In this episode Steph and Jay share why they took a short break from recording the podcast and all of the new happenings in their lives. From Jay's music career taking off to Steph discovering some things about herself, they managed to pull it together and share some incredible "life" facts that will have you thinking about how to do things differently in your relationship. We are so honored to be able to share our experiences, failures, and dedication to the Lord and one another and how...

...And why we decided to follow God and purity in our relationship. YES, even in our mid-40’s, after divorce, parenting, and all the things. What if purity can end all of the years of trauma that Steph experienced after she was assaulted at 15 or the “assumption” that a woman has to have sex to be valuable. And what if purity continues to heal patterns of sexual sin, guaranteeing the beauty of sex in marriage as it was created? We also chat about some of our very favorite friends and lis...

In this episode, Jay and Steph talk about how honest communication saved their relationship from being "too much, too soon" to just right.

The world: kids are resilient… Nah bruh. Kids are what you tell them they are. Kids are fragile. They are impressionable. They are easily confused. They are always looking for love and validation. They look for safety. A place where they can be a kid and not have to worry about grown problems. Kids need stability. They need explanations. They need hugs and hand holding. They need to be able to tell your their feelings and fears and have room to be excited and loud at times….  What you...

Meet STAY (Steph and Jay), two adults finding love in their mid 40's as they navigate what it looks like to incorporate faith, family, finances, and fitness in their relationship. Season 1, Episode 1 introduces you to who they are, how they met, and where they desire to take all things STAY.  So grab your coffee, press play, and prepare to be charmed by the laughs and deep conversations alike. 

In episode 7 Jay and Steph break down the Armor of God verses found in Ephesians 6. Listen in on how Jay breaks down every piece of armor and what Paul intended for it to mean not only when he wrote it, but how it relates to us today. Steph shares a book about the Armor of God that she's studying in a weekly women's bible study that she helps to lead and the two of them can't get through a full hour of "serious" discussion without cracking up over one of their antics. Enjoy as you embark on a...

This week's episode is a sequel to last week's discussion. Jay discusses how he is the "by-product" of being raised by an emotionally masculine female and how it has impacted his life into adulthood. The pair also discuss how a godly woman serves as a reflection of her spouse's leadership, and Steph opens up about what happens to her body when she eats meat. See you at the deli department!

Steph and Jay have a conversation about the current epidemic of the masculine female. Listen to how they share their experiences and offer advice in this in- depth discussion…of course this doesn’t come without a few laughs attached!

In episode 4 we talk about the importance of making lists. In fact lists are so important that Steph submitted the list of her ideal man to a match maker prior to meeting Jay.  Well, we have that list…and we thought it would be entertaining to see how Jay compares to Steph’s dream stud! As you know, it’s never a dull moment with these two, so buckle up for some belly laughs and beautiful conversation! #STAY Season 1, Episode 4