I was a bachelor for many years, only living for myself. I think (external success is a much easier game when you are going at it solo)… You can put your head down and eliminate all "distractions". What we forget to think about is that sometimes what we consider a distraction is actually the most important piece of our life. That was my story at the start of my relationship, and I will share how I changed that narrative.  In this podcast, we will talk about why it is necessary to get clear and declare what you truly need as an individual. So many men and couples will not articulate what they need to their partner because they don’t want to create friction or conflict. This can lead to codependency, and the next thing you know 5 years into your relationship you have become resentful and don’t feel yourself. Often, that will lead to overcompensating actions and/or defence mechanisms that lead to poor behaviour.  This episode is filled with strategies and concepts that will enable you to create a life vision that inspires you and that embodies you and your partner's individual needs and desires. There doesn't need to be a sacrifice. You and your partner can have it all!   If you have any questions, want to connect, or want to work with me, I'd love to hear from you. Send me an email to,  [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joel.mahe.5 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joelmahe/?hl=en   Enjoy!   Joel