8 lessons learnt in 8 years of marriage [Lesson 8]
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Lesson 8: Duโ€™a Bismillah. With no plan, no script, and no idea what Iโ€™d end up talking about, I decided to record (instead of write) the final lesson in the โ€œ8 lessons in 8 yearsโ€ series. So you get to hear my super imperfect podcast, and Iโ€™m totally fine with that. I think. InshaAllah the next episode will be better. (I need topic suggestions btw, thankyouuu! In this episode, I spoke about duโ€™a and how we need to make duโ€™a for our marriage too. Allah is so near and He wants us to ask Him โค๏ธ Hereโ€™s the duโ€™a I mentioned: It is related that Abdullah ibn Masโ€™ud (ุฑุถูŠ ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุนู†ู‡) used to use these supplications a lot: ุงู„ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ูู…ู‘ูŽ ุฃูŽู„ู‘ููู’ ุจูŽูŠู’ู†ูŽ ู‚ูู„ููˆุจูู†ูŽุงุŒ ูˆูŽุฃูŽุตู’ู„ูุญู’ ุฐูŽุงุชูŽ ุจูŽูŠู’ู†ูู†ูŽุงุŒ ูˆูŽุงู‡ู’ุฏูู†ูŽุง ุณูุจูู„ูŽ ุงู„ุณู‘ูŽู„ูŽุงู…ูุŒ ูˆูŽู†ูŽุฌู‘ูู†ูŽุง ู…ูู†ูŽ ุงู„ุธู‘ูู„ูู…ูŽุงุชู ุฅูู„ูŽู‰ ุงู„ู†ู‘ููˆุฑูุŒ ูˆูŽุฌูŽู†ู‘ูุจู’ู†ูŽุง ุงู„ู’ููŽูˆูŽุงุญูุดูŽ ู…ูŽุง ุธูŽู‡ูŽุฑูŽ ู…ูู†ู’ู‡ูŽุง ูˆูŽู…ูŽุง ุจูŽุทูŽู†ูŽุŒ ูˆูŽุจูŽุงุฑููƒู’ ู„ูŽู†ูŽุง ูููŠ ุฃูŽุณู’ู…ูŽุงุนูู†ูŽุงุŒ ูˆูŽุฃูŽุจู’ุตูŽุงุฑูู†ูŽุงุŒ ูˆูŽู‚ูู„ููˆุจูู†ูŽุงุŒ ูˆูŽุฃูŽุฒู’ูˆูŽุงุฌูู†ูŽุงุŒ ูˆูŽุฐูุฑู‘ููŠู‘ูŽุงุชูู†ูŽุงุŒ ูˆูŽุชูุจู’ ุนูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ู†ูŽุง ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽูƒูŽ ุฃูŽู†ู’ุชูŽ ุงู„ุชู‘ูŽูˆู‘ูŽุงุจู ุงู„ุฑู‘ูŽุญููŠู…ูุŒ ูˆูŽุงุฌู’ุนูŽู„ู’ู†ูŽุง ุดูŽุงูƒูุฑููŠู†ูŽ ู„ูู†ูุนู’ู…ููƒูŽ ู…ูุซู’ู†ููŠู†ูŽ ุจูู‡ูŽุง ุนูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ูƒูŽุŒ ู‚ูŽุงุจูู„ููŠู†ูŽ ู„ูŽู‡ูŽุงุŒ ูˆูŽุฃูŽุชูู…ูู…ู’ู‡ูŽุง ุนูŽู„ูŽูŠู’ู†ูŽุง Allahumma allif baina qulubina, wa aslih dhata bainina, wahdina subulas-salam, wa-najjina minad-dhulumati ilan-noor, wa jannibnal-fawahisha ma dhahara minha wa-ma batana, wa barik lana fi asmaina, wa absarina, wa qulubina, wa azwajina, wa dhurriyyatina, wa tub โ€˜alaina innaka anta-Tawwabur-Rahim, wa-jโ€™alna shaakireena liniโ€™mik muthneena biha โ€™alaik, qaabi-lina laha, wa ati-mimha โ€™alaina O Allah! Reconcile our hearts, amend what is between us, guide us to the paths of peace, save us from the darkness [and admit us] to light, and save us from obscenities, inwardly or outwardly, and bless our hearing, seeing, hearts, spouses and offspring. And accept our repentance, indeed You are the Ever Accepting of Repentance, the Merciful, and make us thankful for Your favors. All praise is due to You. Accept our good deeds and complete them for us. P.S. Jazakallah khair to the lovely ladies who agreed to listen to the podcast and gave their beautiful feedback and encouragement. I appreciate you more than you know. With lots of love and a truckload of duโ€™a,Maryam This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sistersflourish.substack.com
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