In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra discusses the common desire for someone to just make those hard life decisions for us. She delves into the concept of the cliff analogy in relationships: visualizing a Grand Canyon-style drop when things go awry with the goal of staying in the meadow, even when small steps can push us closer to the edge. Kendra shares her personal experiences and emphasizes the need to navigate through decisions on our own as no one can make choices for us. If you're struggling, this episode will help face the challenge of decision-making and the realization that we are in control of our own decisions.    TIMESTAMPS: [00:00:23] Can Somebody Please Just Tell Me What To Do? [00:02:29] Relationship cliff concept. [00:05:16] Prioritizing self-care in relationships. [00:07:22] Mother-daughter relationship dynamics. [00:11:54] Communication in marriage challenges. [00:15:16] Meeting needs in relationships. [00:19:19] Choosing yourself in tough decisions. [00:21:55] Trusting your intuition in relationships. [00:27:27] Choosing Yourself Over Others.   LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe