helps you identify the message your heart longs to hear -- The Enneagram helps you have more humility -- The Enneagram helps you develop compassion and empathy for others Whether...

It's time to clear the air on misconceptions, and set the record straight on using the Enneagram. In this third episode of our new five-part Enneagram 101 series, we'll debunk these five common myths: -- Myth #1: The Enneagram is just another personality test -- Myth #2: The Enneagram boxes people in -- Myth #3: The Enneagram is based on pseudoscience -- Myth #4: The Enneagram is the same as astrology -- Myth #5: The Enneagram's origins are satanic Whether you're new to the Enneagram...

Is the Enneagram evil? This second episode of our new five-part Enneagram 101 series was inspired by a text I received from a friend. So let's dive in to: -- Can you love Jesus and use the Enneagram? -- a historical timeline and key contributors to the Enneagram -- how the Enneagram is used in professional fields and personal growth spaces -- who should avoid using the Enneagram Catch up on the series: Ennea-what? (Part 1) Looking for an episode playlist for your Enneagram Type?Get more...

Curious what this Enneagram is that you keep hearing about? Wondering if or how it can really benefit you? I'm kicking off a new five-part series all about the Enneagram: what it is, what it's not, and what it can do for you.  In this first episode, we'll talk about: -- how the Enneagram is different from other personality tests -- an overview of the nine Enneagram types -- the traits and behaviors of each type at their best and worst -- how to engage in self awareness with a biblical...

Are you experiencing Thursday’s betrayal, Friday’s loss or Saturday’s ache this Holy Week? If so, you are not alone. Here are nine Breath prayers, including a scripture reminding each Enneagram type how Christ is the perfect embodiment of their personality, and how you can look to Him to get all of your needs met. Looking for an episode playlist for your Enneagram Type?Get more information about this free guide here! RESOURCES FOR YOU: Wholehearted Enneagram...

With Easter just around the corner, I can’t think of a better time for us to study the life of Jesus. Here to equip us is author and pastor, Dr. Shane Stanford. His book, Jesus with Us: Meeting Him Where He Began, is part of the Life Along the Way Series, four incredible books that take you chronologically through studying the life of Jesus.  Dr. Shane shares about: learning more about Jesus through studying and writing on Christ's life then and nowhow his faith inspires his optimistic...

Have you experienced a hard trial in your life?  Ever felt like giving up?  Or feel ready to burn everything down and run far away? We all face resistance at one time or another causing us to back out on a dream or give up on our thing. How can we choose persistence instead? That’s what we’re talking about today with pastor Nick Connolly, author of Don’t Give Up Just Yet: Choosing Persistence in a World of Overwhelming Resistance. Resources mentioned: Nick's book Nick's Instagram The...

I’m excited to have my friend Sara Hagerty back on the show! We're talking about how her new book is tackling a much-needed topic for so many of us facing the reality of our human limitations.  Sara shares about: the most challenging aspect of book writing and launching for her personality typethe moment that birthed this specific message on limitationsthe journey readers will experience through The Gift of Limitations RESOURCES MENTIONED: The Gift of Limitations, Finding Beauty in Your...

Are you thinking of turning your passion for helping others into a business in 2024? One of the terms I often use in my Wholehearted training and coaching is being a guide by the side. We aren’t meant to be another person's hero. Instead, we get the privilege of guiding someone else to be the hero in their story and point them to the most perfect Hero and Guide, Jesus Christ. So what is a guide by the side? And how do you become one? That’s what I’m sharing today along with nine ways...

This week I’m sharing my hard, but real, wholehearted healing journey with you. This conversation was originally recorded with my friend Brian Lee as a guest speaker in his Broken to Beloved Summit in April of 2023. He gave me permission to share it with you. The decision to share my painful journey is not an easy one, and I hope and pray you hold my story with care.  In this episode, I'm sharing: How the U diagram (from Allender Center) helps process our stories and guide others through...

What story or tale has marked you? What characters have taught you something as you have followed their journey?  The Wholehearted Journey series invites you to explore the four characters of any good story and to dive into your story and the roles you've played.  This week's conversation is about the victim, the U diagram, and the key difference between having a victim mentality and being a victim.  We are all broken. We are all blowing it. The brave one does something about it.  Register...

Are a faith-forward coach and entrepreneur, or aspire to be one? If so, I can’t wait for you to hear a sneak peek from some of our speakers at our annual Wholehearted Equip and Activate Online Conference. It's coming up February 7-9 and I don't want you to miss it! Stop the guesswork and get the clarity you need to grow your business and simplify your life! You’ll hear a sneak peek from these conference sessions: Shepherding in the Marketplace with Carla H. HaydenMargin for the Leader and...

** Join us for the Wholehearted Equip and Activate Online Conference February 7-9, 2024 ** WRITE is one of three Wholehearted Rhythm pillars we are covering this month and I can’t wait for you to hear from my friend, Glenn Packiam. Glenn is lead pastor of RockHarbor Church in California, and author of “The Intentional Year”.  He shares about: What it’s like as an Enneagram 3 wing 4 married to a nine wing 8Writing to take inventory of prayer rest, renewal, relationships, and workIdentifying...

** Join us for the Wholehearted Equip and Activate Online Conference February 7-9, 2024 ** Worship is one of three Wholehearted Rhythm pillars we are covering this month and I can’t wait for you to hear what my friend and worship leader, Katie Reed has to share, including: Worship is reaping what you haven't sownSeeing the possibilities and beauty of God's design in your Enneagram numberHow self discovery is important for social interactionsLeading worship vs. knowing and feeling the eyes of...

** Join us for the Wholehearted Equip and Activate Online Conference February 7-9, 2024 ** When you hear the phrase “quiet time” what does it make you think?  Punishment, maybe a timeout on the corner? A dream that you have and it never happens.  An item on your to-do list that you tend to put off? Let’s look at quiet time as getting in the Word of God, however that looks for you. Word is one of three Wholehearted Rhythm pillars we are going to cover this month and I can’t wait to talk...

** Join us for the Wholehearted Equip and Activate Online Conference February 7-9, 2024 ** Honest question: how did 2023 go for you? Full of fun? Blessings? Frustration? Hardship? Or maybe a little bit of both hard and good? Today I'm going to walk you through my LEARN process, to help you reflect on the past and plan for the future with life giving rhythms. This is the process I personally use at the end of the year and in this episode, I will share my own answers to these reflection...

It's hard but true, the holiday season still doesn’t make all our relational issues disappear.  So, that's why I would like to invite you to step into a story for this special Advent episode. A story that will provide perspective on what triggers you and what triggers the other personalities around you. It’s true that some personalities naturally click more than others. Still, the desire I have for you and the wholehearted community is not just to tolerate the differences but instead to be...

Show Notes Today, I am going to talk you through a breath prayer for each Enneagram Type that you can write down and practice yourself, or just listen to this episode as many times as you want and enjoy all the breath prayers.  So whether you are driving around town, walking an indoor track, or making a mess in the kitchen, may the peace of Christ envelop you today amongst the hustle and bustle of the season. Looking for an episode playlist for your Enneagram Type?Get more information...

This year, I’ve invited nine previous podcast guests to share what lights them up most with joy when it comes to all things Christmas.  They’ll be sharing things like: What does their Type add to the celebration table? What is their favorite ornament or decoration? The gift on their list that most reflects growth for their personality? Something they’ve done this year that reflects their personality Type? Connect with guests: Bonnie Gray's previous episode, The Problem of Loneliness Take...

This year, I’ve invited nine previous podcast guests to share what lights them up most with joy when it comes to all things Christmas.  They’ll be sharing things like: What their Type adds to the celebration table? Their favorite ornament or decoration? The gift on their list that most reflect growth for their personality? Something they’ve done this year that reflects their personality Type? Connect with guests: Krystal Ribble previous episode: Love Me in the Waiting...

When you read the word “expectation,” what comes to mind?  A feeling of hope? A sense of disappointment? Or a point of frustration? Expectations- we’ve all got ‘em whether we want to or not- and that’s why I wanted to take time with fellow Wholehearted Coach Deanna Sudom to unpack the word expectation specifically in light of the holiday season.  We will offer five practical tips to help you navigate expectations, which you can implement today, and a specific action for each Enneagram Type...

What is advent?  It’s personal, yet communal. Traditional yet varied. And ultimately is about  the anticipation and preparation for the arrival of Christ.  Author Jen Ludwig joins me on today's episode to share her personal experience on reclaiming Advent in her own life. She is also the author of the Christian devotion, "Embracing Advent: Rediscovering Christmas in the Chaos". Connect with Jen: Website Book Are you struggling to find the perfect gift? Do you wonder why their list looks...