2023 was a year filled with its share of challenges and surprises. I've titled our last teaching of the year: “Spiritual Reset,” drawing inspiration from some of my past writings and experiences, and I am sharing this teaching on my Podcast. In this teaching, I invite you to join me in reflecting on the significant moments of 2023 and how they've shaped us. Let's set intentions for personal growth and transformation as we gently step into 2024, embracing the incredible power of choice. It's a...

Rev Karla's new podcast titled: "A Practical Spirituality: Finding Holy in Your Everyday," helps those seeking a deeper connection to their spirituality beyond the confines of traditional religious institutions. Rev Karla begins by sharing her personal experiences and insights on leaving the church and beginning a path of practical spirituality.   She reflects on the challenges and joys of transitioning from a life deeply intertwined with the church to rediscovering the sacred in everyday...

In this episode, Rev Karla discuss the intricate layers of grief. Grief isn't a one-size-fits-all process; it's a lifelong journey that impacts us all at some point. It's not just about losing a loved one; it can be triggered by various life events, from relationship endings to significant societal shifts. Rev Karla challenges the traditional "five stages of grief" model, highlighting that it's not as linear as we once thought. Instead, think of grief as a winding path, often unpredictable...

In this special podcast episode we are sharing a Sunday teaching from Rev Karla exploring the sacredness of the holiday season. December holds a multitude of holy days, not just for Christians, but for all of humanity. As we enter this busy season, it's crucial to prioritize self-care and pause to find the sacredness in the small moments.   Sundays with Rev Karla is a weekly teaching program. Each Sunday we release a new teaching video, alongside journaling worksheets to help expand on the...

Spirituality Matters is a podcast hosted by Rev Karla that explores the intersection of spirituality and humanity. In this episode, titled "Authentic Gratitude | 10 Ways for Gratitude to Meet Us Right Where We Are," she addresses how gratitude has been misused in various contexts, and how many of us have been indoctrinated to see gratitude as a sort of punishment. Rev Karla discusses the harmful effects of coerced gratitude and encourages personal agency and authenticity. She draws...

In this special Q&A podcast episode, Rev Karla answers these questions from her audience:   As a Gay Christian, it is both a relief and confusing because it’s all I’ve ever know. Do you think Jesus will ever return? And what about a new Earth? Can you do a series about interacting with others post-deconstruction? Like when to discuss and when not to, how to respect their journey without trying to correct them, how to meet them where they are? Would you be willing to discuss your thoughts...

In this podcast episode titled, "Whose Land Do You Stand Upon? Eight Ways to Blend Your Sacred Activism with Your Spirituality and Help Deconstruct Toxic Ideologies," Rev Karla begins by reflecting on the false narratives and indoctrination prevalent during her upbringing in the 1960s, particularly regarding the Thanksgiving story and the mistreatment of Native Americans.   Rev Karla emphasizes the importance of deconstructing ingrained beliefs and recognizing the interconnectedness of...

In this special podcast episode, enjoy a segment of Sundays with Rev Karla exploring the theme of "Honoring What Was" as we approach the holiday season. Rev Karla discusses All Saints Day, All Souls Day, and what it means to dread the holidays because of grief and sorrow and how you can set boundaries for yourself. She discusses how traditional religious practices often discourage genuine expressions of grief, pushing individuals to prioritize salvation and celebration over acknowledging...

In our latest Q&A series, Rev Karla answers your questions:   1. "Can you please talk about when people use an event like the wildfires and smoke to claim the scary apocalypse stuff and how do you finally free yourself from that?" 2. "How do you free yourself from the concept of hell?" 3. "In year four of deconstruction and doing much better, is it weird to still desire to be a part of a faith church community? Any ideas on moving forward?" 4. "Do you think most religious people feel...

In this episode of "Spirituality Matters," Rev Karla addresses the often-unspoken issue of women perpetuating patriarchy and the internalized misogyny that comes with it. Drawing from her personal experiences and observations, she sheds light on how women, at times, unknowingly uphold societal norms that suppress them. From confrontations on social media to real-life interactions, she highlights the importance of recognizing these patterns and the power of breaking free. For anyone who has...

In this special Part #7 Q&A episode, Rev Karla answers your personal questions:   How do you feel about atheism? Can you talk about forgiveness? I’ve tried AA so many times but they rely so heavily on trusting a higher power. Any advice for someone struggling with the same question?   You can listen to this podcast on all streaming platforms, read the blog version and transcript here, or watch the uncut version of today's episode on Rev Karla's YouTube Channel.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the transformative journey of deconstructing and it's role in discovering a more authentic spiritual path. If you've ever questioned your spiritual identity or felt a void without it, this episode is for you. We'll explore the significance of peeling away layers of indoctrination, the challenges of navigating the spiritual wilderness, and the ultimate reward: reclaiming your spirituality on your terms. Remember, organized religion is not the gatekeeper of...

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses finding gratitude in the grief and sadness of walking someone home at the end of life. Inspired by a moving encounter with an elderly woman, we explore how embracing gratitude can bring greater happiness, interconnectedness, and spiritual growth. She'll share these 5 practical ways to cultivate gratitude, while understanding the role grief plays in our lives when navigating challenges.   Embrace Impermanence and Appreciate the Present Shifting Focus from...

In this special podcast episode, Rev Karla answers these questions from her audience:   Question #1: “I have a question for you. Tell me if I am out of line. Do you still believe in God? Jesus? No judgment for me. I am on my own spiritual journey at the moment.” Question #2: “All my life I was taught that homosexuals go to hell. Can you please make a video explaining how you don't go to hell?” Question #3: “Hate the sin, not the sinner, is the only one I don't agree with. “I think that we...

In this new podcast, Rev Karla explores the profound concept of leading with love in every aspect of life. She recently was a guest on Jalon Johnson's podcast, Not Your Ordinary Parts. During their time together, Jalon made this impactful comment, "I just want to lead with love," which is the inspiration for this podcast.   Rev Karla discusses quotes from spiritual leaders who lead with love: Jesus, Buddha, Rumi, Thich Nhat Hanh, Gandhi, Lao Tzu, and she explores 10 principles she's developed...

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the destructive nature of toxic positivity and the impact of focusing on salvation and the afterlife rather than being present and addressing real human challenges. Toxic positivity, denies our genuine human emotions, diminishing the richness of our existence. While optimism is invaluable, true growth often emerges from acknowledging the moments when life isn't all sunshine. It's okay to not be okay—vulnerability and authenticity are powerful catalysts for...

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the five reasons the spiritual but not religious is a sacred path. We are breaking down misconceptions, sharing personal stories, and celebrating the beauty of diverse paths to the sacred. Rev Karla will expand on the five reasons the spiritual but not religious is a sacred and meaningful path by discussing:   1. Spirituality is not a one-size-fits-all endeavor. 2. Discovering a profound sense of liberation outside of church. 3. Embracing the direct...

In this special episode, Rev Karla answers your personal questions:   If hell isn’t real then Satan and demons wouldn’t be real. If that’s the case, why isn’t the world perfect without temptation? What’s god’s view on being gender fluid? I’ve been struggling feeling me being that way. does it line up with the bible? Why are you still a believer? I’m a happy go lucky atheist and can’t understand deity believers.   For more information and support along your spiritual journey visit our links...

In this episode titled "You Are a Life Force to Be Reckoned With," Rev Karla discusses the butterfly effect, chaos theory, and various forms of energy emitted by the human body, both measurable and subtle.   Rev Karla reflects on the interconnectedness of life and encourages listeners to embrace the potential to create positive shifts in their lives through conscious decision-making. She discusses the ripple effect of love and kindness and emphasizes the power of even small acts of goodness...

We are excited to share this special edition podcast: Sundays with Rev Karla. One of the most commonly asked questions Rev Karla receives is how can I reconnect with Sundays and find community while deconstructing? Each week Rev Karla will share new video teachings inside of her private community on Facebook: Rev Karla's Inner Circle. This community has monthly lives, exclusive content, and Q&A sessions all created to support you and your unique spiritual journey. We launch this series by...

In Part #4 Q&A episode of the Spirituality Matters Podcast, Rev Karla dives deep into thought-provoking topics and questions shared from our community. Join her as she explores mission trips, personal values, and even the concept of hell. Here's a glimpse of what to expect:   → Questioning the Effectiveness of Mission Trips → The Bastard Child Syndrome → Morality and Religion → Concept of hell and the existence of Satan   You can read the transcript to this episode HERE and watch the...

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the big difference a small beach mouse can have on an ecosystem and connects that to these small moments in our spirituality and humanity. Every moment matters and every person matters. You are significant. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version on YouTube.   For a list of full resources for this episode visit us online:  Rev Karla's Podcast → https://revkarla.com/podcast/   For more information...

In this special episode, Rev Karla answers your questions:   Do you (Rev Karla) believe in Jesus? Why do you seem angry and hurt at the church? Isn't it time to move on? What are your thoughts about how our country got into this mess? Why do so many churches with toxic theology hide behind the modern church theme?   You can read the transcript of this episode HERE and watch the uncut version of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube channel, Spirituality Matters.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the meaning of the quote, “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and other proverbs that are rooted in patriarchy, fear-based theology, and are used to control people and protect those in power. You can read more from Rev Karla on this in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version on Rev Karla's YouTube channel Spirituality Matters.   For a list of full resources for this episode visit us online:  Rev Karla's Podcast →...